Family & Relationships - 3 July 2007

My husband and I have both been married previously, we both have children with our ex's, but none together. Does any one find it odd that My husbands ex wife took pictures of my kids (which has nothing to do with her and she lives in another state) off of my 360 blog and put on her myspace page? Why would she possibly want to, and she even put under my son's picture her own childs name???? How should I handle this or should I say anything at all?

2007-07-03 01:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 01:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by tbm5 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-03 01:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was visiting my daughter and my 4 year old grandson. My daughter gave my grandson a snack and I reached over, took it away from him and took a bite out of it. I didn't give it back to him and told my daughter this food is good. My grandson looked like he was ready to cry and my daughter came all unglued. She snatched the food from me and told me do not ever take food from her kid again and she was so angry that there for a minute I thought she was going to hit me. I told her I was just joking around and she told me she's not joking, get the hell out of her house. I left and she won't see or talk to me now. Why must things be like this with her????

2007-07-03 01:29:13 · 22 answers · asked by jim 1 in Family

My mother, my aunt and I were out at dinner on Saturday and they were talking about how they were each one of nine and felt that certain siblings were treated better than the others. For instance my mother and oldest aunt (now deceased) were told that they had to leave school at 15 and go out and get a job to support their two younger brothers who were staying on at school to get an education. They were told that after all they didn't need an education and would be getting married and having children. However the list went on.

Not wanting to rock the boat I kept my mouth shut about the fact that I feel my mother favours my brother (1st born) better than my sister or I. She has helped us all out tremendously and I'm very greatful for her support. But I feel that she is always jumping to his defense and never to mine.

Do any of you feel you weren't treated equally as your siblings.

Or are there any parents who know and can admit, in hindsight, why they treated their kids differently.

2007-07-03 01:16:48 · 19 answers · asked by gill79 4 in Family

I married 7 years ago...and very much in love. Still am. Two years after we married, his mom moved in with us. We had just bought a home and she couldn't pay rent to live on her own. She is 80.. His sister...and mom don't get along. His sister is a control freik, with every family member she has. From her husband down to her sons, to us and her mom...and anyone else she can get her fangs into.
Recently.she has been to our house..cleaned her moms room...complained how dirty it is.. She took our ashtrays and washed them all....and put them away. Said we shouldn't be smoking in the house. Well, we agree and respect mom, so we do not smoke with her in the room. She removed our throw rugs and put them in the basement, so mom don't fall. Hubby wants to tell her to take mom if we're not doing a good enough job. but he promised his dad before he died. My off days she comes and hangs out like she owns this house..Making me feel very unconfortable. Is it me? Am I wrong?

2007-07-03 01:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by Your Asking Me? 4 in Family

2007-07-03 00:49:02 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Weddings

well me and my wife are from very strict families...so she was a virgin til marriage...and i was a virgin till we got married....

and she hasnt a clue...about sex....only beside that its to make babies...

she doesnt know what an orgasm is coz shes never had 1 before...

now coz i cant explain it to her....i just keep trying to give her 1...

but i cant seem to tell if shes had 1 yet...

can someone help me...

im new to this...and i cant seem to tell....

and she doesnt know her self...so how can i tell shes orgasmed...

i want to know when i get her there...and then i want to be able to tell her shes had an orgasm so she knows what it feels like...

shes very shy and i cant talk to her about it and explain it to her.

2007-07-03 00:42:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They appear as a loving couple in public. He act as a caring person, he talks to his clients how great she is. But then she calls me and tells me he's indifferent at home, he can come home late, doesn't explain where he's been, doesn't do stuff around the house except for when company is supposed to be over and she had enough and refuses to be a slave in the house so he can have fun with friends. I have reasons to believe her, because I've known her since hight school. She had a nice career, but when they got marriedand had kids he wanted to become the provider, and she didn't go back to her great job. Now she's also financially dependent. He got credit cards in her name and ran them all up. He went and helped his sister to paint her house (what a nice guy) and then came home and got drunk. He calls her names and hits her so that there are no bruises. She's afraid to call the police because she's afraid to make him mad. Plus she was told that they will take her to shelter and not him

2007-07-03 00:31:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i recently split with her it was last thursday , after 2yrs the first year was extraordinary however this years new years day she hit me ( i am a man involved in domestic violence ) i forgave her but it carried on and eventually our relationship dwindled becoming worse and worse , i ended it and now feel terrible i feel like i havent ended it because i wanted too but because i had to , however i just spoke to her and all these emotions came flloding back like a tsunami , it made me feel wretched what should i do should i talk to her or try and forget everything . all i wish for is to be happy and have some one who wants to be with me and respects me

2007-07-03 00:30:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should a wife feel it is acceptable for her husband to travel for a week to see his children in another state - staying in a "hotel" or with his Ex-wife that is not married, which ever one actually happens. And he wants to do this traveling 1-2 times a year.

2007-07-03 00:28:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

moved last year but now find it too boring, not a car or person goes by, thought I would love it but now realise there is alot to be said for a community.
anyone made the same mistake.

2007-07-03 00:18:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend dumped me after 4 years. Her reasoning was that our relationship wasn't moving forward (she got her masters and had to move away and I was getting my prereq's for a masters programs that I'm still not sure if I want to do), my moods were too volatile and she didn't like living with me. While she was looking for a job and was under lots of stress and I was stressing about having to get all A's in college inorder to get into my desired grad school, we would get into fights, but then we would talk about them and everything would be fine. I think she lost attraction in me when I became depressed after quitting my first real job and then not making the grades needed to get into a grad school. Right now I miss her and I thought it would be a good idea for us to take some time apart, but she wanted to break up. I know that I will be that man she used to love in 6 months, but I don't know if I can handle her dating other guys right now.

2007-07-03 00:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by Jeff 2 in Singles & Dating

I gave all the love i could to her, even in a long distance relationship (not exactly cause is only 2 hours away, and we spoke everyday and meet every weekend). I know she loved me back, she cherished about the relation, but recently she told me she doesnt feel the same, that we have not so many things in common, that she doesnt feel so happy, that she wanted space and so on.

I gave her space, i stoped arguing (we argued because i didnt felt she was focused on me during the last 4 months).

I dont understand this behaviour, but i know that we broke up, and later i got out she came back to her ex, before we broked up.
And i know these words of her telling her girl-friend about her and her ex "we have many things in common, he understands me, i feel myself when im with him" (this girl used to break with him before 2 years because she didnt love him anymore. Is this a rebound relation between them?

What should a man do to understand a woman, cause this question makes me crazy.

2007-07-03 00:16:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well a friend of mine and his brother is about 19....and he met 1 of his fathers friends....and he has a daughter whose 8...

and he said he likes her.....

he said he wants to wait till hes successfull has a good job and lot a money and he says that that al take 9 to 10 yrs and hel be about 30 by time he gets married....

i think thats fine....but the problem is he likes that girl....and his brother is telling me he has a crush on that little girl....and really he wants to wait....till she grows up so that shes about 20...or somet when hes like 30....and then he wants to get friends with her and may be tryn get married....

i dont know what to say.....

do you think a person could like a kid...so much that he wants to wait 10 yrs till this girl is old enough so that he can get friends with her....and may be marry his love....

he doesnt think of her in a sexual way....just coz shes cute....and looks very beautifull....


what do u think is it fine or what....?

2007-07-03 00:12:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships