Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

I am in love with a man who also has feelings for me but he says that staying friends is the best way to go so no one will get hurt. I really want to take it further with him and I am so in love and I want to make love with him. Im married and would leave him anyday for this man that I love. He is also married and he said he needs to stay faithful to his wife, but she is such a horrible person. I don’t understand what he sees in her when she’s not worth it. Why is he doing this to me? Why won’t he let me love him?

2007-07-01 19:38:58 · 13 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with a man who also has feelings for me but he says that staying friends is the best way to go so no one will get hurt. I really want to take it further with him and I am so in love and I want to make love with him. Im married and would leave him anyday for this man that I love. He is also married and he said he needs to stay faithful to his wife, but she is such a horrible person. I don’t understand what he sees in her when she’s not worth it. Why is he doing this to me? Why won’t he let me love him?

2007-07-01 19:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Singles & Dating

like jealousy

2007-07-01 19:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by shibin s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-01 19:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to know if there are women in California who are into bondage and discipline.?
really looking to get into the bdsm lifestyle bondage discipline
especialy dressing up like superheros

2007-07-01 19:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats some issues with good friends becoming a couple? like, making the transition from good friends to a couple? How awkward is it? this girl i like has liked me for 2 years, which is as long as i've know her. i just got out of a 2.5 year relationship with another girl 8 weeks ago and told my friend i liked her 2 weeks ago and we're going on 2 dates this weekend. shes 18, i'm 19 if that helps. i'm worried about making the transition.

2007-07-01 19:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by kyryliw 3 in Singles & Dating

ok yesterday i saw this man at the mall. i just looked at him once and he smiled at me and i smiled bak. then i just continued to shop and i saw him 4 other stores including victoria secret!!! then today i went to the beach and i saw the exact same man there!!!! and while i was in the water, he looked like he was watching me!!! if i see him again what should i do??? HELP!!!!

2007-07-01 19:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 9 years ago (my wife was a girlfriend at the time), she found porn on my computer. She got pretty mad and I ended up telling her that I would stop lookin at porn. I was pretty good at it for a long time. However, since getting married, and having 2 kids and other circumstances, our sex life is almost nil. I recently started looking at porn on the computer and she found out. She's very upset. She tends to overreact to things sometimes can blow things out of proportion and says that I'm "addicted" because I promised to stop 9 years ago and I broke the promise recently. Would you say I'm addicted? I do not look at porn day and night. Maybe 2-3 times/month.

Also, she says it is a step below cheating on her. Do you agree with her? To me, I don't know why this is such a big deal. Many guys I know (married and single) have watched porn one time or another. Give me your opinions.

2007-07-01 19:22:57 · 24 answers · asked by Arrgghh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl which I really like, and I want to ask her out I know she likes me too but the problem i have it's Age difference, She's 16 and i'm 18 which it isn't much of a difference but I'm afraid of what people might think! they might say it's wrong or something cuz i'm also going to college and she's in high school!

I mean as long as sexual relations go I'm willing to wait for her until she 18 or until she's ready I don't care I just want to be with her that's all she has an amazing personality, So can you people let me know about this age difference? and Is it safe to go out with her even though our age is different?

Actually someone told me earlier that if I even touch her I would go to jail, But like I said I'm willing to wait for her!

2007-07-01 19:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 19:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 13 years old and for my entire life, my father hasnt spent much time with me. Don't get me wrong, he has done more than everything that he can to take care of me. He is more than I could ask for in a father, but right now I need a friend even more. I am entering high school (I skipped a grade) and I am very nervous. I need a male who i can talk to and spend quality time with when my peers just arent enough. My father and I both enjoy futbol (soccer) very much and I try to use that as a way to get him to spend time with me but it isnt working too well. Any suggestions??

2007-07-01 19:21:20 · 12 answers · asked by xtreme5215 1 in Family

my dad thinks hes a punk. he says he didnt like my b/fs first impression. i have a really close relationship with my dad and he respects what i do. but he wont accept my b/f. and says he most likely never will. he liked my ex boyfriend. so hes not one of those overprotected fathers. how can i get my dad to give him a chance. ive asked him to give him a chance and my dad just blows me off. it hurts because of the relationship i have with my dad is really close. he has always been there for me and gives me advice and we can talk about anytihng. but im afraid now because i usually feel as if i have to hide my relationshoip with my b/f from him. i dont know what to do.

2007-07-01 19:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 19:18:33 · 12 answers · asked by pandurang j 3 in Marriage & Divorce

woman please help me i wanna switch my gender male to female
and i wanna enjoy my life as a natural woman. i feel like i was traped in mens body. please try to understand and suggest me what to do. i am now doing cross dressing gosh i looks so sexy in female make up.

2007-07-01 19:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been friends for a couple of years. My marriage has been in the process of divorce. We work together on some community projects. He is my neighbor. Our kids are friends. I know his wife but we are not friends. I believe she suspects, but won't say anything to him because she has told him to go elsewhere afterall. She is from another country where the culture was for the men to have mistresses. I think she meant, go get it somewhere else once every 5 years, not with the neighbor, but she wasn't specific. I like him. I am VERY attracted to him. We have a good time together. We are mutually respectful and loving towards one another. He takes the edge and some of the scariness and lonliness out of my divorce. I think his wife is crazy for sending this great looking guy off to do whatever, although he will not divorce her. His parents divorced and he thinks it is very bad for the kids.

2007-07-01 19:14:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 19:14:27 · 18 answers · asked by two_minute_girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

pick-lines and or conversations.

2007-07-01 19:13:57 · 3 answers · asked by z 1 in Singles & Dating

wut can i do to make my gf feel special?
wut r some sweet things i can do 4 her?

2007-07-01 19:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by berserkerx1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 19:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has told me he masturbates to me, and he told me he wants to have sex with me and i have been going along with it b/c i didn't know he was as serious as he actually is, well he wants to get together and do it, i have no clue what i am going to do, im 18 & it would be my first time and i am not sure if i am going to go through with it, should i do it or not, if not what should i say so he doesnt think im a total liar

2007-07-01 19:11:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a Christian. I know the bible, I know we are to be obedient to God. But I do not agree with Christians who insist that because God hates divorce, that it means that people should stay married. Sometimes it is very damaging for a marriage to stay intact if it is mentally harmful for the spouse and/or children. I think Christians should stay out of the marriage counseling business unless they are actually educated counselors.

2007-07-01 19:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy just shortly before my marriage. My wedding to my husband was a whirlwind one. we dint really know each other that well before getting married. after marriage we had countless clashes. most of the time i was paranoid thinking he had somebody else outside. the fights escalated to very violent ones with both of us hitting each other. in the midst of those times, i always ran to the other guy for comfort and he was very patient knowing that i was married even though i lied to him initially. till today, he is still around and it touches my heart knowing that somebody can love me so much un conditionally. my hubby found out abt him and they both had a confrontation. i chose my hubby but somehow my heart is still with the other man. i feel so torn and hurt cos i feel that i pity and love my hubby but im not in love with my hubby. i am in love with the other guy. i really dont know what to do anymore. im just very confused. im not proud to say what i have done is not forgivable

2007-07-01 19:06:13 · 13 answers · asked by NG W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does a man's body mature into the capability of a full body orgasm or does it have to be achieve by performance, technique or something else?

2007-07-01 19:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anne 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents won't!

2007-07-01 19:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by Devon K 1 in Friends

my friend's older sister just broke up with her boy friend (which has been on and off for MONTHS). me and my friend had a bet on who would cave first this time, and ask to get back together.............it has only been a few days so the bet is still on.................i was curious what you would think so i decided to put it on yahoo answers..............sooooooooo....... if u were in this possition....... who do u think will cave 1st ?

2007-07-01 19:04:50 · 6 answers · asked by Ella-Bella 3 in Singles & Dating

through a divorce, my ex has tried to turn him against me by talking bad about me and even my younger children which are HIS kids! My son believes him and acts like he cant stand to be around me. I feel helpless. I have put in our court order that there are to be no negative comments but nobody will enforce it. I am desperate to show my son the truth that he is being brain-washed but of course I would never say it. My ex left for someone else and my son says he likes spending time with her more than anything. Before we went through this divorce his dad never spent time with him and now he is suddenly father of the year. It's only to get more custody (which he doesnt even use all of) so he doesn't have to pay so much support. He treats my son like an adult and now my son despises me treating him "like a child" and acts like he is above me punishing him when he gets into trouble and is very cold to his younger brother and sister. How can I get through to him??

2007-07-01 19:04:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we started dating june 4th.
july 2nd is exactly four weeks from then.
but july 4th is a month from then.....
which is our actual one month anniversary date? july 2nd or 4th?

2007-07-01 19:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by Megan 3 in Singles & Dating

all right alot of you people were on my butt about this, I did say the person was 19 years old. How can somebody justifiy a person being killed for their country, but at 19 they can't sit at a family's house and party? I am not saying they are gonna drive. They would be staying at the house

2007-07-01 19:01:24 · 6 answers · asked by yankabilliechic 3 in Friends

I've been with her about 1 yr 9 mo and she wants to have sex, but i don't want to till marriage and it seems like our relationship is in the balance right now cuz of it but neither of us want to break up with each other. we really love each other and plan on getting married in like 1 yr or two. also i go down on her and visa versa and recently she has goten tired of us going down on each other. and she don't want me to do anything that i don't want to but she really wants sex, is there a solution other than breaking up?

2007-07-01 18:58:55 · 3 answers · asked by Mitsoku 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend will try to turn me on and excite me by grabbing at my penis (outside of my pants and etc.) but then she says she doesnt want me to go into her pants or go into mine (which she has before), and shes not ready to do that stuff yet, but she doesnt let me in hers cause ive tried b4..why is she doing this to me and trying to arose me if she isnt going to give any to me? its really making me mad the mixed signals shes giving me and how shes allowed to be in mine but im not allowed in hers...what do i do???

2007-07-01 18:56:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating