Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

any advice?
i think it's really restricting me. i feel horrible.

2007-07-03 10:56:32 · 6 answers · asked by hiramiato 1 in Singles & Dating

So, ..... What's the craziest / kinkiest place you've ever gotten it on with someone ? Not just made out - the full deal ? Come on lets hear it..... !

2007-07-03 10:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do girls find it so wrong for their man to look at porn? My husband does and i don't really care whats the big deal the only time i cared was when i asked him to do something and instead of doing it he looked at porn but i was more mad he didn't do what i asked. Should i care that he looks at porn it doesn't stop his interest in me any.

2007-07-03 10:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 10:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by Jimmy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been unofficially seperated from my husband for 4 months. I am sure that we are headed for divorce but we go back and forth on trying again or ending it all. At the moment he wants try again but i think i am all out of tries. Now throw this into the mix- I am in deep with his ex friend. Our families were once close but in the past year we have all moved appart (they are divorcing- not because of us). My husband and I have had major issues through out our marriage- you name it we have pretty much "tried'' get past it. But our past has never been something that we can get over. I feel like when i started "relating" to my new man is when I realized that I was not going to be happy in my marriage, ever. We have no trust, my love for him is nomore, he does not want to deal with any issues. I am scared though. I dont know how to tell him I want a divorce- he is so minipulating and he some how gets me to feel bad for him or he cries and I am not a mean hearted person so I crumble.

2007-07-03 10:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sun of the Dark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my boyfriend for 14 months and were both quite young but we decided it was time we had sex. but we talked about it first, discussing weather we were ready and even went to a chemist to discuss contreception..BUT when it came round to having sex..we couldnt do it!! =$ (It would be the first time for both of us - to have sex) We couldnt find where to put it. We dont know what the problem is.
Please help!

Girlfriend and Boyfriend xxx

2007-07-03 10:47:42 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a wedding to attend this weekend that I need to get a gift for. My question is since I am a massage therapist is it rude to give them a gift certificate for massage? They have two registries, but have told me they really did not need anything. At one point the bride wanted to set up a massage with me for before the wedding, but her budget has gotten low and schedule crazy. Any suggestions?Thanks!

2007-07-03 10:43:05 · 19 answers · asked by Doll_Partz 2 in Weddings

I would think that people who view porn feel they need a sexual release. Wouldn't having more sex with your spouse provide this release and therefore remove the desire to view porn. Wouldn't it be healthier to give a spouse an outlet like sex than just telling them that viewing porn makes you feel bad? Shouldn't the sexual needs of the spouse be accounted for?
Is it as simple as have more sex with your spouse to avoid them from watching porn?
If your spouse does prefer to watch porn over actual sex what does that suggest of your skills as a lover?
Can increased sex with one's spouse get rid of the desire to watch porn?

2007-07-03 10:41:09 · 43 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help. I don't want to seem like a chicken, plus she is pretty good lookin. What do you think?

2007-07-03 10:37:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does this sound right?

2007-07-03 10:36:05 · 24 answers · asked by Hicktown girl66 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 10:36:00 · 45 answers · asked by David L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she came to my house and she looked really stressed and crying and i asked why r u here (it was memorial day)? she kicked me in the nuts and then left screaming at me... why is she so pissed?

2007-07-03 10:35:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have no idea what I am doing. I am 14 years old and my mother hates me. I hate her back for being a self controllable ***** who thinks she knows everything. My life has always been under her circumstances. I ****** up a couple days ago, not a big deal, just a little fight with my siblings and poof. I'm grouded for the summer. What a *****. Soem nights I lay in bed ad think if i can get away with killing her. I hate her so much and dream of the day I am out of this shitty house and imagine the fantastic last words of "**** you, you were a horrible parent." as i lean over and spit in her face on her death bed. What should I do, run away, torture myself. I hate her and there is no turning back now because it is too late to become freidns. She hates me and I hate her. I wish I couldjust rewind time nad become 8 years old again where it started .Please help me, I dont know how much longer i can last in this hellhole.

2007-07-03 10:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by what should i do? 1 in Family

2007-07-03 10:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of ours seems to really believe that she's the hottest thing on the face of this earth... she's not. If society were to catergorize her, she'd be a couple notches below a "plain jane". Yet, she's demeaning to people who do not fit the "status-quo" when it comes to looks. This gets very annoying to a lot of us. If we were to tell her flat out that she's not that attractive, she would throw a hissy fit, and become more irritable. She does have a good side- or else we wouldn't be her friends- but her demoralization of others needs to stop. How would you handle this?

2007-07-03 10:26:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been seeing this wonderful man for the last 7 weeks. We've known each other for about 3 months. Talked for a month and then met in person and have been dating and seeing each other once a week every week since.
We were talking yesterday early evening and all is perfectly fine, I was asking him about 4th of July Fireworks plans, he said "sorry, Wolfy has first dibs"...Wolfy is his 7 year old son from this previous marriage of his. He's currently separated from his "Whacko" Ex Wife. They've been separated 2 + years and she refuses to sign the divorce papers because she wants to squeeze every penny out of him as best as she can even though he's the one who pays for everything, his sons clothes, toys, school (private school), medical bills, etc etc. He's very active and involved in his sons life. I haven't met the kid yet...but here's the problem.

So I thought Wolfy had first dibs on going to see fireworks his father, thats all fine and good, i'm not jealous of the boys time

2007-07-03 10:22:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife left me months ago. And my girlfriend after the separation broke up with me. I thought we were both really happy and did not see her as a rebound but I guess I was wrong. It was abrupt for her to leave and I don't know why. I did everything I knew to do and if I had known she was unhappy I would have tried to change that. Now I can not seem to get over the pain. I have not hurt like this ever before and I can not function or see any hope.

2007-07-03 10:18:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You can pick someone who passed away or someone who drifted away from you. What would you say to this person?

2007-07-03 10:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by Bristilicious 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dear god how can that be..... a women raping a man?!?!

o.0

2007-07-03 10:12:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 10:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by sheaniaalways 1 in Friends

A couple of days I ask about meeting this one guy that I had met over the internet. He is 20 and recently came back from Iraq. He is a father of 2 children from 2 different moms and from 1 night stand both. He says that he has change and all. So on Sunday we actually went out to the pool with my 4 year old and then we went to church and ended up at my house hanging out with my family and watching movies. When it was time for him to drive back to base,he asked me what was going to happen with us? I responded nothing. I told him that I was not interested in dating him because of the whole military issues and the restrictions he has. I also mention to him my last horrible relationships with military man. Well the problem is that he refuses to give up and in fact he called me this morning saying that he was at the mall buying me my b-day gift since I will be 24 on Sunday. I have offer my friendship, but he doesn't want that. Can any one help me puzzle this out PLEASE!

2007-07-03 10:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by csprincess2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to know what different people like. I'm trying to spice up my sex life, so could someone help me??
I'm looking for toys, role playing ideas, anything.
I need some ideas.

2007-07-03 10:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-03 10:06:18 · 28 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have one really great friend that we have been friends with for 6 years. We are wanting to make him God Father to our son, but he isn't married or dating. He loves our son like he was his own. We both feel like this is a good move , but have resreved feeling about his future. I have no doute his ability to financily and emoitionly support our son. Is this a good move? Also is there anything legaly we have to do in order to appoint him as our son's God Father.

2007-07-03 10:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by morgan g 1 in Family

...I guess children all feel strange after their parents are divorced, (and I'm 13 myself)... but I don't know if this is just me being pitiful... but would anybody mind sharing?

I know I'm not the only one out there.

2007-07-03 10:04:25 · 4 answers · asked by moonii 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK the place we registared with automatically mails the gifts to us. Is it ok to open the gifts before the wedding? My mother is telling me we should open the gifts at the reception?!?!?! I have never seen a bride and groom do that. But should we open before, during the reception, or when we get back from our honeymoon? Also what is kosher? and what is tradition with this part?

2007-07-03 10:04:09 · 52 answers · asked by victoriarose1982 2 in Weddings

watcha say to a guy that lets him no ur not ready (w/o being offensive plz)

2007-07-03 10:04:07 · 19 answers · asked by Sofia N 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright I really really like this guy okay, I've liked him since May of 2006.
My friend told me that he liked me, and so I got excited, but then he asked out a different girl. He broke up with her to ask out a different girl, cheated on her, then broke up with her to continue dating the girl he was cheating on her with. Then he dumped that girl to ask out the first girl. He knows I like him, and we are really good friends, but if he liked me he would have told me, right? Should I give up on him, or should I continue to like him, clinging to the desperate hope that maybe he likes me back??

2007-07-03 10:01:43 · 20 answers · asked by OMG Lizard In A Can! :D 4 in Singles & Dating

exwife thinks my new wife should have no say/involment with our child and should take a back seat to everything.All school/discipline/discussions about my son should be between me and my ex and my new wife should NEVER be involved.My new wife feels the only time i should talk to my exwife is if there is an emergency or a major problem with our son not for everything thing that comes up.Plus my new wife feels left out when i talk to only to my ex about a issue with my son(exampe school problem/sickness).She feels i should tell her the same stuff i tell my exwife but then my ex gets pissed as she feels its none of her concern.The bottom line is they hate each other so much all they can think about is how to make the other one miserable.

2007-07-03 10:01:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know i was wrong! i had a best friend for quite long time maybe around 4years!we shared alot but things got pity worst when she started been jelas on me i went to her house once and her mom was there she liked me alot and was giving me compliment because she found me pretty so that made my friend upset and the whole time i was at her place she didnt talk to me so well..i felt as if my legs got heavier and i couldnt move out and leave! i left her friendship after that and probably never told her what went wrong..i came over to london and went back home after some months saw her on the street with her mum and ignored them both!she talk to me online that what was wrong with me! After sometime i came to know she came to london for studies as well! we recently started talking i dont know why i want her back and make things good and tel her what went wrong i also asked her to meet me but she doesnt want to reply nor she wants to talk about it but she is good with me! what can i do to make

2007-07-03 09:59:36 · 2 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Friends