instead of going for the guy who will treat them like a lady - respectfully, etc ?/??? - And women know that it is true !!!!! So if you are a nice guy then should u expect to be sh*tted on ??
2007-07-26 06:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by questions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not always true. I like a nice guys. Although, I'd like one to be mean like in a playful sense, nothing serious. I wouldn't want a guy who was nice in bed though...aggressive is the way to go.
2007-07-26 06:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely go for the guys who treat me like crap...i have no idea why though. it's not like it's a conscious decision, the guys i end up liking just seem to always turn out to be a**holes. not that i'm blaming it on guys, there is obviously something wrong with me lol or at least the way i'm meeting guys and the fact that i seem to attract the wrong kind of guys for me. i wish i had some advice for you..i don't really except to hang in there, i have hope that nice girls like me who end up with bad guys will eventually stop being so stupid and go for the nice guys we claim to want.
2007-07-26 13:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. "Nice guys" are boring, and usually manipulative. Think about it:
"I bought this girl all this nice stuff and complimented her on everything and supplicated to her like crazy, WHY WON'T SHE SLEEP WITH ME?!" Because seriously, all the "niceness" just telegraphs sexual interest. It's obvious what you're after, and being uber-nice is boring anyway.
Women don't respect doormats. Don't be one.
2007-07-26 13:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well thats not always correct its not that the dont like nice guys its just that sometimes you men are two nice .You see I us woman we like a challange we dont like a guy who do everythinng we want we want them to have a mind of there own. So stop acting like a wuzz and believe me you will get a girl
2007-07-26 13:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dodgerchik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly this stems from low self esteem. Many of us are attracted to the jerks. And it takes many years and heart aches to learn from our mistake...But by that time, all the nice guys are taken!
2007-07-26 13:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Enchanted One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahah i am guilty as charged !
i always goo for the a$$holes.
but don't get me wrong, me and the other girls realise this after we get hurt.. that the nice guy would have done so much better !
just hang in there, we will realise it after getting hurt a few times !
good luck =)
2007-07-26 13:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by kelly ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do.. many don't... I have never dated or married a woman like the ones you are describing...
2007-07-26 13:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different girls like different guys some girls like the bad guys because they want to fix them which never works out because people aren't very open to change
2007-07-26 13:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥amy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause some girls are restarted, they go for looks...and they dont mind being treated like sh!t
its something lots of girls do....and afterwards you regret it so much
2007-07-26 13:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by lissete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the men tell them lies like
"no one will love you like i do because you.."
1. fat
2. controlling
3. ugly
4. rude
etc.
or "if you leave me , you' ll never find someone like me "
its not that they can't leave , its that they're being tricked after they're
abused
beaten
talked to rudely
mistreated
stuff like that
2007-07-26 13:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by cutie_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋