I've been seeing a guy for 2 weeks now, we love each others company, like doing the same things etc.... but his ex who is also male, cheated on him with a woman, he said to me he's not ready for commitment yet and that he really does feel deeply for me and that he'll let me know when he is ready, i like him so much its unbelieveable but I don't know what to do, SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-07-03 07:51:27 · 23 answers · asked by shredder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you HAVE to give him space, however hard it is, or you will drive him away.
He's already said he feels deeply for you, so don't panic that you'll lose him, but try and keep yourself occupied with other things and dont push him into a relationship he's not yet ready for. the best things come to those who wait. show your sensitivity towards him by letting him take things at his own pace
2007-07-03 07:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry about it by the sound of things if you two are having lots of fun together and having some chemistry between you then carry on the way your going and I'm sure he'll change his mind. Just dont put pressure on him to commit to anything to soon and it's only been two weeks, so dull your feelings down abit dont get all loved up when you think you might just end up having a broken heart at the end.
2007-07-03 16:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy time, it's only 2 weeks, if you like him then you will be prepared to wait until he is ready to commit to a new relationship, if not, move on
2007-07-03 14:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, we are both in the same situation. im a guy and his bisexual and he's not ready yet after a month of dating. He said 'he likes me' but didn't used the word 'love. and u know what im doing now? im hoping and givin him another month and he doesn't know about this ultimatum but i'd stay the f*uck out of him if he said no again. I love him too..i love him so much. He's my very first date...first kiss...and he told me 'IM not ready yet' although he likes me. CAll me stupid but isn't love is all about faith? just give him sometime. Give him a deadline. If he really loves you, he'd do anything for you...i literally mean anything. Please dont feel sorry for yourself. :) u'll be ok.
2007-07-03 15:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by christian dior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dating 2 weeks!!! Give the guy a break! You are just smothering him. I wouldn't ask anyone to get serious after 2 weeks. That's a sure fire way to be single all the time. Be patient like love is.
2007-07-03 14:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by chillypowder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on with your life. Do not depend on him to make you happy or give you anything more then a friendship. Don't try and push a relationship because he obviously has unresolved issues with his ex and it will only cause drama.
2007-07-03 14:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EWWW, let me clean up the puke from my keyboard.
You're seeing a guy, who was seeing a guy who cheated on him with a girl? And you don't know what to do?
This guy of yours isn't ready for a commitment with you because HE'S GAY. It's ok to be friends, but don't expect anything more than that. After all, he's GAY.
2007-07-03 14:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
2 weeks is much too soon to make a decision like that. Give this person time.....you rush things your only headed for disaster and heartache.
2007-07-03 15:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the sort of some problem apart for it a girl not girlfriend, i guess u have to wait it's not easy i can tell you, u'll be thinking about the person for long and maybe getting mixed signals but am waiting for mine to be ready and when they are ready u'll be so glad you waited
2007-07-03 15:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by tmoshth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time, he will come around soon. for right now if u want to hang on to him give him what he wants,but dont let him run u over.he will see that u want do the same things that his boyfriend did and that is what will bring yall closer.
2007-07-03 14:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by In Love<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋