Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

Hi,my 13 yr old son had his b'day party on sat and my husbands brother's lad came over . He is 7 and he was hyper as he was running round non stop! anyway all the kids were in the front room and ryan (the 7 yr old) kicked my girl in the shin!(and he meant it) she has a hell of a bruise and it is quite painful. should I let ryan's dad know as he is quite spiteful or should i let it go!!

2007-07-01 23:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Like if it was not clear in her mind?

2007-07-01 23:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by Roy Nicolas 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a heroin addict- he and I are extremely close. We have been best friend for 17 years and just started dating recently. We are extremely compatible in every way besides the fact that I have recently gone to rehab and want to stay clean while he has no intention of giving up the junk.
I broke up with him but I know he really needs me and I need him in my life too. What do I do? How do I convince him that he needs to clean up his act?

2007-07-01 23:38:44 · 21 answers · asked by Riya Layne 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 23:35:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it completely impossible to find a guy who will be in love with a lady who is good enough and doesn't eye other women after getting engaged? no matter how sexy and appealing they are!l

2007-07-01 23:24:55 · 9 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 16yr old virgin and the other day me and my boyfriend got "playful" and he fingered me, at times this hurt me and afterwards i bled. i put this down to him braking my hymen, but then yesterday we tried to have sex and he wouldn't fit. He fingered me to loosen me up but again hurt me, i bled alot smaller amount but stil bled aafter this... PLEASE HELP :'(

2007-07-01 23:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i met this guy who is like my best friends guy friend and she dared me to call him a sexy beast in the morning when we call him so i am but i dont want him to think im weird or anything by just sayin "hey _______ your a sexy beast!" so plz i need answers and fast!!!!

2007-07-01 23:22:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Three years ago, I fell for her. Last year I got her.. Starting of this year I asker her to be with me, and she said she’d love to … so now we are officially a couple.
We’re both in University at the moment – senior year. We did do internship sthis summer. She got a job offer at the end of the internship, with a giood starting salary.
I got a letter of recommendation, and no such letter.
Now when we meet its slightly odd because I know that when university is done she will have a job to head to, whereas I will not. She has a job just waiting for her to finish college….. She doesn’t know how lucky she is. They loved her performance and all that. My company did too, however they said they would not hire the moment and shall see based on my scored.
She has a 3.75 GPA, and I have a 2.90 GPA. I do not know what to think or what to do…
I guess I am slightly scared – her last man being from oxford and she is all prim and proper, very European. I am very American,

2007-07-01 23:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by __M___o 1 in Singles & Dating

and she replyed nice pic and their was another sayin "what were you thinkin" she was so pissed off at me how can i get over her but i still love her n want it to work, i been with her for 2 years, i never cheated just tx her when my gf was pissin me off! i wish i didnt now though, pls go help me

2007-07-01 23:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am i the only old fashioned girl left? i like the guy to chase the girl and make the first move in everything. i believe in dating a long time before saying that you are in love. i think that couples should wait until marriage to have sex. i say that gender roles are ok. are there no more girls like me who like the world of stepford?

2007-07-01 23:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by Rebel Babe 3 in Singles & Dating

a cupple full sex do it night ,but counting in the night,

2007-07-01 23:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by suresh s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 41 year old male. I have lovely wife and a son. We have lovely family life.

Recently I came in contact (via e-mail) with one of my college day girl friend. I used to love her then. But could not confess. Recently, we came in contact via e-mail. She is married, & having 2 kids. Her husband is outside country for job, since 5 years. They share joint family life only for 2 months in a year.

We both are in India, but in different state.
I have started developing soft corner for her. We are exchanging many SMS & mail. Now we love each other. We shared e-sex life, by exchanging SMS at night.

Whole day, I just think about her. My wife knows her by name, as my old friend. She also speaks to her on phone and share friendship. I plan to take my wife to her home.

I can not leave my wife. We both feel like having sex with each other. I feel guilty doing this. But can not come out of this.

I am totally confused. Please advice & help.

2007-07-01 23:00:36 · 11 answers · asked by K P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive known this guy for a couple of years and we have been friends, im 21 and he's 28 but he always told me he liked me heaps but was too busy with work ( has his own business) to commit to anything, he calls me everyday to talk but never seems to want to see me in person? never really asks me to do anything coz he is always so busy. He is never romantic , has a really dominant, confident character , cocky really, but never seems like he is trying to win me over. he has said to me he likes me and doesnt c himself with anyone else but he doesnt want the usual relationship he seems to think i want.
He doesnt want any of the drama that goes with it he told me.ive told him many times either tell me yes u want to be with me or no you dont but he can never give a straightforward answer. I know he doesnt c other girls. What should i do should i stop contact with this guy if he doesnt make a descion or should we remain friends? and i start dating other guys

2007-07-01 22:56:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I am in love with one of my best friends since the second grade. I am now a senior in high school and I haven't seen my friend in 4 years. He was one of my neighbors and during the middle of my 5th grade year he moved away. However, he would always visit me. We use to hang out all of the time. Since I was little I knew that I was in love with him, and I was devastated when he moved. One day in the summer of my 7th grade year, he came over and we stayed up just simply talking. Then he moved back around the area during 8th grade and went to my intermediate school. When he was there, he never said hi to me. He acted like we had never been friends. He later moved to another state before 8th grade graduation. Now I'm going to be a senior, and I think I am still in love with him. It's like a Gatsby thing. I'm holding on to something that isn't real. I keep on dreaming that he will come and sweep me of my feet. This is keeping me from truly loving anyone else

2007-07-01 22:55:08 · 2 answers · asked by Pretender 1 in Singles & Dating

I`m 39 y/o, female, not looking for sex, only to write and to talk. My english is only school english, but maybe, there is someone, to have intress and would like to answer. I open for age group from 25 -------all over,you contact me with yahoo, all letters will be answer, thank you.

2007-07-01 22:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by can.fan 2 in Friends

2007-07-01 22:52:43 · 8 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Friends

I went out with my boyfriend for over a year. I cared about him a LOT. He was the first one to say "I love you" and I honestly believe I love him, because otherwise I wouldn't have felt how I did with him and how I do now. Anyway, a few weeks ago I broke up with him, but it was lack of communication, so we got back together a few days later. Then I went three weeks with no contact from him at all. Last night we were IMing, and he seemed weird. After thirty minutes of probing he finally admitted "something's wrong, but its nothing." Eventually he said that he had realized he didn't love me, except as a friend. He apologized a lot. He said that he "thought it was something, but it wasn't." He told me that he still really cared about me and wanted to be friends, and I think his intentions are good. But I love him, I don't understand how these feelings could be onesided. By the way, we're fifteen. I'm probably gonna get a bunch of "you have your whole life" answers. But I need to know what to do, and how to move on, I guess? I don't know. I'm upset.

2007-07-01 22:50:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 22:49:11 · 25 answers · asked by T. Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

So im seeing this guy, and i think i love him, but im not sure, how do u know? and i really wanna tell him how i feel, but im scared he will think im 'rushin in' too quickly. We agreed to take things slow from the start, and its now been a month, and the L word hasnt been mentioned, i really like him but is he leading me on?

2007-07-01 22:41:25 · 19 answers · asked by hayley.n2k7 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been doing well for past 1 year 10 months. HE says he really loves me and wants to marry me.

When we are together, out for a movie or say just for a ride, he can't stop noticing other girls, be it the actresses or other girls come to watch the movie. HE sees them, them keeps talking about their good features a few minutes. If ever we are together and he happens to see a picture of a hot girl, he immediately gets my attention to it and says, " Isn't she wonderful?" Or "Damn, She's hot!"….. all I wanna know is this sort of behavior right?

Specially, I request the boys to answer this one so I can understand my boyfriend's point of view more better.

2007-07-01 22:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my wife for three years now and we have a one year old daughter but recently we have been fighting non stop. This usually doesn't bother me but I don't want to keep doing this anymore. I have told her that I want to stop and it goes away for a few days and then comes back full force. I work 12 hour shifts 4 to 6 days out of the week and am tired of dealing with crap from her after a already long day. Can any one help decide on what I should do from here?? Another thing to keep in mind when thinking about this she doesn't work hasn't worked since before we got married and has everything materialistically a women could want. Just a thought. Please help me consider my options or give some advice. Feel free to email me at address on profile. Thanks.

2007-07-01 22:37:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 19 and I have been working an a large office for the past two years. I was sexually assaulted about 2 montha ago by a colleague who is 42. He has been here for 19 years.

The thing that he did, isn't classed as rape so people are reluctant to take it seriously. I think people also dont think it's a big deal because he is respected and well know and nobody knows me. Nobody think it's like him to do such a thing. I'm worried people think that I'm just a tramp that consented and now regret it so i'm lying.

This isn't what happened at all. He works on a different floor so I never have to see him.

I havent spoken to himin ages but I just feel like I cant move on from it as nothing bad has happened to him since. I feel terrible everyday and he just feels a bit guilty (he blames what he did on alcohol). I just want people to hate him.

How cn I move on? People don't tlk about it but I still feel bad. I cant call the police as I have no proof so please dont suggest that

2007-07-01 21:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hindu couple married for last 2 yrs. they invested in building a house with a loan taken frm a nationalised bank jointly in their name. the land was brought and the house was constructed there.everything jointly in their name. now due to differences they are seperate. the wife's name is the first name of the loan agreement. now the house has been constructed but is nw locked.the husband is not asking any financial help from wife and he himself is paying the emi amt to bk. now if he files for divorce can the wife claim anyhting frm the house. the pre-emi's and amt to builder was given by her. if not , will there be any legal prob in future because she is the first name inthe loan agreement . pls clarify.

2007-07-01 21:49:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i wrote it to a pricipal of a school, I wrote mean things to get her back from revenge, how did she know it was me when she replied to the e-mail 2 minutes later

2007-07-01 21:43:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

snob? materialistic? maybe compensating for "something".

what if its an older model like a 325i??

2007-07-01 21:31:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello.i'm 16 years old and i think that i have a crush on a 20 year old guy whose from my church group. he's really nice and cool. how do i get his attention?!?!? i don't wanna do anything drastic or crazy.
and how can you tell infatuation from love??

we're going out tommorrow with a big group. what should i do!!!

2007-07-01 21:10:13 · 17 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy called yesterday after a month of silence(no reason given) then now he wants to do lunch l have been upset for this period coz we really hit it off..after meeting 10 years later and we had a crush on each other.How am l supposed to act when l see him?

Ps. l am trying not to get annoyed..really!

2007-07-01 21:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by judie 5 in Singles & Dating

I saw a hot guy at the mall today and he asked me if i wanted to play hide the bone with him and his friend? i have never heard of that...how do you play?

2007-07-01 21:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by sxclilwhtgrl 1 in Singles & Dating

k so my boyfriend and i are at the store and he we notice that a group of guys look at this other couple the girl and the guy (of the couple) starts to hang on his girl like holding her hand and hugging her basiclly just to let the other guys know she is his.... My boyfriend said that he doesn't understand why guys do that he said that he would never do that. What does this mean? Is he just saying that or does he not really care? Does it mean he doesn't care for me or that he really does he just doesn't want to addmit it? Thoughts advice help anything would be great and thanks..

2007-07-01 21:06:39 · 9 answers · asked by Bubba 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee' caught his 10 year old son humping my 9 year old daugther when his kids came to stay the weekend. But he didn't tell me until we got into an argument. I don't want the little bastard around anymore, am i being too harsh? My daughter said that it wasn't true. It started because my boyfriend got mad at my kids cause they saw his son humping a puppy. So he wants to throw that in my face. He should have told me when he caught the little sh**. He didn't because i think my daughter was really asleep when he got up and caught his son or my boyfriends lying to get back at me. His son is so rude he even curses his dad out on the voicemails. I think he should've woke me up and told me, plus got on his son's butt. All he says he said to him was not to do it anymore.WHAT?? I don't want his son around my kids. When i asked him why didn't he wake me he said she should have told me cause she was up? I think she was asleep, why else didn't he tell me? He knew how i would act!!

2007-07-01 21:01:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family