We've had an up and down relationship. But I know he loves me, at least he did. I just have this gut feeling that we are going towards a bad breakup soon or later. I need to tell him and help myself get over him.
2007-07-26 02:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by Cecilia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him about, the worst you can do it let him keep treating you badly
if he still acts insensitive you dont deserve that and you should end it
2007-07-26 02:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that he is going to break up with you. i think you guys are just getting so used to each other that he doesnt find anything different and new about you that makes it exciting. try doing something that you usually wont do in front or around him and make sure that he notices you when you do it. just spice things up a bit but ot too much. he just wants something a little more exciting because every relationship has its up and downs. if you stick with him, im sure you guys will be able to have a good relationship together. try talking to him about it and ask him why has he been acting that way, but dont just start to acuse him of doing anything wrong (such as cheating on you), but just sit down alone with him someplace and just sort of talk things over. this will show him that you love him and u care aboout him and his problems. if none of this works, then unfortunately he is over u and he needs to move on. if that happens, then dont let it bother u. just ask him if u guys can at least stay as friends and he might someday come back to u.
2007-07-26 02:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by KelSexyBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him without going around the bush, but still with care. Tell him that it would be best to give each other some space or a breathing space.
As for getting over.. It's easier to face it with an open mind and heart. Tell yourself, IT"S OVER. Cry if you feel like crying... But after that, make sure to pull yourself together. Drop everything and start all over again, as they say. Don't blame yourself or him for that matter, because hate has a strong hold, and you wouldn't be able to be over him fast. Treat yourself to a spa, go on a vacation, be with happy company.. And eventually, you'll be free from the feeling, and you can start going out on dates again.. Good luck!
2007-07-26 02:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kaye Bennette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi...
i just answered another, similar question and i'm going to say the same thing here...
just because two people love each other, does not mean they are compatible. sometimes personalities clash, and people have a rough time making compromises....
it takes two to make a relationship and it's also necessary to talk about things when there are issues. sometimes we have to agree to disagree, and when we can't, maybe it IS time to move on.
it takes time to get over a relationship... you can help yourself along by keeping occupied with other things (hobbies, friends a class, etc) outside of the relatinship.
i am sorry you're having a rough time, hon.
2007-07-26 02:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you tell him and get on with your life the sooner you can start on getting over him,don't let this end in a abusive relationship
2007-07-26 02:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through that alot.. and trust me.. if the love is there.. then it only gets better.. trust me.. that 2 year milestone.. thats a big hump.. but its up to you.. cause i am not going to tell you what to do
2007-07-26 02:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Carrolyn <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for?
the only person will give you the right answer is your boyfreind
2007-07-26 02:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Untouchable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie if your going to be
2007-07-26 02:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋