Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

the smart one? But they say your sister is pretty?

2007-06-30 23:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

father changing?? We used to be really close, I am now in my early 20s and I find it easier to sympathise much more with my mother than my dad- I know that my feelings towards him have changed for the worse. I'm not sure why or if it is a normal/temporary thing at all.
Any ideas?? Thanks

2007-06-30 23:52:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi i'm an 18 yr old girl. when i was 16, i had a brief affair with a guy of 23. he was the first man to touch me...the only guy i've made love with. but it was a very volatile relationship...nothing came out of it...moreover it was clandestine. i don't know why but whenever i think back about that time the strongest emotions take me over. last week my elder sister announced that she intents to get married and her fiance is none other than my ex. i really can't take it. i don't love him anymore...but the whole thing gets to me and i feel i'll make a very stupid mistake soon. our families have been close since a long time but no one ever knew about our affair. my ex seems very cool about the way things are shaping up but i'm dying every day. what do i do? i don't wanna wreck my sister's happiness. but my own self gets destroyed each time i see them together. what do i do? why do i feel like this when my affair is a thing of the past. please advise...i feel like killing myself.

2007-06-30 23:47:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi i'm an 18 yr old girl. when i was 16, i had a brief affair with a guy of 23. he was the first man to touch me...the only guy i've made love with. but it was a very volatile relationship...nothing came out of it...moreover it was clandestine. i don't know why but whenever i think back about that time the strongest emotions take me over. last week my elder sister announced that she intents to get married and her fiance is none other than my ex. i really can't take it. i don't love him anymore...but the whole thing gets to me and i feel i'll make a very stupid mistake soon. our families have been close since a long time but no one ever knew about our affair. my ex seems very cool about the way things are shaping up but i'm dying every day. what do i do? i don't wanna wreck my sister's happiness. but my own self gets destroyed each time i see them together. what do i do? why do i feel like this when my affair is a thing of the past. please advise...i feel like killing myself.

2007-06-30 23:42:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If yes, how?

2007-06-30 23:34:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to have some chat with a new friend of this site. could u please connect to any online guy or girl?

2007-06-30 23:27:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love her alot but she seems to always say that i dont show it and im not romantic but i really love her so much i guess i just suck at showing my feelings

any advice?

2007-06-30 23:27:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Supposing you had fell out with a friend, would it be right to pretend to be someone else over myspace for example, to find out what the other person involved really thought?

2007-06-30 23:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we're kind of like dating? ofcourse not right? I mean him and I are just friends. He asked me to hang out and see a movie with him. I thought I have nothing to do and that it was nice so I say sure. We're only friend....known him like about 3yrs. Would he consider it as a date?

2007-06-30 23:21:29 · 14 answers · asked by ceec 4 in Singles & Dating

TOTALLY in love with her............MOST of the time it's reciprocated............but from time to time I wake up and she is DRASTICALLY different. I mean, LOVES me........then doesn't care if I live or die type of thing. When I ask WTf? ......No solid answer. Okay chicks are different..........we are all different, but.............it is SO extreme!! She is always the one who pushes me away for whatever the excuse is of the day and I deal with it. I'm just afraid as a man that one of these days I'm gonna say enough is enough...........but I "KNOW" she's the one. When is too much too much??

2007-06-30 23:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by vacmag 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 23:12:09 · 16 answers · asked by andrew c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys (my guy) want to make a sex tape?

2007-06-30 23:03:37 · 3 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

About a year ago, I dated a girl for a while. It didn't really work out, but we finished and became good friends. Me, her, and a male friend started hanging out together. Lately, I've noticed that her body language suggests she fancies the male friend, and I made a joke out of it in private to her the other night, and she said she did. They do kind of flirt with each other, but whether the male friend would do something with it, I don't know. She wants to all meet up at the weekend, but I feel like a bit stuck in the middle, and like 3's a bit of a crowd now because they kind of ignore me! I find it all a bit strange, and I don't know why! What would be the best thing to do?

2007-06-30 23:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by ralf_ny65rj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is your definition of a good husband or boyfriend?Details if you will. =)

2007-06-30 22:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Choppinsumwood 2 in Singles & Dating

at 57 naked women ,books ,movies dont seem to work..my wife is pretty and 13 yrs younger..i can get her in mood but she so unexperimental..its to bed do it go to sleep

2007-06-30 22:42:03 · 6 answers · asked by DAN TO GOD HELLO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when I was younger and she first married my father we were close and we almost had relations.

after she had 2 children by my father, she become overly cold and eventually our relationship (which was non existant now) disappeared altogether.

she and my father have been divorced for 5 years now, and i think about her and would now like to maybe restart a physical relationship.

she is about 40, i am about 28. how do i go about doing this? and is this very wrong ? since she is no longer married to my father...

2007-06-30 22:35:13 · 22 answers · asked by valfool123 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I am a 20 yr old college student who has never been in any kind of relationship. Nobody has ever really been interested in me and at this point I am wondering why? I am not unattractive, i am slightly overweight and I think that's where the problem lies, but then again it might be because i'm surrounded by size 4's at school (i'm 10). Guys see a thin girl standing next to me and natrually approach her and not me. But I want to know why I am 20 and have NEVER had a guy approach me to even say "hi, i'm remotely interested". It's really starting to get to me and I even tell my friends that I have been in a relationship just to not let them see how unwanted I am.
I know the usual answer is, yeah a guy will come, or like yourself first and then others will folllow but if that's the case why is it that i'm one of a very tiny percentage, doesn't that mean that the problem is within me? And why is it such a taboo to be 20 and not have had anything before?

2007-06-30 22:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by emva07 3 in Singles & Dating

then i started working.my husband used to be with his mom till 12.30 to 1.30am.ialso used to company them but it was too much.if i told him to come to his room on time he used to say that he can't live in restrictions.i was not allowed to go to parlours.he opened joint a|c.he used to check my ph in my absence.he used to chat on ph and net but i was not allowed to sit with him.i knew he was chatting but what and with whom i don't know.icame back to my mom's place.idon't know what to do?now icame to know that he is flirting with a girl saying he is unmarried

2007-06-30 22:23:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, once again I'm not getting the answer I really need. Although some of them have been helpful. I've been "seeing" a guy since May, and I'm starting to like him. But I dont know how to approach it without being pushy or scaring him off. I just need to know if I should leave things the way they are for now and just see him on occasions like we have been or take a chance and see if he wants to really date.(I do like what were doing but at the same time I like him and wonder if there could be more by he way he acts). We've only been on two dates since we've met and see eachother about twice a week sometimes less if our schds from work are messed up. But reguardless he always calls after the fact and when we are together he holds my hand, and does the "couple" thing.But then there's times where we go 3 days without talking over the phone for whatever reason. I don't know, help? Guys only please on this one.

2007-06-30 22:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by countrydreamerrm 1 in Singles & Dating

pleaseeeee.....i really need some help in here?

2007-06-30 21:59:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

been with this guy for six years, really rocky for the last year. he was very violent when he got angry. I cheated on him once, he forgave me. now, twp weeks ago, we finallt split because he says he is interested in my friends'- friend. but, this past week, he has been trying to call me 5 days in a row, 3 to 2 times a day? what is that? i didnt pick up the call and never will!!!!! ,because i dont want to revisit that past.. why is he calling me if he has someone else?

2007-06-30 21:54:44 · 5 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

first two months of our marriage were gr8.after that problems started my husband started to put unreasonable restrictions on me.he started tapping my phone.actually now icame to know that he is a womaniser.ialso resigned from my job to remove his suspicion but it did'nt worked out.

2007-06-30 21:52:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is found that she is having relation with other frieinds also , she is maintaing seperate email id for each one , it is already 4 years passed , now iam understanding what to do

2007-06-30 21:22:56 · 7 answers · asked by teresa c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please can anyone give me their advice on having a child. Does anybody regret it and do you think it cause damage to your marriage. Even though you love them now, if you could have turned back time and not had a child, would you choose to do so. I would greatly appreciate honest opinion. Thanks You

2007-06-30 21:20:41 · 27 answers · asked by KT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me. My head is really spinning now because of this. I'm in my senior year in high school, and I fell in love with one of my batchmates. I've noticed her since the end of our sophomore year, and said to myself that I really wanted to know this girl. I finally got the chance during junior year, and since then, we have been text-messaging each other, but recently, we haven't texted each other since. Now, my problem is how do I tell her that I love her? She already knows that I like her, and she only thinks it's just a crush. When we're in school, we don't usually see each other, but we occasionally say hi when we bump to each other. The thing is, I can't really get that near her because 1) her homeroom is on another floor, 2) She's the most beautiful girl in the school, and 3) there's a guy that's being paired up with her, and I think she also likes him. Oh, and one more thing. I don't know if she likes me back. Please help me. Thanks for your help, and God Bless! :D

2007-06-30 21:18:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's my 21st in a few weeks and im trying to think of things that I would like on my list so far is

Ipod
Pink DVD
Harry Potter Book

and thats about it any help anyone??? I'm a girl :)

2007-06-30 21:16:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my friend kandi likes one of my better friends (wouldnt say best). but earlier this year kandi had sex twice. well kandi and my friend were getting ready to date. my friend was unaware that she had done this. and i didnt think kandi would tell him because she says its a mistake she made. but my friend was asking about her personal life. and i being one of kandis best friends would tell him some things. well he brought up the question of if i knew how far kandi had been. and part of me wanted to hide this from him but i couldnt. but he is a trustworthy person. so i told him about kandi having sex. he was shocked. but he promised that he wouldnt tell anyone that i told him. even kandi. and he has not (to my knowledge) so they dated for a week and then they broke up. not sure why. well now theyre getting ready to date again. and my friend is considering going all the way. but kandi doesnt know this. im just gonna ask you people should i tell her this or not. im very confused! HELP!!

2007-06-30 21:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by jlmash93 1 in Singles & Dating

I chat with this guy on the computer & we clicked. he said things I wanted to hear. then one day he asked me if I would send him some money. he's down in afracia. I told him that I don't have the money to send him. I only have enough to get by myself. then he tells me I don't care about him like he cares for me. I told him that's not love and it can't be bought. now he won't talk to me at all. I send him messages and he doesn't respond at all. and I always tell him God bless you and take care too! and all he says is put yourself in my shoes. and that he is hungry too! I have a heart full of love for any one that needs it but. but he says thats not enough at all.

2007-06-30 21:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by linda b 3 in Singles & Dating

and if there is ab obsession for an ex: the girl always talks about and thinks about her man day and night, what causes the obsession

2007-06-30 21:03:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had been married for many years and was getting boring with my marriage, the main problem i'm facing is that i'm not enjoying sex life with my wife, i had try to find out the reason but was not successful, need to know you guys also facing such problem? i was thinking whether to get a divorce it seem like a only way to me...

2007-06-30 21:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by denyeese 1 in Marriage & Divorce