Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

Ok i have a cousin whos parents have been married 15 years now ! Shes 16 ! Ok heres the catch her mom is very social and shes not neither is her dad ! Her mom hardly stays at home and when she does shes all sad,grumpy and depressed ! Nobody says anything to her cus shes sensative any tips on how she and her dad can make her mom stay at home very cleverly monuver it without making her realize or something like that ?!?!?!?!

2007-07-01 03:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I broke up with my boyfriend, due to distance, the fact that he's told me numerous times he never wants to get married or have kids, his partying/alcohol-abusive lifestyle, and that he still parties with girls he had adulterous flings with while dating his last girlfriend. I don't trust him, I wasn't happy in a going nowhere relationship, and I am happy and relieved to be single.

My mom is a different story. My ex is a charmer, and after a week spent visiting my whole family loved him. She's not willing to accept my breakup. In the past two days, she has endlessly nagged me to call him and apologize, going on about how much she liked him, talking about how he'd 'never do anything like that' when I tell her why I don't trust him, how he has a drinking problem. The last time she started in on I like him I lost my temper and said I don't. I feel that she of all people should be on my side of a breakup, no matter what. It's kind of hurtful to have her take up his side. What do I do?

2007-07-01 03:45:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

or kissed a girl, have i missed out

2007-07-01 03:45:05 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 03:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

time they change their minds and say "I DON'T", why can't people just stay true to their words anymore? What is so different these days compared to the yester years when saying "I LOVE YOU" actually meant something?

2007-07-01 03:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My 12 and 14 year old want to move in with their Dad. One side of me says, let them go and the other says that their home with me benefits them more now and the experiences/exposures they will get living here will be aid them in adulthood.

First point: They want to go experience life with Dad.

The school district they would be moving to is 4 times as large as the one they're in now. There's more drugs there.

The school there is about 30 minutes away vs. ours that is 8 minutes away. It's easy to run them back and forth for extra-curricular activities.

Here, they have access to a wide variety of small scale culture-artsy events as well as opportunity to interact with an eclectic group of people. (This is a recreation area with many early retirees from all over the world. It's not your average small town.)

Their Dad and myself are both happily remarried and have had more children.

I worry about moving the kids to his house (3 hours away) because I fear they won't get as much

2007-07-01 03:41:57 · 24 answers · asked by WonderWhy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad gets very grumpy like twice a month. This doesn't affect me my brother or sister. This realy bugs are mom though and that bugs me my brother and sister. What should me my brother and sister do? Help please!!

2007-07-01 03:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

your dad is a nerd

2007-07-01 03:35:47 · 15 answers · asked by bumpercar 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it a sin to marry a person who is deferent religion? How the bible solve the problem? Let's say catolic girl and muslin guy are in love and they want to get married.. Is it against the bible and catloic religion? How to solve this problem? Does anybody knows sombody who was in this situation? Is it possible to get married in catolic church if the guy will not change his religion? Does anybody knows the answear? I will really appreciaite it.

2007-07-01 03:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Patrycja A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 03:34:26 · 7 answers · asked by metalhead_angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He cheated on me before. And this time round I found out yet again his fling with another colleague from his company. I felt really really sad and heartbroken but I am not planning to let him go so easily. Should I forward his intimate conversation with his colleague to e whole company? Or what should I do to let go of the hatred?

2007-07-01 03:33:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife is a pornstar. we had a daughter who just turned 18. now she wants to be like her mom. my wife thinks its a good idea,them working together and all. and she can see what her daughter is doing. im not sure if its a good idea. i was thinking of supporting her, but im having second thoughts. what do i do?

2007-07-01 03:30:29 · 15 answers · asked by josh w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Friends, I am from India, 31 years female and still single. When I was 16 I was fooled by a guy who later went on to marry his ex. After I got over him, another guy came into my life when I was 25 and he too cheated me, used me to forget his ex. Later he dumped me saying that I could not help him forget his ex. He married a girl of his parent's choice. There was another guy who was 5 years younger to me who tried persuading me to marry him. I did not accept it because I was 5 years older to him. Finally when I agreed, he refused saying that the 5 years of age difference will be a problem. I believe in marriage and love, but they dont seem to come to me. I dont believe in physical relationship before marriage with anyone still as I consider marriage to be important. I am educated, though I do not look very beautiful, I am good looking, I have the qualities that the guys say they want, but then I do not understand that why does anyone not love me enough to marry me.

2007-07-01 03:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by A P 1 in Singles & Dating

Her mom said she could go out with guys and so we three wayed her ex-boyfriend @ like 1 in the morning.Her mom asked her who she was talking to that late and she said me.She didn't say me and Sean(her ex) cuz she knows her mom would freak.She lets her daye but all she sais is "If you don't love him..Your just using him" and "Whatever..your just going out cuz thats everybody else does."But she really wants to go out with guys!!How can she get her mom to believe and trust her.She talks to her mom about it and she hears..she just doesn't listen!!

2007-07-01 03:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by ♥whit. 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife's child support ended for 2nd child. CourtOrder reads "..continuing until the child reaches age 18 years, or reaches 19 years and is not a full time high school student residing with a parent, or further Order of the court". The child is 18 now, graduated from high school and lives with us (wife being custodial parent). I believe ex-husband still has to pay child support until he turns 19 yeays old. He stopped paying in June. Does he still have to pay?

2007-07-01 03:18:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sorry son he said we have got a 90 grand mortgage and your mum has just lost her job , we cant afford it.
the next morning patrick is heading out the door with his bags packed , his dad says "where you off to son?" patrick replies " i heard you last night telling mum the you were pulling out she said hold on im coming," well im not stopping here with a ninety grand mortgage and no f@ckin bike!

2007-07-01 03:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by cassjag 3 in Family

My "husband # 1" told me we were divorced and I married someone else a few months later, changed my name and everything! Just found out that we are still married!!! The 2nd marriage is broken. I am sooo scared of getting in trouble, I dont break the law. Please tell me what I can do.
My 1st husband is a liar obviously, its just one of the reasons I left. I dont have money to give to an attorney. HELP!

2007-07-01 03:18:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do? This is a long distance relationship which has worked very well for two years but I now have not seen him for quite a while because now she refuses to accept our relationship. We had all been friends for over 10 years, & he was my Mums best friend too, before she died last year. Earlier this year despite taking precautions, I fell pregnant. She was livid & assumed I was trying to trap her Dad. He did not want the baby. I lost it. Now I am alone trying to deal with it all, I am unhappy & he is really unhappy as well. He was widowed & has raised his daughters alone. He will not risk his relationship with her, but I would never come between him and his daughters either. In fact I have actively encouraged him to spend time with them. It does not help that she is extremely spoilt & has now moved to be with him-to stop him seeing me. She is so selfish, and my partner does not know what to do & neither do I. If you have any ideas on how to deal with her. Please help

2007-07-01 03:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by rose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 33 married with children but I connected so solid with this girl wearing an AC/DC shirt mowing grass at a jewish church. I am wondering if I should let her go and just have that memory or is she the one....
What should I do?
I think the feeling was mutual but there was no mention of this connection in our short meeting but she had to feel it ...

2007-07-01 03:11:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my great aunt just died and she didn't make a will. My grandmother (her sister) has been taking care of her for a very long time, more than 15 years. Now we found this one thing that said she had $90,000. None of that money went to my grandmother. None. The money was split two ways between her two favorite nephews. They never did anything for her except really make her laugh. I know that's a good thing but my grandmother did everything for her. Do you think this is fair? Can we fight this?

2007-07-01 03:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by M 4 in Family

My b/f and I have only been going out for 4 months now and he is being soo pushy about sleeping over at each others house. I'm still not comfortable yet because we both live with our parents. His parents are chill, but mine are conservative. We got into this house arguement last night b/c he crawled into my bed and fell asleep..w/o my permission. I got upset. He keeps pushing and pushing and says if it doesn't happen, we'll break-up. Should I convince my parents to have sleep overs with him, or is he being a baby and wanting his way...I dont want to lose him over something soo lame. (Note: he's 20...I'm 23..)

2007-07-01 03:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf of 2 years works nights and i work days so i dont see that much of him.he has made friends with a woman from the czech republic with whom he works with. my bf tells me he loves me and nothing is going on between them... i have text her too and she says that she only thinks of him as a brother... she comes round our house 2-3 times per week when im not there and apparently watch films?... yesterday they had a bottle of wine between them and watched a film... this i was told about.... obviously i wasnt happy about it, i had a feeling something else had happened so after my bf went to work i looked on his computer at emails etc... they email nearly every day... then i found a video of them sat on the sofa, my bf with his arm around her, legs entwined, rubbing her thighs and arms and obviosly looking straight down her top... both still deny anything is going on.... he tells me he loves me... i just dont know what to think any more???

2007-07-01 03:05:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been married for 6 mos. 2nd marriage for both. He moved into my house. We knew going in that I made more money than him. I paid all the wedding expenses. Although he's tried, put forth his best effort- he's been through three jobs and none of those worked out. He has a college degree, a good resume. Finally, he found a job, it pays 30k and he's been there for six weeks. It seems as though this one will pan out. So, he's able to give me some money for the first time. I've let him borrow a total of 2K, he's paid back only 600. We talked, escalated into arguing- fighting now for a month. He says that he has to pay off his credit cards. He says that he's giving me all he can. I don't believe that to be true. He says I don't need the money anyway. I'm comfortable but unless he pays some of the household expenses, I feel like he's taking advantage of me. I'm going to hold him to paying 100 weekly. He insists I'm obsessed about $, gives me a hard time.

2007-07-01 03:04:57 · 19 answers · asked by RSJ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 03:00:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Dear _____(fill in)__ :

Well, it was good while it lasted, but now (check appropiate answer):

___ the county health services wants your phone number.
___ time wounds all heals.
___ you can have an intimate relationship with your answering machine.
___ is the time for all good men to come to the aid of the party.

I finally got the
___ message.
___ picture.
___ joke.
___ right cologne.
___ blood test results.

I don't
___ like
___ want
___ need
you.

Too bad, because when you want to, you can be
___ beautiful.
___ handsome.
___ intelligent.
___ very psychic/psychotic.
___ a sex maniac.
___ God's answer for having too much fun.
___ Arnold Schwartzenneger's prototype for Terminator 3.

I would greatly appreciate you taking responsibility for
___ your own "stuff,"
___ feeding the starving sharks,
___ paying for your own lobotomy,
and being
___ confused.
___ a nutjob.
___ a preoperative transsexual.

I didn't
___ have an impure thought,
___ tell anyone about your operation,
___ write to the National Enquirer,
___ bribe that short guard in cell block D,
but I wish I had.

Thank you for helping me to see the light about you. I now no longer feel like
___ seeing you.
___ knowing that you ever existed.
___ flushing the toilet for you.

2007-07-01 03:00:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am studying for my Masters and cannot afford the time off from college during the pregnancy. Therefore, if I do not have his baby, then he will not marry me. What can I do?

2007-07-01 02:56:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My estranged husband is extrememly abusive and has not been living in my home for at least 3 years. He has never been involved with raising or financing anything to do with the child. Husband has been living with "trash", to be nice, for years. He filed divorce papers against me approximately 18 months ago and because he was "unable to substantiate the claim" - he had no grounds, his attorney had to drop the charges. Though there was a temporary order which allowed him to take the child for visits, he was not allowed overnight visits because of his adulterous situation. The visits always resulted in frightening situations for my child. Therefore, I chose not to get the divorce in order to keep my son from more exposure to this situation. Is there a course of action whereby I can get complete custody of my child. I would appreciate any legal help available with this situation. Thank you!

2007-07-01 02:53:07 · 8 answers · asked by wmw's 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My little sister just lost one of her close friends, she hasnt cried or anything, she just goes to her room all day...everyone in our family has tried talking to her, but we get nothing...she just nods and doesnt talk back about it. My family is worried shes holding it all in and shes going to be worse off. Is 10 too young to fully understand death?

2007-07-01 02:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-01 02:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok my big sisster is in napol and i really miss her she has only been gone 2 weeks but ever since i can remember we've shared a rooom therefor we are relly close. In the summer she is going to britan universaty and i'll barely ever get to see her. i've been trying really hard to be stong and keep telling evryone that i'll be ok. and suddenly i've cracked and i cant top crying. what should i do?

2007-07-01 02:49:46 · 5 answers · asked by Applecrumble 6 in Other - Family & Relationships