Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

This may be very nasty to some, but my husband watches porn while im sleeping (i found this out because of our on demand) and the other day i found a "*** rag" in the living room! EWWWW!!! It bothers me so much and after i talked to him about it, it blew up into this long argument that went on till 5 in the morning. I just feel like i don't get enough love and attention as it is and to see that he watches porn on tv and online makes me feel SO insecure. He says he will stop since it bothers me but then acts like im still in the wrong for being so insecure about it. I dont understand how everything gets switched to being MY fault, all i did was simply tell him that it bothered me.

2007-07-03 08:33:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just started dating this girl and I really like her. She doesn't drink a lot and she is starting to notice that I do. I can't stop drinking because number one I don't want to and number two I realized that I am not so charismatic and engaging when I am sober. As a matter of fact I am totally awkward and boring when I am sober.

This ain't going to work out is it?

2007-07-03 08:32:56 · 6 answers · asked by Wookie Love 2 in Singles & Dating

I am sure she is moving the chess pieces when I am not looking.

2007-07-03 08:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there this guy i really like how do i get him in bed

2007-07-03 08:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone else ever heard that 7/7 is bad luck? or just good luck?

2007-07-03 08:31:27 · 27 answers · asked by lsaleini 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out of my mind when I found out that I was pregnant a week ago.
I broke down about it when I told my boyfriend, and he admitted he had been poking holes in the ends of the condoms and hiding my birthcontrol pills from me.
He told me when we started dating 3 years ago that he wasn't interested in having kids, so why he did this makes no sense.
I care about him, but my trust in him is completely destroyed. I don't know if I should just break up with him. I need advice?

2007-07-03 08:30:17 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not gay, but i see it all the time women are with women and no body says a word or accepts it, but for men it just cuts to the bone for them

2007-07-03 08:28:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had a bad feeling about my fiance Dan. I just can't say that I trust him. Something in me just keeps nagging on, I don't know what to think. It is really hard to just say "it's over", there is a little boy involved. I don't know if he is cheating, but, he is acting totally different than the Dan i used to know. Help me out.

2007-07-03 08:28:18 · 49 answers · asked by Skwerl (loves u) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 08:27:42 · 17 answers · asked by Golden Mask 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to the movies with my bf on sunday. we went with his friends. they didnt like the movie so about half into it we all left and went behind the movie theater. my bf started skating with them and i went inside because it was getting cold out. i sat at a little table staring out the window for about 15 min. i wanted to cry so bad. i got up and went outside and saw shane (my bf) he hugged and kissed me and said he was sorry for just leaving me like that. then he started to talk to his friends. when his dad picked us up, and when we got to my house, we both got out of the car. he kissed and hugged me and said he was still really sorry. i just said it was ok. he said he would call me or talk to me online but we havnt talked since sunday. its now tuesday. what could be going through his head? should i just wait for him to contact me? or am i just too peranoid and need to chill? what do i do????

2007-07-03 08:20:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A group of kids were asked, what does love means. One of them said: "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." - Danny - age 7

2007-07-03 08:18:59 · 4 answers · asked by Diamond 4 in Family

What about an annualment?

2007-07-03 08:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by LuckyStar1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just spent two amazing weeks getting my life back on course, and I am finally back to where I want to be with God, and had amazing Joy, until I had to spend a night with my family. All their little Quirks I used to find funny are now disgusting. They make nasty jokes, drink alot, and are vulger. And my friends are the same way! I feel as tho I have no Strong Christians to turn to and to encurage me, and I feel as tho I'm falling back into my old life. Help me please, because I feel as if I'm swimming and have hit a current to strong to pass, and instead of helping me, my family and friends are letting me drown.

I also have a problem with always being on guard, and any little thing sets me off. I think it may be beacause I bottle up my emotions, and when it is shaken so much, it explodes. I'm just looking for prayer and advice in over coming these issues in my life. I thank you so much for the time you spend on these issues. May God Bless.

2007-07-03 08:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Helsinki_Love 3 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for 8yrs. & we have 2children.I am a full-time stay-at-home-mom off & on for the 5yrs. My BF's mother can't hold down a job or apartment having her & her 17yr.old son continuously living with us in our 2bed/2bath. In the past she has 2x abandoned her son with us.Now, she has once again been evicted & has asked us if her son could stay with us for a couple of days & if she could bring a "couple" of things to our home(she was suppose to get a storage room also).Of course I said OK.Well, she didn't get a storage room & now my Apt. is a storage room & it's smells like one.The smell of their belongings is bothering me & so I mentioned that to my BF & he has the nerve to say "here you go complaining again" because the last couple of times she got evicted& had to live with us I was complaining & before they came this time I told him I have changed and I have. I don't mind them being here,it's just that their stuff smells & some of it is dirty clothes stinky socks

2007-07-03 08:15:00 · 3 answers · asked by Really Cool Person 2 in Family

I have wanted to go to this festival for about 2-3 weeks now.i told my mum about it and weve not said anything about it untill today.I asked my mum if i could go.My nan works near by and my friend who im going with ,mum is going so we would be perectly safe.But its my grandads party that same day.His birthday which was earlieron in the week & we went to a restaurant to celebrate which i went to.i know for a fact my two cousins who are my age wont come to his party so why is my mum making me.i really really want to go to this concert.iv been so exited for aages.how can i convince my mum to let me go.?.
Is it fair.
Am i being selfish

2007-07-03 08:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Kids, sex, sharing housework, stable job, etc....

2007-07-03 08:12:04 · 35 answers · asked by I <3 my boys 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If you go out with a girl once and from that one date decide you are not compatible, will you reply if she texts you or just leave it alone?

2007-07-03 08:11:17 · 21 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

do you count the time from when you left off, or does it start all over again? Like anniversaries. I hope you all know what I am saying

2007-07-03 08:10:51 · 18 answers · asked by Video_Production 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a 26 year old healthy female . So about a month ago i decided to stop smoking marijiana for good! I feel better about myself and getting motivation back. There is a big problem though. I have completely lost my sex drive. I use to want sex all the time and now i feel indifferent about it and i want it back!! My husband is trys to be understanding aabout it, but i can tell he is getting fed up. when we start to do it. i sort of feel like doing it, but as soon as we start fooling around, i dont really want to. has this happened to anyone else?...what did you do to get it back?...thanks for your advice

2007-07-03 08:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend's wife divorced him twice and he remarried her when she asked him to take her back. Then he divorced her and thought he could move on and she asked him back again. He is contemplating remarrying her for the fourth time. Is this as odd as I think it is?

2007-07-03 08:06:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl like 7 years ago in high school. When I first met I always physically attracted to her but at time I was kind of nerdy so I did not think she would like me . She is like in my top five for prettiest girls that I met in person. But like after high school I changed. I became friends with her last year when I attended the same college like her. When I came back home to visit for the summer we talked and she told me she liked me. I became excited when she landed a kiss on my lips and hugged. I would like to enter a relationship with her because she is mature and reserved and nicer and caring than other girls. However on the other hand I am unsure. Because I attend college in a state that is 5 hours by plane, she is a little older than me, Im 21 and shes 24, and like she has a kid thats like six, and she might be more experienced than me in life experiences.

2007-07-03 08:05:17 · 3 answers · asked by NBA Man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-03 08:04:09 · 15 answers · asked by Lima Bean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 08:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in my mid twenties and have been dating my boyfriend for the past 3 years. Within the past two months, I've been starting to feel like I'm distantancing myself from him. I don't feel very connected to him sexually which is part of the problem, but mostly I just feel a lack of stimulation from our relationship as a whole. Overall he is a great guy and our future plans run parallel. he is aware of how i'm feeling, but the same issues always seem to come back up. How do I know if this is just a phase or if it's time to part ways. Is this one of those things that you work on and your relationship becomes more rewarding? Could this be a quarterlife crisis?

2007-07-03 08:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by lysa 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had sex with your lover earlier in a day, would you go home to your wife and have sex with her later that evening? Wouldn't you be afraid that she could smell or taste another woman on you? Or would you avoid sex with your wife? I know its wrong to cheat, but doesnt something seem awfully disturbing to have sex with both your lover and your wife in one day? Also, if you are gross enough to have sex with your wife after your lover, please tell me you would at least refuse oral from her...would you let your wife do that to you knowing darn well your 'thing' has been somewhere else? Just a curious question? Thanks. And no, I am not the lover, and no I am not being cheated on. Just a question.

2007-07-03 08:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you win 200,000 dollars how much would you get after taxes..Im from pennsylvania.

2007-07-03 08:01:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im with a man who is married, separated, but still married. He has 3 kids with his wife, who he was with for 7 yrs.. I am now just 2 mos. preg, and he is hoping ill have an abortion. He is in the military and would face steep consequences if he were to be caught in an affair. I do believe he is in love with me, and we are young. I am 21 and he is 24. What do I do?

2007-07-03 08:00:57 · 33 answers · asked by justme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need help on this subject.. like how long do you keep ur mouth open before you close it and open it again?? and how DO you french kiss?? please helpp

2007-07-03 07:59:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sure this happens all of the time. I've in love with him, and he's in love with her. He wants to be friends with me, but for some reason the word "friends" is like putting salt in a wound. He says he will give me 100% of his love as a friend, and that we are like Jerry and Elaine (Seinfeld). Yuck! I don't want to be his "bud" and I don't want to give him advice on the woman he is in love with. Obviously there's not much I can do. You can't force someone to love you. I don't like my "role" in this situation - - the jealous and scorned one. I try to pretend that I am his friend, but then he starts talking to me about this woman and how strong his feelings are for her, and I can't handle it. My two choices are force myself to be his friend or just end all ties completely. Any suggestions?

2007-07-03 07:59:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a lot of hate for blondes and skinny people these days, so many people claim they are fake and unattractive. I'm a naturally skinny, naturally blonde person and I'm starting to feel bad about myself just cuz i have a certain hair color and body type. I feel like some people look at me and assume I'm a bleached anorexic.

Is this just revenge for all the time the media glamorized this type?

Why is it not possible to embrace different looks without cutting someone else down?

2007-07-03 07:53:44 · 39 answers · asked by melissa 5 in Singles & Dating