just how to do it??

Question

how do i keep a 2 year relationship going.. like how do i keep him interested in me.. any ideas..

Answer 1

my wife and I are best friends we have been together for six years we have gone through losing our business, bitter disputes with both our ex's over our kids, I have a long term illness that puts alot of strain on our relationship. what keeps us together is laughter, enjoyment of each others company no strings attached, sex is not the forefront of our marriage and this has helped us remain best friend, which I think is the key to a long relationship. be there for each other when things don't go well and do things you don't want to do for the other person even though you hate it, to prove your love.

Answer 2

I think allot of people ask the same question, but nobody can answer it better than the one in the relationship. Relationships can be very complex at times so there is no one size fits all answer to it. I think you need to be yourself and do the things that make you happy and along the way you will find that special someone. If you have to keep someone interested in you in a relationship it sounds to me like its bound for breakup.

Answer 3

don't try so hard. You two have been together for 2 yrs. I am not sure how much you see each other. But maybe you can make it so you don't see or talk to each other for a couple of days so that you can miss each other. Realize you don't have to always try to keep a conversation going. Silence says alot without hearing anything. He loves you. Or maybe you can talk to him about how you are feeling like you are afraid of losing the spark or excitement.

Answer 4

it really depends? are you intimate with this guy? if not maybe after 2 years you are ready to be dont rush it but maybe sit down and make a mutual decision. talk it over with him... if you already are bring something new to the table.... just a thought. idk your budget... but go on a cruise or a vacation of some sort... just try new things as much as possible and have little cute inside jokes that only the two of you share. :) good luck this advice comes from a guy that always ends up getting hurt... lol but hope this advice works for you... i never get to go this far cause i have bad choice in women and when i dont put out right off they jet on me. ugh.lol

Answer 5

Well, just be yourself...Initiate dates, find other interests and experiences to share with him.

Honestly, though...It's normal to go through slumps in relationships. Why do you think it's so easy in the beginning?

Because it's exciting and new. Eventually, time passes and it takes work.

Answer 6

just keep it spontaneous and interesting. never let a relationship get at a stagnant point. it is then it gets dull and interest gets lost. find ways to always switch up your game. trust me when i say that men dig this.

Answer 7

i'm a guy, with only a little relationship experience. we were together 9 mos, and talked everyday [seriously], until one day there was just nothing more to say. we had heard all of each others stories, etc. (And this was long distance so we couldn't do anything new together. ) Just my experience.

Answer 8

Dont focus to much on doing anything to make him like or love you, instead focus on being a LOVING PERSON.Love is all about making your partner happy no matter what it takes, no matter how hard it is, the more you give love the more you enjoy the fruits of it.

Answer 9

Be interesting. Be fun. Be Happy. Everyone is drawn to those characteristics. Be physically expressive.

Answer 10

How did you keep it going on for the last two years, will keep it going onwards. Your ardent desire to keep it going on is the only unfailing element that will do.