Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

I can't get over some of the mistake I've made in my life, and I really shouldn't be worried about Jr. High anymore because I am in college, but I can't help but to still feel horrible about.

Any suggestions?

It's not even bad stuff it's just stupid stuff

2007-07-26 02:25:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just curious... any body had good experiences somewhere totally random?

2007-07-26 02:25:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-26 02:23:31 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my gf for around 2+ years now and I think I want to take the step and buy her the engagement ring. How much would you spend? When someone says, spend what you can "afford" what does one actually mean by "afford"? Should I take into account that her family "has done "a lot" for me"

2007-07-26 02:19:52 · 37 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1 in Weddings

used to know a girl when I was a shorty (family friends) but we never used to actually speak to each other, but I used to go play with her younger brother a lot. 20 years later I saw her while I was overseas (we now in our late 20's). We went out to dinner and theatre to catch up. She told me when we were little she didn't speak to me as she didn't know what to talk to me about. Now we get along pretty well and we talked for hours - she told me about the past and what she been upto since. I payed for dinner so she asked if I mind if she pay for theatre. I notice she put her hand in my pocket so she can see the money clip I use. when I suggested I send her something when I got back as a thank you gift, we stopped at her place and she gave me a gift to take home. She hug me goodbye.

I sent her books coz she reads and she went and told her family members and now her older brother is upset because he feels left out.

Can you plz translate her signs that a man can understand?

2007-07-26 02:19:47 · 7 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family

i've been in a 7 year relationship. we've recently broke up. this past week, he has been calling me 2-3 times a day, leaving me msgs like "im in trouble, pick up".. but, he is seeing another already. i cant and dont want to speak to him because it still hurts... plus, why talk if he has "moved on"? so, a few days ago, i changed my cell phone number. but i feel sorta sad. what can i do to feel better. im not ready to speak to him or any of his friends. why do i feel this way?

2007-07-26 02:19:26 · 13 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

v are of the same sex and she is elder to me she talks well to everybody

2007-07-26 02:18:59 · 5 answers · asked by ice4u 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have come to a place where we don't like each other to much. I know we love and care for each others well being,but we don't talk much without argueing. And sex is next to none. I have a great libdo, but i stay so upset with her that I am not attracted to her. Any suggestions?

2007-07-26 02:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-26 02:17:37 · 19 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family

I am a 22-year-old guy. Recently, I won my tribunal. My mom said I won because Buddha has looked after me. She said " I promise Buddha to take me to the temple if I win the tribunal. She asked me to worship Buddha with her in the temple next Sunday. I said I am not a Buddhist and not interested in it. Then she said I still need to go because I'm her son.She said no matter what religion a person practises, he/she needs to say " hi " to Buddha once they entered a temple. She also said I didn't respect her. She also threatened to cut off her financial aid to my undergraduate course fees . She lost her temper and said I will go to hell one day.

I feel offended because I think she tries to impose her religious view on me .Is it weird for me to feel offened ?


Also, what should I do now ? Any suggestions ?

2007-07-26 02:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel my relationship is based on sex but my boyfriend takes things the wrong way how can i make sex a special thing instead of just sex!

2007-07-26 02:16:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and came home with a few "toys" what would you do? I did this yesterday & he was not interested. He lso started an argument with me for no appearent reason. We have bought toys before & watched porn before (twice), but now he is not interested. The thing is the other day he decided to look at nude pics on the net (boobs mainly) so I bought him the porn sort of as a joke. He is also seeming less interested in sex lately & has taken to drinking more than usual. (Usual being a few beers in the evening a few days a week.)

Is this normal? Are there some guys that just dont like that kind of thing? Can a man seriously not take the hint when a woman brings this sort of stuff home? What is that supposed to mean? He says it was nothing.

2007-07-26 02:15:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I want to have sex it seems like my husband doesnt most of the time. Then when it is his idea its like it only last for maybe 5 min. Im tiered of gettin all worked up for well nothin. Last night I let him know in little ways that it was bothering me and he cuddled with me witch is not a normal thing. So what do I do I want sex! Like good SEX! Is it me? What can I do to change this? Please nice answers only. I have read some pretty mean ones in the past.

2007-07-26 02:15:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for four years. My husband and I have been through a lot of bs together, but most of it was brought on by him. Things are starting to look a little better, but with everything that we've gone through, I just can't deal with him anymore. I'm not in love with him anymore. I've tried a few times to tell him that I couldn't do this anymore, and he won't let me leave. He says "I can't believe you think things aren't any better when I can see our future looking brighter." I'm just numb. I feel trapped. I don't feel like his wife, I feel like his mother. I don't want to do this anymore, but I can't make myself say goodbye.

2007-07-26 02:11:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok. my sister is 14 right now, and hardly has no boobs. Were very close sisters because were 18 months apart. So she told me what she wanted for her graduation gift from me. She told me she wants a boob job. I told her she will not be getting this beacuse she doesnt meed it. She looks beautiful the way she is. Well she still wants one. What do i do. I really dont want her to get one, and i think it causes like breast infections or cancer or something like that. What do i do!!

2007-07-26 02:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We both enjoy each others company but are both in real relationships. i don't want to come in between him and his wife but we have feelings for each other, and we talk everyday. help I don't know what to do. I don't blame myself for this because he just told me he was married and I did not know it at first.

2007-07-26 02:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have periods, mood swings we cant control, we cant even understand ourselves, have to give birth, losing virginity is painful, small nobs are no pain but no pleasure, big nobs pound us in and take all our energy away, we have to suffer the menopause, when a teenager we have to suffer guys gorping at our nice hips and breasts and we have to drink salty loads!

Blokes have to put up with a bit of nagging and can unload all over us or in us with almost no consequence!

Tell me is this fair?

2007-07-26 02:10:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is on crack but i love him very much he act like he hate me. his mind was already bad. but he is very good to me very respetful he help me when no one else would but at the time i didnt appreicate him because ithought he was like my old boyfriend what could ido?

2007-07-26 02:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you look for in a girl?? i really like this guy and i dont know what to do to get him, tell me what you love when girls "want" you what do you want them to say or whatever, i want to know how to make him like me and i dont know what to do!!!!

2007-07-26 02:09:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you could do one thing for your mother what whould it be

2007-07-26 02:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by gclovespinkshoes 1 in Family

shes a freakin *** and a total *****

2007-07-26 02:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was only married for 1 month and know i made the worst mistake of my life..... he will not detest it

2007-07-26 02:06:58 · 7 answers · asked by jano4657 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for about 5 years and been together for about 8. Since the baby came the sex has pretty much disappeared. We're down to once a month or less. That's for about the past 4 years.
I do fool around from time to time. If the fridge is empty you gotta eat out, ya know.
My Q is,is that something that happens to other couples too?? I mean, my wife is still the sexiest women on earth to me. But we just don't do it enough. Can I expect things to turn around?

2007-07-26 02:05:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's this really cute guy my friend likes. i don't know him in person, but with my friend always talking about him whenever i see her, it's really hard to say i don't want to meet him in person. but if i do meet him in person she wants to know if he would go out with her, but she doesn't want to ask him herself. so i wanted to know if anyone knows how to get him to go out with someone he is always around, but only thinks of them as a friend. i would love it if someone could answer my question!!!!! thank you sooooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-26 02:04:59 · 1 answers · asked by famlychick 1 in Friends

2007-07-26 02:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 02:00:58 · 24 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife (who is French and an above average woman) and I agreed to a weight clause for her when we married. She was under the 125 mandated weight for the first 3 years, but I have noticed that lately she is starting to creep in at 124 1/2 and even 124 3/4.

Well, yesterday morning she finally did the wrong thing. She weighed in for me at 125 1/2. She managed to take a hot shower and walk for an hour, so she did get back under 125 officially. But is this going to be a problem now? How do I handle it?

In the official pre-nuptial agreement, I have a legal right to divorce and keep all of my earning if she went above 125 for a full day. Should I be letter of law on this, or is it okay to give her a break? I just want to set a good example for our daughter.


God Bless you people!

2007-07-26 02:00:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my family the most because every one loves their girlfriends or boyfriends....... So different from them /i love my family...

2007-07-26 01:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by Shifaa 1 in Family

I've been dating a guy for 8 months now, but it feels like so much longer. We've spent maybe 2 days apart the whole time, and spend every free hour we have with each other.

I understood that when we first started dating it hadn't been that long since his last serious relationship. They had been dating 2 years and were engaged. He told me towards the end he didn't love her, but I wanted to make sure things weren't rushed between us ( like engagement and talking about it)because of his past, but for awhile I couldn't help bringing it up. He told me he wasn't ready, which I understood, he was probably still healing from her breaking up with him for someone else.

Recently he's been really sweet and mushy, and last night he told me he was ready, knew how he wanted to do it and what he wanted to say, but just doesn't have money for a ring. This is a really big change for him, because before he was so uncertain of it. He knew he wanted to, just wasn’t ready and didn't know why.

2007-07-26 01:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by Łøνε-α-Łøт 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and sometimes guys feel me up but i dont stop them.

Is that being to easy.But like if he trys to completly take my shirt off i wil lsay no.

still am i being to easy??? he still didnt ask me out. should i continue to let him do this>

2007-07-26 01:55:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating