i went to the movies with my bf on sunday. we went with his friends. they didnt like the movie so about half into it we all left and went behind the movie theater. my bf started skating with them and i went inside because it was getting cold out. i sat at a little table staring out the window for about 15 min. i wanted to cry so bad. i got up and went outside and saw shane (my bf) he hugged and kissed me and said he was sorry for just leaving me like that. then he started to talk to his friends. when his dad picked us up, and when we got to my house, we both got out of the car. he kissed and hugged me and said he was still really sorry. i just said it was ok. he said he would call me or talk to me online but we havnt talked since sunday. its now tuesday. what could be going through his head? should i just wait for him to contact me? or am i just too peranoid and need to chill? what do i do????
2007-07-03 08:20:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too young to be worrying about these things. If he calls, then he calls. I would leave the situation alone. Apparently, he doesn't feel that bad or he would have called you.
2007-07-03 08:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by JoliCart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guy's at any age seem to not have all there brain cells when they are around there buddies.
I would wait to see if he contacts you some time tonight. If he doesn't then try to contact him tomorrow. If by tomorrow you are still not able to get a hold of him, then I would think 1 of 2 things. Either something happened and he is really busy (which can happen)
Or he is ignoring you. But if this is the case, then was he really worthy of you to begin with? Nobody deserves (at any age) to be ignored and brushed off like that.
The good thing about dating at you age is that it is all a learning experience. Now you are learning what you like and don't like in a guy. In your next bf, you will know the warning signs of someone who will put his friends before you.
But again, it could have been an honest mistake and he really could just be busy. I would wait until tomorrow before I get worried.
Good luck!
2007-07-03 15:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by stinkerblinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, if you are still a youngin..like 13-16 , its hard for guys at that age to multi task with a gf and friends. Please just forgive him. Talk to him about it, also guys at that age hate talkin on the phone. Just give it time..why dont you call him?
2007-07-03 15:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by becky b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are paranoid. Just chill.
2007-07-03 15:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋