Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

Im so upset.My husband is so mean.He comes home from work and just screams at me.Says Im a fat lazy bit**,im a slu* and all because we are having a rough time at the moment and havent got alot of money.He makes me cry everyday and he doesnt even care.I feel worthless and Im just the most loving person in the world but all he ever does is just shi* on it!Please help me to understand what I am doing wrong??Thanks so much!

2007-07-05 23:58:32 · 17 answers · asked by Jennifer M 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I read these questions of males and females ( I don't call them men and women) asking other people advice on how to keep a married man or if he will leave his wife? visa versa for the females.

I tell them to go talk to the other spouse, how you would you feel.... if you were the other person?
Tell them they should be ashamed, call them names like floosie, tell them that they are to lazy to get there own mate.
Then I get these feeble excuses of; "well, he approched me first". Well tell him to go to h- e- double hockey sticks. get a clue saing no is just as easy as yes. do you think I am being mean or hard- core in my responces to these people.... because I had some one cheat on me once? what is your opinion of some one who dates a married person be it male or female???

2007-07-05 23:56:17 · 13 answers · asked by BlackWidow 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do women hurt men down there?
A woman in a night club wanted me to buy her a drink, i said no, so she grabbed me by the balls. I didn't know what to do so i bought her a drink. Why did she do that? Why do women do that?

2007-07-05 23:52:56 · 13 answers · asked by Sylar 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fella for 6 months and he is open mided sexually, I was thinking of buying some sex toys, nothing kinky just vibrators and some hand cuffs and things to use on me not him!, do you think he might be put off, do men generally like that kind of thing?

2007-07-05 23:52:08 · 22 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Singles & Dating

This may sound incredibly mean, I don't know. I am asking because I am going crazy with this issue. Basically my boyfriend and I are going through a long distance relationship. 2 weeks prior to him moving, his family dumped off his 12yo brother without asking. They claimed they were going to pick him up in 4 days. Turns out they changed their mind and told my boyfriend "bring him home when you come home next"
So the last 2 weeks before he moved, his brother was there 24/7. My boyfriend has 1 week to be alone in his new apartment. I come for 2 days and return home because his family is dropping off his brother AGAIN. They say it is for 1 week. Now they told him, "You can stay for another week, we'll get you later." My boyfriend and I made plans for my birthday on Friday. His family hates me so there's no talking to them. His brother said he'd stay home if it meant me missing out on birthday plans.I told him ok at first, but now I'm thinking, Should I just tell him .

2007-07-05 23:48:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am at work boored...So i came up with this question since i want to be at home :P

2007-07-05 23:45:35 · 26 answers · asked by !g!z 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He seems to like being with me, but he just has a girlfriend, and I just hate to break couples up.

2007-07-05 23:41:11 · 6 answers · asked by eternalchase 2 in Singles & Dating

im 13 hes 16 only thing he does to me on his own is hug me for like 3 hours he refuses to treat me like a sexual object and gets extremely protective of me if he sees anyone tryen to take advantage of me....now when ever im with him i get very turned on...yesterday...he was sleeping and i jerked him off in his sleep and i feel really bad.......why cant i control my self around my boyfriend please help me control my feelings for him i love him so much and i kno he loves me he doesnt give any other girl the light of day because hes with me help

2007-07-05 23:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by leah d 1 in Singles & Dating

What is up with all these married men? Want to have affairs then fine but stop whining all the time....I hate my life, I hate my wife, nobody appreciates me, bouhouhouhou....why do men stay stuck if they are so miserable? and pls. don't tell me i am deluding myself, that i want him to myself, coz i don't...I just want to know why they can't just seem to enjoy the affair without depressing the hell out of me...

2007-07-05 23:38:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends are all kinda CURVY but im skinny and they make fun of me for it . . . .they say i could fit in a key hole and it might seem stupid but it gets to me. . . .at school when someone makes fun of them calling them fat . .they get med but they take it out on me!! they say well at least i dont look like a toothpick!! and point at me!why do they do this?

2007-07-05 23:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think im falling for this guy...but i dont want to...he is not into me and i dont want him as my guy...i just want to stop having feelings for him...
how will i do that?

2007-07-05 23:34:49 · 6 answers · asked by tiff11 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to talk about having kids with someone when you first meet them...then 2 years later decide you don't want them any more? Does it mean anything, or that we decided we are just too selfish and want our freedom?

2007-07-05 23:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

am in love with some lady,when i aproached her said she had a fiancy.as time went we became friends as in good friends and later told me that she is in love with me too.i tried to forget about her but called me and complained tha what i was doing wasn't good,and since then we call each other every day.what wories me is she complains of her fiancy every and it makes me sad.for i respect her relationship and i don't want to be the reason for there break up.what should ido.please help!

2007-07-05 23:29:17 · 7 answers · asked by fan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 23:23:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

young children could, no, they ARE watching TV at that time! What has the world come to. This should not be allowed. If people want to be pigs and savour in watching porn then they can buy it or watch it online but children should not be exposed to this.

2007-07-05 23:22:29 · 19 answers · asked by Kiyoshisaur 3 in Singles & Dating

Dont be shine....!Mari

2007-07-05 23:20:58 · 4 answers · asked by marilena p 1 in Friends

whenever you think about them it makes you mad. what did they do to make you hate them?

2007-07-05 23:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by Candy Ice 1 in Singles & Dating

Hmmm honestly i have i think twice,, is it wrong to be flattered ? i mean its cool to know that you attract both genders right ? No im not putting down gay ppl,im just saying there is some guys (or gals) like me who dont take it as offending,,,think about it, if they approach you,you can just say no nicely without being an as*h ole being all religious about it rite ? so who thinks this is flattering instead of being something obscene ? Ok im a straight guy and i know deep inside im straight,im just confident enought to know that ppl from the same gender is attracted to me as well,, is this wrong ?

2007-07-05 23:15:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what is wrong with me I miss my BF I send him lots of messages telling him I love him and miss him terribly and cry everyday because he is awaydoing his military service. He doesn't have much time to be with me. He is not in the US service we are in a foreign country and he is a native of that country. Does it sound clingy? How not to be so clingy?

2007-07-05 23:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And I dont want them back. Does this make me a bad parent? To make him stand on his own? My house is not big enough for this. Now he's mad at me. They only have the light bill and rent-needless to say I have several. They dont help with bills or house work.

2007-07-05 23:02:38 · 13 answers · asked by firefly06 3 in Family

Ive been going out with a guy for over a month and we have so much in common besides being physical. I have a feeling he likes me quite alot as he is always interested in what im doing or like. Im curious to know when is it the right time to find out with the guy your seeing if its more than just dating or how do you know its more than just a short term fling?

2007-07-05 22:59:56 · 6 answers · asked by carmen260 1 in Singles & Dating

love this girl so much and she loves me back and we talk on aim and stuff but wen im around her i get really nervous and weve loved eachother fro a while now around 3 months but we havent done anything i havent asked her out i dont hang out woth her or anything but she also doesnt do anything to help that fro example she told me that we should talk more and hang out more at skool but then wen it came to the skool carnival i was trying to but she was just ignoring me becuz her friends where with her even though her friends like me too in a friend way, they even tried to get her to sit next to me but she just hid behind her friends but she says these things but doesnt do anything to help herself its like shes putting it all on me and i dont really know wat to do cuz wen i im around her and talk to her i get nervous but only wen im face to face with her and i dont really know how to get past that. and it might be funny to menchin that im 12 but i still love her no matter wat ppl say.

2007-07-05 22:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 2 years she is the best thing that ever happened to me. My first cousin who I only met like one time used to date her when she was in high school for like 6 months he was 23 but lied about his age. They had sex twice the second time he forced her to have sex. After that he would try to fight her when her saw her and even threatned her at gunpoint not to leave him. We are both saved and I couldn't ask for a better wife. Sometimes it bothers me that he had sex with my wife should it? Please only sincere answers!

2007-07-05 22:41:40 · 24 answers · asked by meke 79 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 22:38:23 · 11 answers · asked by garik 5 in Singles & Dating

My children, "Mary" 11 and "Joe" 14 have 2 months visitation across the country with their Dad & Step Mom. I just received this email after 2 1/2 weeks. What would you do?

The girls and I just spent all morning cleaning their room and trying to organize all of their stuff today. "Mary" brought a lot of unnecessary things with her that are cluttering up their room and our home. For example, her own first aid kit, feminine pads, envelopes, stamps, toothpaste and such. All of these things we already have here in our home and there was no need for her to bring these things with her.
To further complicate the clutter problem you keep mailing the kids packages. "Mary" just received a large package from you today in the mail full of stuff to make stuffed animals with. First of all, we already have an entire room of our home full of art, craft and school supplies, second of all the last thing "Mary" needs is another stuffed animal. We have 7 children here, 9 people in our home.

2007-07-05 22:12:22 · 26 answers · asked by me_just_me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this guy alot. But he has cheated on me before. & he cheated on his current girlfriend (who is also my best friend) last nite. The problem is.. I cant get over him.. Even though he did cheat on me..i still like him soo much. & he is one of my best friends, i think the reason i do like him so much, is becouse he always sticks up for me. is he even worth it? i have a picture of him on my myspace profile.. (my profile is private.. but if u click on my picture.. it will bring up my picture files) http://www.myspace.com/racer_gurl_for_life thank you.

2007-07-05 22:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 21:51:24 · 25 answers · asked by P K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm happily married but it all went so quickly the day we got married, we want to do it again - just privately for us, maybe abroad as we didn't have a honeymoon. Is it legal to do it twice?

2007-07-05 20:46:39 · 28 answers · asked by JULIA C 1 in Weddings

how do you think he/she will look like? and do you think you will still like how he/she looks when that time comes?

2007-07-05 20:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by The Asker 4 in Singles & Dating

is that a hint to get a bigger bed? just wondering.

2007-07-05 20:42:40 · 16 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce