I luv my man and all, but i met this other guy and he was a real gentleman, you no, so we got together and now he is asking me to leave my man or we have to stop having sex. I luv my man, but the sex just isnt freaky, u no?
I try to tell him i need to get satisfied, but he won't take a hint. Now i don't know what to do, stay with my man who looks after me and crap, or leave him for the other guy who actually understand how to get down with it?
It's not fair, i told him i needed proper sexual fufillment but at the same time i feel really guilty and bad. What do i do? I think he's properlly upset.
So which one? I'm a red blooded female, but my man looks after me
2007-07-26 08:47:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetie u have to do what is best for you and you only. Ask urself this question: At the end of the day, who makes you happy? and not just sexually, is it worth giving up the dude that u luv for a good, well u no. And can see urself with this new dude, potentially luvin him one day? Maybe u should try teaching ya mans how to get down like u want it, before u give up on him, remember not all dudes look out for u these dayz.
2007-07-26 09:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apparently DON'T love your man or the thought of cheating with another wouldn't have EVEN crossed your mind! Leave the guy and GROW UP.....sex is NOT the only thing that makes a relationship desireable or great. With the cheating aside you two OBVIOUSLY don't connect.....he can't satisfy you the way you feel you "need" to be. I personally think you are being a slight bit selfish because the only reason you are with the poor guy is because he "....looks after me and crap". Would you really like it if the things you are doing for another is described as CRAP. Move on.
2007-07-26 08:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing, you won't last with either one of them. For a relationship to work, you need three types of stimulation : Physical, Intellectual, and Emotional. If any of the three are lacking or missing, it doesn't work out. Think about it. If you've had past relationships that didn't work, was it because one or more of the three factors were missing?
Sit down with your man and have a very serious talk with him and tell him this relationship can go south if you don't work your Physical part. The other guy is just a side piece. Figure out things with your man first before going any further with the side piece.
2007-07-26 08:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me give you a bit of good advice from voice of experience have you ever heard of the saying that the grass is not always greener on the other side well let me tell you that is so true as for the sex that is not the bee all and end all you have to talk about it with the man that is good to you not the man that is good in bed because believe me it will wear of then you got a man that will go and cheat on you because believe me when he gets bored with you he why don't you give him a wide birth and stick with the man that is good to you because they are 2 a penny work on your sex life and find a way of satisfying your need during intercourse with that good man its true what they say a well is never missed until its dry
2007-07-26 09:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your man, I know that he might be good in bed but think about it all for you know he could use you for sex. Threatining people for not having sex is just so weird and sick! If you wanted sex why dont you do it to your man?? I would stay with the man that cares for you most. Not understands you that you want sex. You can have sex with your partner! If he is upset comfort him. I want to say DON'T CHEAT!!!
The one that looks after you and crap lol the one you was really meant to be with.
Good Luck
2007-07-26 08:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot the part where you state that you are a SHALLOW red blooded female. If you choose sex over love and stability, you need to let your man go so he can find someone who treats him the way he deserves to be treated and that is faithfully, not staying with some tramp that cheats!
2007-07-26 08:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget all this crap advie sweets!
Let me break it down - you deserve the best, you a ferrari not a renault! Ok as my sista lil kim, remy ma, and foxy brown would advice YOU NEED A REAL MAN, not a one-minute foolio.
You don't wana be hangin round no man that dont satisfie you, go after what YOU want, not what some wishy washy top contributor lady advices!
YOU GOT ONE LIFE - LIVE IT!!! and forget the haters! hope all the tings dem goes well peace
2007-07-26 13:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amachronic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should stay with the man who you believe will be able to provide for you and cater to your needs, dont stay with your man just because he is the safest option and he will look after you ask your self if you love this other man and if you do and you think you will last in a long relationship then go for him but if you dont stick with your man.
2007-07-26 08:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Im Such A Whore :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend, there is more to life than sex.You need to develope other areas of your relationship as well.It's quite obvious that you prefer good sex to love but just remember that what goes around comes around.This guy will also leave you oneday if he finds a girl whose "triangle" is not as open as yours!!!
2007-07-26 11:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is like you are my twin,i am actually in the same situation right now.what you have to understand is which of this two guys love you the most,you are carried away by the new guy for now because it normal to like new things,every guy is good in bed when you guide them.i advice you to stick with your first man if you know inside that he loves and tolerate your bad habit(every one has a bad side) than the other guy.
2007-07-26 09:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by doris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋