Me and my girlfriend have been together two years. Loved each other dearly. Had our bumps and obsticals like all couples but nothing ever too incredibly drastic. We were sure to get married one day and be together forever etc. etc.. However recently shes been saying that I have pushed her away slowly. Then she said she thought she needed to date other people to be sure im the one to spend her life with. After hearing that i made a lot of changes and righted a lot of wrongs. But then she said she thinks she doesnt love me as much anymore, maybe even only as a friend. Please, if anyone has any serious advice as to how i can win her back, im desparate and open to anything to get back the love of my life.
2007-07-26 08:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by Noah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Noah, you can't change another's feelings. If you two are meant to be together, then it will be so. If not, be greatful for the times you had together and let her go.
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, they are yours, if they don't, they never were.
2007-07-26 08:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling, i am sorry for what you are going through, but you can't make someone love you, it seems your girlfriend wants to seek different adventures out there, you can't hold on to her if she doesn't feel right being with you. I think you both sit down and talk about this you put your feelings forward, and listen to your girlfriend.. from there.. Maybe the best thing is give each other some space, what is the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder. Just follow your heart, and sometimes things can be going so well, and all of a sudden it is not there anymore, things change, circumstances change and people change, better to find this out now then later.. Be strong, be patient, remember you have a life too, spend time with your friends don't isolate yourself worrying about this 24/7.. believe me it won't be easy, i have been through it, sometimes if it comes you might even have to let go.. I am sorry but i am only making you see the truth. Good luck, if you need to talk my email add ruksanapatel@hotmail.co.uk.
2007-07-26 16:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my boyfriend of almost five years a few months ago. After I told him how I felt, he just said, "I love you." He said he respected my feelings and admired me so much for being honest and discussing my concerns with him.
I was so shocked that he didn't get angry or irrationally upset that I knew in that moment how special he really was, and I hope that maybe in the future things will work out for us.
2007-07-26 17:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by adrinage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could spice up your relationship take her to places that you went to when you first started dating. Take her on a vacation. Let her know everyday that you love her and you respect her. If she does not want to do anything with you then you have probably already lost her, and you have to let go.
2007-07-26 16:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Candace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her why don t you ask her to marry you
2007-07-26 16:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by StarsShineBright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is it sure? did you buy her a diamond and propose?
talk is cheap dear..she got tired of waiting....sorry it isnt good..
2007-07-26 16:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋