im a merried man. what should i do if i fall inlove with the other woman? Which is i can say true love.?

Answer 1

You should have never been fooling around on your wife. You need to stay with the woman you chose to spend the rest of your life with.

Answer 2

Speaking from the point of view of having been the wife and had my husband cheat:
You obviously weren't happy with your wife to begin with or there would never have been another woman. You also have no love for yourself either. I would like to know if there are children involved in your marriage. I honestly think that it is too late for you to resolve your marriage issues, but if there is still love between you and your wife, you could try counseling. I don't believe that what you and your other woman have is true love because you have some issues that are not dealt with. I believe that the best thing for you would be to end your relationship or at least put the relationship on hold with both women until you learn to love yourself and know what you truly want. When you marry someone it is supposed to be until death do you part and your are definitely still alive and sleeping around. You need to take time to yourself and sort your life out because right now you are no good to either of these women and they probably both deserve better. Just so you know, I forgave me husband for cheating and we tried to work it out. A month later, he left me and our children and moved in with his mistress. Six months after living with her they got drunk, fought and needless to say he is now serving a fifteen year sentence. Life can be a worse ***** than a woman when it gets even, as the saying what goes around comes around. The best thing that my husband ever did for me and our daughters was to leave me so that I could get on with my life and be happy!

Answer 3

I don't think you are right in your assumption that women fall in love quicker than men. In fact men have a larger sense for the dramatic than women do. Men just express themselves differently than women do. I do think that most women tend more towards the romantic side of things, but men can be sensitive and romantic too, although they tend to hide it a lot more. You'll know he's romantic when he can sit through an entire East Indian flick ;) Of course if a guy can do that, he's likely too romantic. You may be better off with a monotonous bore... a beer guzzling, drooling couch potatoe. Men like to know when they enter a relationship that it is the real deal before admitting they love, but it doesn't mean that they do not love, it simply means that they are hesitant to show it. It would seem that where women are less likely to take risks when it comes to their physical well-being, men are are the same when it comes to emotion and the opposite when it comesto physical well-being.

Answer 4

i c alot of people saying you took a vow or promise. yet too i can understand your side. its not like you went in to the marriage saying okay i will meet true love later in life. you hope the one you married is the one. but the heart doesn't lie either.

So either way here you have to make a decision. yes you can stay with the wife but if your not in love with her you will feel very alone in time married but alone in your own thoughts as you can't tell her. by the same token is it fair for any of us to say well to bad you can't have real love your stuck with what you have chosen and that is your sentance for life.

So thats why i can see both sides to this. sad for the one who will lose but happy for the one that will win in this case you as you would be happier off. and in the long run to be truthful your wife will know when you lack the passion and love and it fizzles then no one wins here so in the end your both in a loveless marriage. and nobody wins then.

I hope this doesn't sound selfish. but life is short and why would anyone deprive themselves of happiness. its hard enough to find out there and if your the lucky few who stumbled across it its worth investigating.

But if you think you can be the same with your wife and never wonder what if or always think did i make the right decision.

this is something only you can decide from within only you know what you need and what makes you happy or content or fullfilled all of us here can say yeah or nay. but truthfully it will be you and your heart decision in the end. only you know what you can live with or without.

wish you good luck either way.

Answer 5

Didn't you say the marriage vows? Those weren't just casual words...those were serious statements and promises. Stay away from other women. Don't put yourself in a situation where you might cheat. Put the time you're spending thinking about the other woman into fixing your marriage.

Answer 6

You cannot even spell the word married let alone understand what the term means. Get some counseling then take a long look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why you have no moral character. At this point it does not matter what you do since neither one of the women will want you over time.

Answer 7

Don't get so close to other women??? Why would you even do that. You probably shouldn't even be on line chatting with people if you are scared you will fall for someone else? Do you love your wife? You either do or you don't. If you truly do, then you wouldn't worry about another person entering your heart.

Answer 8

You shoudn't have allowed yourself to fall in love with another woman. You're a married man!

Answer 9

you need to ask yourself is in love or is it lust. they can be very confusing then you need to think what is it that made you fall out of love with your wife and see if you can resolve the problem. Im sure that you and your wife has been through alot and she is always going to be there for you. the woman you are in love with may not be all that you think but there is obviously something lacking in your present relationship that you need to resolve. Good luck

Chao

Answer 10

Well since your merried, it would be alright. But if you ever get married, stay with your wife!