me and my ex bf broke up for very dumb reasons... i have still been seeing him every few days or so. He says he misses me like crazy and he has thought about coming back but he doesn't know if he should or if he should just move on. I am not sure if I should hang on and see what happens or if I should let him move on and have no contact with him. he also says that he is not worried about us right now and he wants to do his own thing. what should I do I love this man more than anything and I know I have done really dumb things to him to make him leave... but talking is not doing anything and he says that I cant do anything to bring him back he is going to have to make up his own mind but right now it is pointing to no. Please help my heart is breaking everyday!
2007-07-26 02:30:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi... sorry about the break up.
maybe your boyfriend doesn't want to hurt you, so he is stringing you along without realizing it
just because two people love each other, doesn't always mean they are compatible....
perhaps find things to do to keep yourself occupied, do things with friends, and family. get out, socialize... maybe find a hobby or outside activity (the gym, a karate class, ect).
take care. i'm sorry you're feeling heartbroken.
2007-07-26 02:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is buying time and holding your heart with a shoe string you cant let him pull it as he pleases you need to decide for how long you intend to allow him to play marionette with your feelings you will hurt and cry for days but hanging on only takes more from you eventually
2007-07-26 02:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by judie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have the choice to hurt now or hurt later...if you are not meant for each other..you will still lose him in the future. so better set him free and wait ..if he comes back he is yours if he doesnt he never was yours to begin with..
2007-07-26 02:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by isabella1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋