Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

already had one in mine and she ask for other ideas so she was talking about getting a limo and i and this other girl said she should get a hot tub in back of the limo and i proceeded to say yeh that she should also get a hot tub for the room , have it smelling nice with flower petals champagne and candlelights then i stopped and said that the guy should be doing that for her and i really never knew who she was talking about having the outing with. in my mind i was thinking about what sounded good for a womanbut she talked like she was setting the date which through me for a loop

2007-07-03 23:41:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've Kinda p***ed my boyfriend off,nothing really bad but i know he's not happy with me..
I know guy's can buy their girlfriends flowers or chocolate's to make it up to them...but what are girls suppose to do??

2007-07-03 23:40:37 · 16 answers · asked by baby_lou_smile 2 in Singles & Dating

i am married and my parents dosent know but i am waiting for the right time to tell my parents ,first i wanna be independent have a job, house, car then.but problem is that i dont know if i can make physical contact wiht my wife or not or should i wait to get married once again infront of my parents with my wife????

2007-07-03 23:37:30 · 11 answers · asked by msd_kahoo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know age shouldn't affect my feelings for her, but 10 years on me really makes me nervous. I'm 22. I guess I feel like I should act more mature or be more intellectual around her now. I totally thought she was my age too. Now I'm creating all this performance pressure for myself because I don't know how to act around her anymore. Should I go for it and ask her out? Or is 10 years too big a difference at this point in my life? I felt so confident before I found out her age, but now I feel really inexperienced compared to her! I'm not just talking about dating, but overall life experience.

2007-07-03 23:34:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 23:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I know and I've liked her now for quite a few months. I want to tell her how I feel but there's a slight difference. She's Filipino and I want to learn how to say it, and then say it to her in Tagalog.

Is this a good idea or the worst idea in the history of mankind?

2007-07-03 23:26:28 · 11 answers · asked by Rick G 4 in Singles & Dating

This is more of a guy question.
And I want to understand, because I think the reason so many women feel that porn hurts their relationship and feelings is because they feel as though we are being compared to those other girls.
Also theres the issue in my relationship, that I didnt have the problem with until I was pregnant, felt unattractive, and thought I was being replaced with all of these beautiful girls to statisfy my fiance.

So honestly, besides the fact that guys just want to "get off", what is the obsession with porn?
And if you already have someone who you love, and gives you it all, why do you feel the need to look at others, does it mean you wish you could be with them? Or do you compare?

2007-07-03 23:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by PAYlURTACK* 2 in Singles & Dating

For guys, what's the difference between a lover and a wife? How do guys see a girl as just a lover and how does guys treat a girl if he's going to be his wife?

2007-07-03 23:10:39 · 4 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this proof that two people love each other?

2007-07-03 22:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i admit i am overweight...but i am working on it, but i hear all these girls sayting they arent shallow. Well first, I would always treat a gril as if they were a godess. I never treat a girl with disrespect. I do have alot of friends that are girls but they are never attracted to me. I am good listener, and if my friend that is a girl has a problem i will listen and try to make her feel bettter, but why wont they like me i dont understand. I would be really nice to them but all they will see me as is a friend

2007-07-03 22:55:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on a date with a guy. He told me he got divorced two years ago. He doesnt wear any jewelry, only a ring on his right hand, on his little finger, does this mean something?

2007-07-03 22:55:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 22:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long was it before you got engaged to your husband or wife. me and my bf have been together for 3 years now and was just wanting to now how long it was. i dont want to get married yet as were a still a little bit young am 21 and hes 20 but i woulds like to someday get married to my bf. but i havent got a proper ring really to show how much we love ahother. we have been living together for 2 years now. thanks

2007-07-03 22:46:55 · 55 answers · asked by shell 5 in Weddings

ok im a guy right and for some reason girls just love me i could be tieing my shoe and they will find that like incredible, allot of girls have crushes on me to but there is a downside allot of other girls don't like me for no reason and call me a slut. they say the only thing i want is to get in girls pants when in actuality im a virgin. so basically my question is ...just because allot of girls like you does that make you a slut or a manwhore and is it wrong????

2007-07-03 22:31:33 · 14 answers · asked by dudester 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

one guy only. The thing is I look much yunger for my age and from what my friends tell me I'm beautiful, independent women,.and I attrack a lot of guys more than I can cope with.
I've been in long term relationship for 8 years and never cheated on my men, and have numerous opportunities to do so. The thing is I am single for almost 2 years now and turn down more men I can count. Dont get me wrong I could sleep with more than 100 men just like my gf did, but I cant get my self to this point.
To me sex is somethig pure not just something to give away to every bloke you meet in a bar.
My Q. is Is this coming too far, because I feel a lot of pressure from men, I do stand my ground, I know what I want.
But yet men don't appreciate this?
Q. Why is life so damn hard when you a decent women and so much easier when you a b..?
Should I go on like this and face the consequences to be with no men in my life or should I give
And please spare me with grammar, English is my second language

2007-07-03 21:59:13 · 7 answers · asked by blackpanter 2 in Friends

i was really worried bout doing this, as i am not the most confident person, also the lack of tme was a big issuue, i was given a phone number of a company called Bankbusters, They did it all and only charges 15%. better than all the others out there charging 25%+.
phone them on 01253 858502,, they are really friendly, a Husband and wife team and yes they are fully regulated by the ministry of Justice.

2007-07-03 21:54:15 · 1 answers · asked by baconbuttyman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years, and are now engaged. when we first started dating i met her through a mutual friend and one of the first things she told me was that she wasn't one of those controlling women and would never take my friends away from me. so probably once a week me and my friends would hang out. after awhile she started getting mad and said well it's just i don't like you drinking. so i said ok i'll stop drinking. (mind you i'm not an excessive drinker anyway). then it turned to well i just don't like your friends, so after awhile i started hanging out with my other group of friends. then it turned to well thats our time, and i work night shift 7 to 7 so on my nights i have to work she goes out with her friends. and we've gotten in the argument severel times about my friends and it never ends pretty and she says she can hang out with her friends cause i'm at work and it's not our time. but i said listen my life consists of work, sleep

2007-07-03 21:52:25 · 1 answers · asked by Atlas 4 in Singles & Dating

I got married wen i was 16.yes,i know wat youll say but it was love. it was really love and also illigal. i went through so much to be wit this guy.everything about this relationship was absolutly perfect .but two years into the marriage things started to get rocky.comon,i was 16 what would you expect?and im in colege full time so i met this guy.i didnt want to do r say anything but i must admit i was attracted to him plus he was in my class for a semester so we became friends.he went through a divorce at that time also and after the semester was over he stated coming to my house,giving me rides, that led into kissing, and eventually islept with him. at this time he had another gfand in the short time i was wth him he showed me so much more love,affection and warmth than i have recieved in the 2 years i was married to my hubs.then recently he got his gf pregnant and said that he needs to be with his new family even if that ment being unhappy for the rest of his life. i miss him so much

2007-07-03 21:37:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im supposed to get married at 2:30 tomorrow
should i run and hide or say i do???

2007-07-03 21:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by juggalo420jrb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It might sound silly but do you know in general people between age 35-45 are still interested in their sexual life? How frequent lets see in a week??

2007-07-03 21:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Nemo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 21:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by geena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do believe that being a woman you do not have to worry much about being alone. if you look around, most lonely people, some who even live their entire lives alone and never know love, intimacy of friendship are men. Society also judges women much less harshly. It is not always a choice for men to be alone. Most women have so many friends that they "chose" to be alone. Such is a priveledge of being a woman it seems I guess. I am an artist and I have worked very hard in my life. Yet, I am alone and have been alone as long as I can remember. What hurts is being dejected , rejected and looked over because of some of the most superficial things. What I hold in my mind is seen as worthless, such is the reality of being a man who does not fit the mold. I sit and watch people. I see women involved with men who are abusive but they would still chose a abusive worthless man over a man with ambitions and passion. It seems that $$$ is all that matters

2007-07-03 21:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Singles & Dating

Should gays and lezbians be allowed to get married? Tell me what you really think.

2007-07-03 21:06:23 · 14 answers · asked by anniemusgrove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 21:03:37 · 19 answers · asked by LYN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have sex and sometimes she does not finish but says it was great is this possible?

2007-07-03 20:52:50 · 12 answers · asked by Pride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 20:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by wilson n 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 20:35:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We started living as BF/GF but now we split. We share the same appartment and we love each other but he doesn't want to commit. Last night we end up having sex and now I'm really confused. We broke up just a few days ago and i'm not still used to the idea that i'm not longer his GF. I really love him but he was honest with me " I love you but I'm not ready for a long term relationship. I don't want to make you lose your time coz i think i will never be ready"
I just want to believe that things can work and he will change his mind one day. I know i'm still too young to think like this is the only man i want to share my life with. He's older than me 15 years and he was married once but was over ten years ago. Should I stay with him and be patient or should i move on

2007-07-03 20:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by chococat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 20:31:53 · 26 answers · asked by dorai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 20:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by wanting2learn 3 in Marriage & Divorce