We have periods, mood swings we cant control, we cant even understand ourselves, have to give birth, losing virginity is painful, small nobs are no pain but no pleasure, big nobs pound us in and take all our energy away, we have to suffer the menopause, when a teenager we have to suffer guys gorping at our nice hips and breasts and we have to drink salty loads!
Blokes have to put up with a bit of nagging and can unload all over us or in us with almost no consequence!
Tell me is this fair?
2007-07-26 02:10:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. having t odeal with a person who complains about everything is hard work - and very sapping of wanting to pleasant with them (too busy waiting for that next stab or emotional attack)
2. ever heard of sympathertic conidtion - some blokes get some very similar symptoms - and with someone like you around god help us if we admit to it
3. you might have all that with nobs - try thinking about the whole emotional rubbish blokes go through over having one .. if its small that devestates his confidance from day one, or normal sized even (most blokes only know about wats writ on pages we dont know from experience - so if some girl starts insultin it really isnt nice - but that stuff is more for the younger less expereinced
4. we have to put up wiht women that make out that men never grow up and or are emotionally unstable or unreceptive - on that I forward you as an example to the contrary
5. you have to drink salty loads - um no thats a choice thing - you dont even have to put your mouth there - but then just think how sloppy your mess gets on our faces when we give as good as we get ... mmm?
6. we can unload with out consequence? no I dont think so - you can do yours jsutr as much and a child if it becomes apart of the picture is a huge responisbility for both men and women - and if he does run - in the uk we have something called the CSA - child support agency, you can take him to court instead and have a paternty test done, and if confirmed he will have to pay- thats not exactly without consequence is it? (I suppose it is tho if oyu slept with so many you dont have a clue which one to try and track down and cant remeber which of them was which any way ... but thats your choice).
you actually have less consequnce - you can use a wide manner of prtectiion, contraction and if you ahave got pregnant - the man who is half responisible (you are also reponisble too) doenst actually ahve a choice on keeping the child - its legally taken to be your body (and child) only and therefore your choice alone - but once born - he has t opay regardless ...
7. you can always be sure the child is yours ... how can we as men be so sure, with out a test? our certantity is based totally on trust with out one ... think about that
8. while your giving many men put their hand in yours and stand there trying to be encouraging - trusting you wont decided that its all his fault and try and take it out on him - oddly most men wouldnt wish that on a woman (in terms of the pain) but quite a lot of women have tryed to get pregnant to trap a man ....
I think you'll find life just isnt fair to any one, its not mens fault that life for a woman is the way it is, and vice versa on some things, tho by the sounds things you can control wether you nag or not. stop being ignorant and actually look around you - and stop blaming people for your own situations that you ahve made your self.
try getting along with people - and seeing your not a victim - tho you have as much opportunity to make victims of men as men do of you - tho by your generalistions and maturity displayed- grow up.
2007-07-26 02:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made women stronger emotionally to cope with all these things, but we do have a choice about some of them. I think men are starting to get the picture that we are not just pretty toys for them to play with, we have brains and can live on our own, with or without children, without their support, We even have sex toys in whatever size and colour we want - but they're not able to give us a kiss or a cuddle. And they can't lift heavy things!!
2007-07-26 02:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is simple as this....God knows that woman can handle a hard life that they take that lemons in life and make lemonade. I am sorry if you are having a tough spot in life right now. Guys do not have it that easy either, life in general rather you are male or female is hard! We just have to suck it up and make the best out of the hand we are dealt!!!
2007-07-26 02:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by NickNick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its not fair. but look at it this way: we can create another human being with our body. guys cant. we can have a bond with our children that a guy cannot possibly understand. we have the ability to feel a person growing inside us and support a life system all on our own. so all of those things we have to suffer through, all make it possible for us to experience the joys of someday creating life:) thats one way to look at it
2007-07-26 02:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by lil333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I find it really hard being a woman! So I understand you! It seems that women have loads of responsibility! I always wonder why God make me a woman but I guess it's for the better. Coz women are always stronger, believe it.
2007-07-26 02:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your crazy. You don't have to lift heavy objects, you don't have to pay for dates. If the police pull you over you can cry and get out of the ticket. You decide weather to have a child or not. The man can't do that.
2007-07-26 02:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, men have alot more problems then we have, they have periods too, mood swings, they cant even understand themselves, they dont know where to turn and how to turn back, men dont know when there coming or going. Trust me god didnt make being a woman so hard some of women make being a woman hard.
2007-07-26 03:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Works both ways sweetheart - as you say yourself - but consider the facts - we have to put up with your monthly moods, you don't understand yourself, so how are we supposed to - men also have the 'male menopause' in their own way and we have to deal with the female menopause as well. No one forces you to drink salty loads - if you don't like it - simple, don't do it.
AND I QUOTE FROM YOUR OWN WORDS ON YOUR PROFILE - 'love going out with my friends and checking out cute guys' - so you like checking out guys but don't like them checking you out - YOU CAN'T have it both ways.
2007-07-26 02:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cus we ate the apple girl!
lol.
I love being a girl.
Being a girl can be a pain sometimes, but we get all the good looks, products, SHOPPINGGGGGG, relaxing places (like a spa..). And sometimes we are even STRONGer than the males!!
2007-07-26 02:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes we have a rough life yet there is always some one worse off.I think blokes are bigger moaners than woman.
2007-07-26 02:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋