im 14 and sometimes guys feel me up but i dont stop them.
Is that being to easy.But like if he trys to completly take my shirt off i wil lsay no.
still am i being to easy??? he still didnt ask me out. should i continue to let him do this>
2007-07-26 01:55:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He once asked for a LAP DANCE
but i thought it ould be to far doing that
2007-07-26 01:57:30 · update #1
he KEPT asking me for a lap dance but i said no
i made the right decision right?
2007-07-26 02:02:00 · update #2
i really like him though
2007-07-26 02:03:19 · update #3
You should not continue to let him or anyone do this to you . Yes you were right by telling him no about the dance. At your age you are a good candidate for young boys or even men to mess with your head. All they want is to see how far you will let them go if you show them that you will let them go that far that is how they will take you. And that can lead to others taking you the same way if they see that. As far as him asking you out he isnt going to.... he asking you to take your shirt off... so he not worring about nothing else but himself. Next time guys feel on you like that or say things to you like that be straight forward.....say no no no....... let them no you are serious then the next guy that is interested in you it would be for you. In the meantime focus on school. Education Is The Key
2007-07-26 02:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by MARCO B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. Look, boys will always try to get what they can out of a girl..that does not mean that they will respect you or care about you afterwards. Most times out of not, they will not respect you for it. At age 14, they are taking advantage of your innocence and you are letting them. They aren't interested in dating you - they don't need to date you. They are using you to cop a feel and anything else they can get. Girl, get some respect for yourself and don't be giving it all away for free, it will earn you the reputation for being easy and being a sl*t. Your body is sacred - it isn't for everyone to have fun with. You keep it to yourself until you meet someone special in a few years and then he will appreciate you and love you for the fact that you were NOT easy and didn't give it away to any guy who wanted it.
2007-07-26 09:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is being super easy! You are just a baby and the guys are clearly takin advantage of u! As soon as u stop lettin them get their feel on they will stop bein around u!! THen u will be stuck by urself, but even if u lose a couple male friends u can still gain some dignity and respect for urself! Once u respect urself then others will too!
2007-07-26 09:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by dcoley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU are 14!!! You shouldn't be getting "Felt up" at that age!!! YES YOU ARE BEING EASY!!!! Your still a baby yourself! Keep going the way you are...you'll end up w/ a baby of your own..and you think that somethings are hard now, wait till you are woke up every 3 hrs for feeding then have to get up to go to school the next morn..and a job.....and those nights that you go to football games...yeah..not going to happen!!! Hopefully this makes you think twice about being EASY....don't mean to be rude...last intention that i have here...just dont want to see you make a mistake that many young girls do. ENJOY being young and have fun, but not that kind of fun!!!!
2007-07-26 10:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy is so the word..you are 14 for christ's sake..you have your 20's to explore with a mature and clear conscience do yourself a favor it feels good right now letting them feel you up but lots of unself worth follows..
2007-07-26 09:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by judie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont put yourself out there like that , tell him to get bent . You are going to get used ...by a lot of guys ...because they compare notes. Trust me . You are still young and you dont want a huge track record!! Dont give in and don not continue to let him do this. He will push and push until he gets what he wants .Sweetie , just ditch the jerk
2007-07-26 09:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you did the corect thing because "men go as far as the woman wants "
you have got to make your self get respected
because he is nothing of yours
and even if he was your BF there are limits you can only go so far because if you give everithing to a person all at once then they will ger cord of you to soon!!!
just keep COOL
give time to time
2007-07-26 15:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by gabo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....You are going to labeled as easy or a ho if you keep this up. In another year or two guys will be asking you out just because you put out or have that reputation.
2007-07-26 09:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All your questions are so horrible. I feel extremely bad that these things are happening to you. your killing me smalls. It sounds like you really strive for attention, and i wish i could help you out. If i was 14 and at your school, i would ask you out and then, kick all those others guys asses for being such perverts.
2007-07-26 09:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes - you're being too easy and you're being a tease letting them feel you up but that's it. Knock it off and do some growing up before you embark on a physical relationship.
2007-07-26 09:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋