I am in love with a man who also has feelings for me but he says that staying friends is the best way to go so no one will get hurt. I really want to take it further with him and I am so in love and I want to make love with him. Im married and would leave him anyday for this man that I love. He is also married and he said he needs to stay faithful to his wife, but she is such a horrible person. I don’t understand what he sees in her when she’s not worth it. Why is he doing this to me? Why won’t he let me love him?
2007-07-01 19:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you out of your mind to think a married man wants you for something else other then sex.You should be glad he won't sleep with you that way his wife won't come after you.If he was my husband and i fount out about you wanting him i would be after you,and i would make your life a living hell. For you to say his wife is a horrible person isn't for you to say,she has something he likes .Stay away from him and give your own husband the respect he deserves and should be getting from you his wife.
2007-07-01 19:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hold the phone, no offense but your MARRIED... and he's MARRIED, and that's why he wants to stay with his WIFE, maybe you think she's a horrible person because you've never personally gotten to know this lady. Perhaps she too is in love with her husband. No offense but you said you WANT to make him love you, Love's supposed to come naturally, maybe you've got the wrong impression and no offense seriously I mean no offense, maybe you need some professional help here. If not you're scaring him away or he's just not ready for another relationship, if his wife is truly as you put it such a horrible person. Hope everything turns out alright, good luck to you.
2007-07-02 02:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by AwayLemonade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's already letting someone love him, and has no room for someone else. If he decides to leave her, THEN talk to him. As long as he choses to stay married, you're out of luck. You need to either get out of your marriage, or stop looking for other people. No one deserves to be cheated on. If you aren't happy, get a divorce, THEN go see other people. In that order.
2007-07-02 02:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cali_wife12306 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your married and he married that a horrible thing to do and the reason he wants to stay friends is if your willing to leave your marriage now what kind of future does he see in you remember your vows you made when you got married or if you not happy leave but dont be a home wreaker
2007-07-02 02:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by loc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess he abides by "Semper Fidelis"
Even if he does love you he made a vow once to his wife that he would stay faithful and love her in thick and thin. You should follow his example and stay true to your husband as well. Your heart will ache and crave for him yes but its just not supposed to be.
2007-07-02 02:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. you are married....2. he is married....3..when each of you decide to leave your spouses maybe it can go deeper....4...its not for you to pick who he want to be with...you choose who you like and he chooses who he likes...long as love...and obviously if your willing to leave your husband for this guy you might as well think about leaving your husband in the first place and or go to counseling...and leave the other guy alone he said he wants to stay with his family...that is his choice...there are other fish in the sea....seriously
2007-07-02 02:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by MDotGreat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because hes a good guy, maybe he does love his wife. and theres nothing you can do except maybe try being faithful to your husband, kutos to the man thats faithful to his wife. move on from that man
2007-07-02 02:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Niki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there you go... he's married and you are too... you shouldn't be married if you feel like that for him... but then if you leave your husband for that guy then you'll just throw away what you do have... but then again you don't really love your husband... so that doesn't matter.
2007-07-02 02:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He got what he was after...grow up; ask for forgiveness; and feed your husband some of that green grass you've been looking at and live happily ever after chick.
2007-07-02 02:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by elephant girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry honey but he loves his wife.. and not you.. stay with your husband
*never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love*
in your case... your husband is the one you shouldnt leave because this guy will screw u over for his wife
I suggest you stop talking to him so you dont mess up your marriage and regret it
2007-07-02 02:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jessi 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋