i went on a date 2 weeks ago with a guy i met from myspace. he went to the same school as me and i later found out that he is related to a good friend of mine, so it wasn't like i went out with a complete stranger. anyways, him and his last girlfriend just broke up about a month ago, and i don't think he's completely over her yet. they dated almost a year. he sent me the message below last night, and i don't know whether i should just get over him, or kinda wait around for him. he's the one who pursued me in the first place. what do u think? thanks for ur help.
he sent me this-----> Its me again, dont get upset or anything at me, but I like you, but, Im not as ready to date as what I thought I was. I really want to be friends with you right now but I cant date you. I hope your not upset with me, but thats the way I feel right now and hopefully it will change within the near future, but again, I would really like to be friends with you and hope we can be.
2007-07-03 07:35:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flutegirl, Hon it"s your call but I would listen to his words ! If by the time he is ready you already found someone else then it will be his loss !
2007-07-03 07:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally respect his honesty. You do not want to be the rebound girl. Be friends with him for now and support him or just leave it be and get over him. You should give him credit for telling you how he really feels. Give him time and if you there for him getting over this he like you even more in the end.
2007-07-03 14:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyStar1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the situation he is in and if you really want to start a relationship with him wait a little bit for him, but if you don't see any change in him, then you should get over him.
Just always be his friend just in case it takes him a little longer to get over his EX girlfriend.
2007-07-03 14:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by greenrainbows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people show or tell you things about themselves, please take them at their word. This guy is being honest with you. He is not ready to date. You need to respect that and move on. There is no need to wait around for the guy. If it is to be it will be without you trying to manipulate things. Go one with your life and look elsewhere for a date.
2007-07-03 14:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be like real close friends
I mean it really might change in the future
2007-07-03 14:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by cutie_angel_4_minji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep him as a friend, but if someone else ask you out, go for it. if this guy wants to know why your dating, tell him you 2 are just friends.
2007-07-03 14:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live your life...he's not ready for you and might not be for a really long time...it's something he has to deal with on his own...give him his space...if its meant to be it'll happen
2007-07-03 14:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by curious cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋