Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

I recently got engaged and me and my fiancee are deciding on a date. We were high school sweethearts and have been dating for almost 4 years (it'll be 4 in October). We are thinking of getting married in May or June of 2009 which will be a 22 or 23 month engagement. We are still in college but he will graduate in December and I will graduate in May. The reason we have thought about waiting so long is to save up plenty of money for a house and everything else. However, we have also thought about getting married in August of next year (a 13 month engagement) but I will have only been working for a couple of months and him for 8 months.

Any opinions??

2007-07-03 07:53:11 · 29 answers · asked by Krissy 2 in Weddings

hi frenz
any of u who has a libran husband...or had one.....
are they trustworthy....
wat makes them drool for u all their life??
i am gonno be with one....

2007-07-03 07:52:37 · 4 answers · asked by libran_beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im meeting with a person. I forgot their name! How do I find out what it is w/o looking like a total moron? My friend is coming with me. I could always have her ask him for his name. What do you think?

2007-07-03 07:52:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been seeing a guy for 2 weeks now, we love each others company, like doing the same things etc.... but his ex who is also male, cheated on him with a woman, he said to me he's not ready for commitment yet and that he really does feel deeply for me and that he'll let me know when he is ready, i like him so much its unbelieveable but I don't know what to do, SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-07-03 07:51:27 · 23 answers · asked by shredder 1 in Singles & Dating

would you do it?

this is just a question dont actually think someone proposed this to me because im not married!

and dont think im the one offering because if i had at least a million i'd be doing something better then that...........................................like going to the DOLLAR STORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i can get a million of those cheap 1$ plastic dinosaurs for my nephew!

2007-07-03 07:51:16 · 40 answers · asked by mannyg2199 4 in Singles & Dating

At first it was just, kiss me, kiss me. Now that I have been dating my boyfrined for almost a year, has moved on to asking for more than just kisses. A week ago I gave him a hand job, but now i'm afraid he will think that whenever he begs for something from me, he can get it. What can I do to prevent this from happening?

2007-07-03 07:49:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought my wedding dress at davids bridal. Does anyone know the exchange policy. I like my dress but I would like to have a different one from another store. Can you exchange your wedding dress for bridemaid dresses?

2007-07-03 07:49:53 · 14 answers · asked by Floridagirl 3 in Weddings

if he says he like talking to you what does it mean does it nessceserrily mean he has feeling for me or is it different i am willing to give myself to him but he refuses to use a condom he says he could pull it out so i wont get pregnant should i trust him or not we only know each other beacause his sister is my cousin does this seem right plz help me

2007-07-03 07:49:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

obviously if you have a boyfriend he aloud to talk to other girls right? but at what point do you freak out or dump him? how much is too much for a guy to talk to this other girl?

2007-07-03 07:48:56 · 23 answers · asked by Luna 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is originally from Korea and is over here on a work visa that I help her obtain. We met on a Christian missions trip in Seoul last fall, and we fell in lust immediately.

Honestly, I've never had better carnal relations in my life, and I just knew from the start this was the girl I wanted to spend the next 18-48months of my life with. So I asked her to marry me, with a full prenuptual agreement protecting myself for the inevitable divorce.

Through no fault of mine, she let herself become pregnant with my child. Okay, that's fine I guess. However, 7 months into her pregnancy, she was diagnosed with probable MS.

Honestly, I didn't know that I was involving myself with a flawed woman. I did not sign up for this.

Should I just tell her it's not going to work out? Should I take the ring back? I was thinking about waiting for her to go to work, packing up and driving out to Seattle.

I also have considered having her work permit revoked. Would that cost me a lot? How would I go about doing that?

I'm a good man, and this is not something I deserve!


Good luck

2007-07-03 07:48:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says that now that im with him i cant go anywhere and i hate it when people tell me what to do(me and my boyfriend have been going out for2months)And we have got in alot of fights because of that i even invite him to the parties with me but when he goes he doesnt leave me alone i try to dance and well hes with me 24/7 hes like my bodyguard i hate it what should i do? Help

2007-07-03 07:46:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left seven months ago. He was the only man I ever been with. He have found someboby, but I am a bit afraid to go out. I don't know how to act anymore. There's a lot of men out there that just want one thing. This is not for me. How do I trust somebody.

2007-07-03 07:40:59 · 18 answers · asked by Dove 1 in Singles & Dating

Now she's all muddy...Should I take the garden hose and wash her off or just leave her this way for her Mom? Hurry, I only have 20 minutes to decide........

2007-07-03 07:39:58 · 23 answers · asked by cme2bleve 5 in Family

Back to the Clinton/Lawinski scandal. I'm taking a poll. How many of you would consider oral as cheating?

2007-07-03 07:39:47 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 07:38:47 · 24 answers · asked by Margaret C 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school and I have 1 good friend and 1 ok friend. Well my really good friend is moving.My ok friend she is always talking about herself and so stuck on herself.then when i try to make friends girls alway catch attitudes an talk junk behind my back some times i dont even say anything to them and they already have an attitude. what should i do to make friends?

2007-07-03 07:38:23 · 19 answers · asked by ☺♥Justus♥☺ 3 in Friends

I'm in the anger phase of a break up. I was seeing someone for a month, seemed great on paper...claimed he wanted to settle down and have a family. He's 15 years older, nice apt in manhattan, descent house in the hamptons. I played the hard to get role for about 3 weeks. I had slept with him once after 4 dates. I decided to spend the weekend with him @ his house. He was attentive and sweet and did all the right stuff,like wanting to go fruit shopping @ a market for my parents to driving me around for da nxt time .On sunday I went home he txt me about 4 times, we spoke once and the nxt day the pursuing stopped. I called on the monday and tues and he seemed occupied. he'd call me, but it was what very distant, he called on Wednesday. I never picked up the phone or returned the phone call. It's been a wk, no txt, no call..nothing. he cut me off completely. I will never call!!. I have my thoughts on this, but why do u think I was dumped or will he call. I want to get him back :(

2007-07-03 07:37:35 · 26 answers · asked by vonparis17 2 in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't want to have some unorganized chefs cooking food for my wedding reception.

2007-07-03 07:37:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-03 07:36:08 · 11 answers · asked by Flakiss 1 in Friends

i went on a date 2 weeks ago with a guy i met from myspace. he went to the same school as me and i later found out that he is related to a good friend of mine, so it wasn't like i went out with a complete stranger. anyways, him and his last girlfriend just broke up about a month ago, and i don't think he's completely over her yet. they dated almost a year. he sent me the message below last night, and i don't know whether i should just get over him, or kinda wait around for him. he's the one who pursued me in the first place. what do u think? thanks for ur help.

he sent me this-----> Its me again, dont get upset or anything at me, but I like you, but, Im not as ready to date as what I thought I was. I really want to be friends with you right now but I cant date you. I hope your not upset with me, but thats the way I feel right now and hopefully it will change within the near future, but again, I would really like to be friends with you and hope we can be.

2007-07-03 07:35:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started seeing this guy, he is absolutly perfect. I never felt like this before about anyone. The thought of losing him scares me, and the fact that its only been a month scares me even more. We both were recently divorced. I have never been in this kind of situation before, but I've noticed little signs that he misses her. He kinda talks about her sometimes, or if he sees something he will say "My ex wife had one of those". Then in his room in three days his and his ex's rings were in three different places like he was looking at them or something. I understand that he was with her for seven years and that it is our human nature to "Miss our ex's" but I almost feel like I'm being disrespected. But I want to be understanding and make sure he has time to become himself. But I also know she did him wrong and for the last two years of their marriage he was in Iraq. He got back in Dec. and they filed March. Should I give him time? Like back off? or what?

2007-07-03 07:35:05 · 27 answers · asked by B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a bride to be and getting married in the NY Metro region. I've read a lot of answers regarding how much is appropriate for a NY metro wedding and most have said $100 per couple is sufficient. I know that gifts are not required technically but I think the trends also include the bride and groom paying for the wedding themselves and usually going into debt to do so. If people give $25-100 total for themselves and their guest if they bring one, I think the couple would be the ones trying to make ends meet to pay off the loan for a lot longer than they had to. Most reception sites in the NY metro region are greater than $150 per person for a Saturday night wedding. It is an honor to have guests but at the same time i think guests should try to cover the plate. Should people accept to go if they know they can't afford it? Otherwise, should they plan to go out less on the weekends so they can save, after accpeting so that by the time of the wedding, the guest has funds to give?

2007-07-03 07:34:39 · 20 answers · asked by Bride 2 be 1 in Weddings

I am!

2007-07-03 07:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've just been around black men most of my life and I am looking to expand my horizons:-) Any race, ethnicity, nationality will do!

2007-07-03 07:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-03 07:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by bjhillsy96 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you think you are a candidate for this job please answer.


i need someone to talk to

2007-07-03 07:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by blue october 3 in Friends

I would like something fun and upbeat but I am shy about dancing, so its not like I will be dancing to it on my way in

2007-07-03 07:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by ~LuCkY~ 5 in Weddings

I asked this question a long time ago but people didn't seem to understand! Would you date me, and except my believes as i would yours! Now then I think about all the believes out there and there are a coulpe i wouldn't be fine with! So I would understand how you would feel toward my believes! But would you be willing to try out my Relgion, I know thatif you did I would you to! Now There was an answer on my this question last time i asked it and I broke up with him! But i am just wondering what your willing to do for someone you care about and your believes that you have? I am christian if you haven't notice before!

2007-07-03 07:23:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is getting married on 7-7-07. I don't know what to get him cause they basically have everything. They are not a new couple starting out they've actually been together for quite some time now. they even have grand kids... any suggestions

2007-07-03 07:19:36 · 10 answers · asked by hecc24 2 in Weddings

my dad and i were clpse when i was growing up we did everything together. i would stand ontop of his shoes and we'd dance together. we were so close and i loved him so much. i was really a "daddys girl" but then something changed. he started getting caught up with work and other things and had less and less time for me. he had meetings on my thirteenth birthday and he chose meetings over dinner with me. last week, he had been out of town on business for all week. when he came home i ran to greet him saying "hi daddy" but he didnt even look at me. whenever im talking to my mom he always calls her away from me saying "no, come watch tv with me, she doesnt need you" i dont know what has happened to my daddy that i used to look up to and constantly want to be around. hes no longer fun to talk to and i cant tell him about my day or anything. when i try, he just walks off or pretends hes too interested in his tv show. im going to college soon and want a better relationship w/ him

2007-07-03 07:16:29 · 17 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Family