My wife (who is French and an above average woman) and I agreed to a weight clause for her when we married. She was under the 125 mandated weight for the first 3 years, but I have noticed that lately she is starting to creep in at 124 1/2 and even 124 3/4.
Well, yesterday morning she finally did the wrong thing. She weighed in for me at 125 1/2. She managed to take a hot shower and walk for an hour, so she did get back under 125 officially. But is this going to be a problem now? How do I handle it?
In the official pre-nuptial agreement, I have a legal right to divorce and keep all of my earning if she went above 125 for a full day. Should I be letter of law on this, or is it okay to give her a break? I just want to set a good example for our daughter.
God Bless you people!
2007-07-26 02:00:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-07-26 03:10:01 · update #1
wow- weigh shouldn't be that much of an issue. This sounds like a made up story but I guess there are a few of you weirdos out there. You don't need to be with her if you over react over something stupid like weight. You relationship should be more than that.
2007-07-26 02:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you added this in a pre-nup then its important to you and she seems to go along with this.? I think you should only think about her health and your daughter health the weight limit stuff is not important. You guys may want talk to a nutritionist or some kind of counselor for eating disorders because whenever she goes over 125 she takes hot showers and walk it won't be long before she starts throwing it up.
2007-07-26 03:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweetluv2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope this is a damn joke.If not then you sure are one piece of work.If you actually put a prenuptial aggreement with a weight clause that should have been a big red flag for her to walk away from you.It sounds to me all your worried about is having your "trophy wife" and you dont really love her.If you did her weight would not matter unless it was a health issue and she was pushing 300.125 is not that bad.And how dare you say you want to set a good example for your daughter in fact your doing the opposite.basically what you are telling her right now is that she has to be perfect like a barbie and if not then she will lose everything.Do you want your baby growing up and actually believing and relying on her looks or gee maybe you might throw her into being an anorexic.grow up and be a real man.and while your at it maybe you need to get yourself a penis extension.
2007-07-26 02:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's stupid! I can't believe that you would even consider divorce over something like how much your wife weighs!
Setting a good example for your daughter would be to support your wife. If you were afraid of having a wife that might gain some weight during your married years, you should have saved some money and got a blow-up doll!
2007-07-26 02:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Shorty♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe this is an issue for you. you state that you would like to be a good example for your daughter, well lets try teaching you daughter the value of love. Also, I mean if you love your wife something that insignificant as a few and I do mean a few pounds should not matter. Only thing that I am getting from all of this is that you want some type of way out because that is ridiculous.
2007-07-26 02:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by M Series 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be nice about it, buy her a membership to Shapes fitness center, and tell her you've heard they have a great hot tub there, and you thought she'd like a nice place to take fitness classes and make sense...that or keep a supply of laxatives in the house- great way to drop a couple lbs real quick...
What happened to the marginally adequate european? Is she above average this week cause she made an extra tasty dinner? Or are you trying your hand at bigamy? Have you heard from Miss Korean Mistress you had deported?
2007-07-26 06:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SET A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR YOUR DAUGHTER?????????? THE BEST EXAMPLE YOU COULD SET FOR YOUR DAUGHTER IS TO NEVER FIND A MAN-ASSHOLE LIKE YOU FOR A HUSBAND! You should treat her with respect her anyway because it was hard for her to give life to that beauitful child that both of you made, you shallow piece of living crap. I cannot believe you even posted this you lowlife. I hope to gawd she dumps your ugly a s s out by the p h u c c i n g dumpster you ugly, short sighted, short weenied piece of p h u c c i n g crap. Believe it or not, you are not that and a bag of chips too and I don't even care what you look like toad stool. You a s s h o l e! How can you say that about a woman you agreed to love and had a beautiful child with and did marry? You so suck big caulk! You give all of the real men a bad name....well, at least mine ain't like you. YOU S U C K!
2007-07-26 02:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see so many things wrong here that I don't know where to start. If you love your wife, why would you even have to ask if you should divorce her because she went above the limit you set for her--of course I would not let my husband tell me how much I should weigh--but that is a completely different issue. Anyway--if you lover her, it shouldn't be an issue even if it is in the prenup. And really--what kind of example are you setting for your daughter--you are teaching her that it is ok for a man to tell her how to look and that is a very bad lesson to be teaching to a child.
2007-07-26 02:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are crazy! That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard of! I can't believed she actually agreed and married you! Get over yourself who do you think you are..god or something? Your that weird that you would want to have control over somebodys life like that? Like your some deserving king.. you are the king of pigs is about all buddy. I hope she leaves you and is free to be her self and not having you check out her weight like some kind of freak. You are causing more harm to your daughter than good, you will have her growing up to be self conscious of her body and become some twig with eating disorders and eventually die all because of your big head. Grow up!
2007-07-26 04:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a very shallow man. If you truly loved this woman, it wouldn't matter what she weighs, only that she is healthy and happy. You'd be doing her a favor if you did divorce her. Why she'd want to be married to a dictator like you (emphasis on the DIC part) is beyond me.
Oh and hey, way to go, putting your daughter on the road to an eating disorder! You should win father (and husband!) of the year!
2007-07-26 02:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Christie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a weight clause!? my god are you shallow! No woman in her right mind would ever enter into something like that. set a good example for your daughter by LOVING you wife no matter what and accepting that weight gain happens to the best of everyone.
2007-07-26 02:18:38 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋