my boyfriend is on crack but i love him very much he act like he hate me. his mind was already bad. but he is very good to me very respetful he help me when no one else would but at the time i didnt appreicate him because ithought he was like my old boyfriend what could ido?
2007-07-26 02:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't wanna make you feel bad, but there are plenty of people who would have helped you when nobody else would, but i'm sorry that the person who did help you is on crack. You should get him help, if you care about him. Find someone who will care about you without your crack money.
2007-07-26 02:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you love him and he loves you try to sit and tell him that you mean it's time to either quit or else your leaving.
If he says fine leave then stay with a friend for a day or two. Then see how he reacts after that. If he wants you back then say only on one condition you have to get rid of your bad habit!
Try to compromise with him make it a nuetral agreement.
If he doesn't care then forget him!
You don't need to be dragged down because of this guy!
Live you life how you would want to.
Drugs are a bad thing when someone is addicted and you don't have to support his habits. And in a way you are because you are still with him. And not trying to make him quit. He can't do it himself he needs someone there to help and support!
Please make a decision on either leaving this guy or trying to help him quit.
2007-07-26 09:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Alisha*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well drugs will make you do some crazy things.The question is how much do you love this man?how long have you been together?If you truly love him and want to be there for him help him through this mess.Talk to him and tell him how you feel and that the drugs are ruining the relationship and if it dosent change then you are going to have to walk you may have to give him that ultimatium.But also tell him that you love him dearly and you hate seeing what the drugs are doing to him and that you are willing to stand by his side and help him and that you need to try and get him into rehab because this is something alot of people just cant stop cold turkey.He is going to need help and he is also going to have to be the one to realize and come to terms that he has a problem
2007-07-26 09:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is an addict, and the drug is the most important thing in his life right now.
i'm really sorry to hear.
you can look up Coping With an Addict, and Crack Addiction on line.... you wlll find many sources for self-help and other information. there is also Narcotics Anonymous, which is a support group for addicts. sometimes they have open meetings, and you can attend to get support and advice. they also have a website.
it's not healthy for you to be exposed to someone who is taking drugs and possibly addicted. maybe it's time to move on?
love isn't everything... there are many other factors involved in a relationship besides love. and taking care of yourself is the biggest... he's not taking care of himself.
start taking care of you... hugs
2007-07-26 09:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from what you wrote tells me you never felt loved by anyone and therefore any crumbs of love you get makes you grateful. You say, "he acts as if he hates me" then you said, "but he is very good to me, very respectful, and he helps me when no one else would". Can you not see how your statements contradict each other? If he makes you feel as if he hates you, then he does not care about your feelings. You must begin by loving yourself in order to ever find true love and happiness, for if you loved yourself, you would not even consider looking and accepting the crumbs of love he gives to you, you would know you deserve better. He alone is responsible for his drug addiction, therefore he alone is responsible for getting the help he needs to overcome it. You alone are responsible for your own happiness. Stop looking towards him for any love or happiness you lack in your life, he is "not all there" to give it to you in healthy way. People like him most always blame life for their addictions and have a keen eye for picking out girls like yourself who enable and feel sorry for them. Please do what is right for you, and I do wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-07-26 09:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help someone that doesn't wanna be helped. Why would you want a relationship with a crack head? They are always looking for their next fix.
2007-07-26 09:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"TOUGH LOVE" you cant stay with him if you want to live your life, he is a crack head and crackheads dont care about noone but themselves. tell him to get HELP (not just to quit) or you will be out of his life. Love is hard BUT sometimes you have to let go.
2007-07-26 09:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by infamisstrish72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, get him so help. Rehab, whatever. Refuse to be with him until he gets himself cleaned up.
2007-07-26 09:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by davabombshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait
2007-07-26 09:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to him, and tell him what you feel
2007-07-26 09:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋