I’m 20, about to be engaged. We’ve had sex and it’s like the more and more I fall in love with him the harder it is to think about him with 3 other women previously, doing the same stuff to them as to me... I’ve been with one, and he’s forgiven me, I’ve forgiven him, etc, and he knows this. How do I know he isn’t comparing me? I already feel insecure about myself because of this, but before I met him, I didn’t. Please please help……
2007-07-26 02:46:59 · 4 answers · asked by lysendon20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's with you isn't he? Your the one almost engaged to him not his ex's. Which means that even if he is comparing you he is more impressed with you not them.
2007-07-26 02:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kristy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and this q' could apply to us also. I don't like the thought of my g/f with someone else. But it's reality... You should understand that what you like is what you like, and you probably did something with your ex that you'd still like doing with your current b/f. If you're engaged then it doesn't matter if he's comparing you because be chose you, not them. He's probably not.
2007-07-26 10:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's truely in love with you, he won't be comparing you. He's already proposed, he's chosen to be with YOU, not them. You've already won. Don't worry about the other girls. They are long gone.
Just enjoy your relationship, and be confident that he loves you, no matter who else he's been with.
2007-07-26 09:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by agentm006 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You think to much--
Forget about the past--it's over..
Work on the relationship you are in right now-- it is the only one that matters.
2007-07-26 10:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋