Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

i have always prefered latina women because of their all-around beauty, but have never dated one. if it is true about what i hear about being in bed, it's a big bonus. latinas esta mucho bonitas =D

2007-07-05 18:22:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband signed 2 years contract to work in China, he came home to visit in June and I went with him to China. On the second day I find out he has a young girl pictures in his lab top and cell phone, I keep asking who is that girl but he said she just a friend and a co-worker, I know there is something wrong but I could not do anythings. After he went to works I found there was a box of condom which has 10 piece , which only three left. I have 2 childrens and I live in 4000 square feet house with my mom and my dad. My husband support the family

2007-07-05 18:13:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 and im in the middle of jobs, my girlfriend pays for almost everything but i hate being a "free loader". im looking for a job and its only been a 2 weeks. she loves spending the money on us but i hate it id rather her save it for her car. how do i tell her to stop spending her money on us with out sounding like im trying to say tht i should tell her how to spend her money, shes very touchy about this stuff and i dont know wht to do. help?

2007-07-05 18:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by kelly D 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Recently, a good friend of mine has become engaged. I’m happy for her, but really jealous. She has what I want. She’s getting married and starting her life w/ the one she loves.

My boyfriend and I have talked about getting married, but right now it’s not in the cards. Last year, he lost his job and could not find another for almost 6 months. He blew through much of his savings just to get by and used credit cards to buy simple things like groceries and such. He’s found another job and has been working since January. But, money is tight.

I’m still in school and working. I’m also in a financial bind. My father had cancer a few months back. He’s recovered, but it took a huge toll on myself and my family. I also have incurred debt b/c of it. I was helping to pay for items on credit cards and such, on my families behalf. Mainly food, medicine, stuff like that .

2007-07-05 18:06:53 · 15 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating this guy that i'm really not attraced to as far as physical attraction, but I really do like him alot. My problem is I can't stay in the mood. The only time I feel all hot and ready is when I know he is about to perform oral sex, after that I'm not turn on any more. What can I do to sray in the mood?

2007-07-05 18:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by juicyjuice 2 in Singles & Dating

well one night i slepy downstairs because i was watching a movie...and then i woke up in the morning and upstairs i could here my parents bed sqeaking....it just made me mad that they would actually have sex when i'm in the house...and it made me feel uncomfortable to be around them afterwards
and this has happend a couple times before too
and my room is like rihgt next to theres so it's even worse there
and one time i almost walked in on htem doing it
i really want to tell them that it's bothering that they do it when i'm home

i'm 14 so...it just makes me feel weird
if i was older i prolly wouldn't minde much but yea
i need advice

2007-07-05 18:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by chipperdin_89 1 in Family

2007-07-05 18:01:45 · 20 answers · asked by KING 6 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy..he`s courting me now for 3 months already and i think im falling for him too..but the main problem is he`s only 17 and im 22...5 years gap!!! do you think it will work?

2007-07-05 17:59:22 · 8 answers · asked by kagome in blue 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i pronounce my words corectly?

2007-07-05 17:58:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-05 17:55:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Alright, for the past 4 times that I've asked girls out, they weren't interested, we decided to stay friends, and it either worked or it didn't (because there was a one sided attraction and I had to cut off the friendship, even though it was very good it just didn't work)

I'm 19, male. I'm sick of this nonsense. I'm never going to agree to be "friends" with a girl who rejects going out and that's the lesson I had to learn the hard way.

I'm simply going to stop caring about rejections and move on. Instead of working on girls, I'm just going to focus on myself - working out, education (full time univ student), etc... that's it. If there's one person I truly love (besides my family) right now it's just myself. I'm sick and tired of trying to get into a relationship.

Am I doing the right thing?

2007-07-05 17:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 25 year old woman, soon to be 26. I graduated college about 3 years ago, and am currently working in my almost 3 year job. The pay isn't too good, but since I still live with my parents that hasn't really been a big issue. I don't know if I should try to get a better job, cause I'm comfortable where I am, but am concerned with the little money I'm getting there. I am totally afraid of change, and don't know how to deal with the job hunting while i got one. When does one go to interviews?

My other issue is with my bf of 4.5 years. He has said he doesn't want to be tied down with me, that he still has so much to do with his life. He doesn't work yet, and he got into a big fight with his family. So now he has the urge to work and leave. So his 'so much to do' has been cut down to 'get a job and get out', so now he tells me we should rent together, since my parents will probably want me out soon too . He doesn't 'love' me, but says he cares. Do people get together for love anymore?

2007-07-05 17:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by jade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-05 17:50:31 · 11 answers · asked by j-lyn 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a man on a date the same day i meant him,I meant him early in the day round 1pm went out with him round 7pm so while we were out he mentiond he needed a leg rub I said I dont think so he said there was no motive ("SEX")he was injured during his ballgame.Okay now we are up on our 4TH day of knowing each other & he wanted to go out & he asks can he leave for work from my house cuzz he has to work @6am. I said why the hell dont you first let me get to know you& then let ME invite you. He said no motive there either. I said I have known u 4 days dont impose like that!!! He claims it is the same as if me & agf go out & she brings a gf and for some reason she may need 2 stay i wouldnt tell her no. I asked him what is it with you tryin 2 get in my house & leg rubs & all. He says he isnt trin 2 get anywhere they were just questions & you dont know unless u ask. what do you think of the whole thing????

2007-07-05 17:50:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy is very obsessive, possessive and supposedly in love with me. I have been ignoring him for a week and he won't stop. My mom advised me to ignore him because he would eventually stop but he hasn't. She also said that if broke things off to him verbally that his actions may be extreme.

Any thoughts?

PLEASE!

2007-07-05 17:47:36 · 11 answers · asked by juicybluesky 2 in Singles & Dating

Im pregnancnt right now and before my ex boyfriend left outside the country we were happy. When he was away he told me that he did not treat me as girlfriend. It hurts when he said that because i accepted him in my house and treated him right and loved him a lot because he'salso the dad of my baby. He just told me that he will just support and send money but until now he did not send and not yet paying his debt to me on which I have no money to pay for the credit card as he used my bro's credit card. I do not know if I will still purue the communication. Some said no because he's nothing but my bro said yes just for the baby. But whenever I ttalk with him it hurts a lot. I only remember the pains he caused me. PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-07-05 17:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a beautiful girl when it comes to looks, but I have very erratic behavior and I am too needy, Emotionally, I am like a 3 year old. Will any guys want to be in a relationship with me?

2007-07-05 17:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that i cheated on her numerous times with multiple partners. i mean she is great and all. she cooks and cleans and a big heart. i don't want to stomp on it. i think it's best to keep my mouth shut. you know the saying, "what she doesn't know, won't hurt her." what do you guys think?

2007-07-05 17:36:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like either a girl falling for her bff's ex boy
or a boy falling for his bff's ex girl.

two of my ex's bffs are all like interested in me since i broke up with his friend..and soometimes im afraid of telling my bffs what a great guy my ex was lol..cuz i heard many cases of this happening..i decide to not go out with any of his friends cuz i do still love him..but my question is why this happens??

2007-07-05 17:31:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friends have told me I'm pretty, but they could just be saying this right? I have had some women say to my friends that they think I'm pretty. So they're not telling me to my face. I've had guy friends tell me I'm pretty or have a pretty smile. Like one guy friend said to me one day that I was looking good. But there again he's a friend. People know I'm self conscious. Some people I know at work when they talk to me they won't look at me for very long. What does this mean, and then a couple girls I don't know very well one very pretty and the other ok. But can tell she thinks she's hot. When talking to them in the bathroom they stare at my face funny and quickly move on. But one of them did compliment my outfit one time. a couple of guys I've seen in the hall at work especially this one guy at first was decent said hello in the hall. But not when he sees me he either looks down straight ahead or turns the other way to avoid me and he's very good looking. Am I ugly what d

2007-07-05 17:28:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 17:20:08 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

'I'm ashamed of my self I'm really ashamed!! Even though when we were young he is always glad at me, even though we fight together like a violent fight to each other, he forgives me really quick. Personally some times when we have an argument I really hated him, but no matter what happens it's like he still have a bright side for me. Right now I don't know who I am really, I am the person who has no heart, and no feelings, I've only noticed my self for those people who says that I am this kind of person who has no heart and full of hatred, though I didn't intend to be like this..."

2007-07-05 17:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by Angelo D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Best friend and I both started liking the same guy earlier this year. I let her go after him because I was liking one of his friends at the time and it just seemed right. He started doing stuff with our group of friends and like it or not we always had this chemistry that never went away. This was all good until Him and my friend started dating.

They don't really act like they are dating at all which makes it awkward for me. She'll invite me to the mall and it will be just the three of us or we'll go to the movies like that. They never do anything together and he keeps flirting with me. I swear he talks to me more than he does her, which makes me feel guilty cuz I feel like I'm doing something wrong even though our conversations are completely random. Don't get me wrong I would never do anything to hurt her, but its really bothering me and even some of our other friends have started noticing how he acts w/me. Please give me some imput.

2007-07-05 17:15:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here are the details in sections. There wouldn't be enough space on here for me to write it in the form of a story.
1. My boyfriend comes after 4-5 minutes during oral and vaginal sex.
2. My boyfriend hasn't had sex in about 5 months.
3. My boyfriend doesn't masterbate because he says it's boring and that that is what a girl is for.
4. We have only been sexually active for 2 weeks now.
5. He's 29 years old so he has experience sexually
6. He is barely average probably 4 1/2 inches, and not very thick either.
7. I tried giving him a slow hand job and he ended up coming after 5 minutes too.
8. He said last night, "It usually doesn't take much the first time."
9. This morning at work he sends me a text," I must have worn u out last night." As I read that I started thinking about his"problem" and now it really bothers me.

Is this going to continue like this? Should I tell him to start masterbating so he takes longer to come? I'll go crazy if he keeps this up?! Any advise?

2007-07-05 17:15:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all,

I have been Married for seven years, with two lovely children. I have been working with this company for quite sometime and unfortunately was forced into bankruptcy. I lost my job, the Car the house and everything. We were forced to relocate to a different state and live with my in-laws till we get back on our feet. Lately my wife have been bombarding me with verbal insults that "IT WAS ALL MY FAULT." And to add insult to injury threatened me that "she is going to find a man that will financially support her" and "why don't you go back to your mother." I am contemplating on leaving her. My question is I love my two children, and I don't want them to go thru what a Divorce or separation anxiety. Am I being stubborn for loving my kids more than putting up with my wife verbal insults? I know each day is getting worse and getting ugly, but it's getting to the point of breaking me. I need serious help!

2007-07-05 17:14:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this realy cute boy accros the street and i realy like him but i didnt know if he likes me he hanges out with me and i feel theres a conection im scarred to ask him out becase he might say no so what should i do?

2007-07-05 17:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 17:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my sister and her husband just split up about a month ago and she moved back here to Tx. from La. Heres the Q. My nephew (her son) who is 31/2 started pooping in his pants and now he wont eat. If he eats its not much at all. today is his brothers b-day and he didnt even eat the cupcake! now, for the last couple of days he's been throwing up in his bed or anywhere. and last night he made himself throw up. I think its some kind of emotional stress going on, do you? I would really like to know from people who have been through a divorce or something like this. If it keeps getting worse, then were going to take him to the doctor! please help!

2007-07-05 17:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a 17yr old girl and i prostituted last nite... i was so nervous but i made good money from it.. my homeboy wants to split the money with me. im really carefull and always make guys use condoms...i was thinkin should i keep doing this???

2007-07-05 17:06:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm going out for coffee in the morning with this guy that I text alot but we don't really actually talk on the phone alot, and I have never hung out with him alone before. He tried for dinner and then lunch, but I was nervous and afraid things would get awquard, so I agreed to coffee instead, but I am still nervous. What in the hell will we talk about? I am takeing my own car and meeting him there. If I get there first should I go ahead and order my own stuff. I don't want him to have to pay for my stuff. I like to be independent. What are some good topics to talk about. What is a good way to split fast if things start to get awquard. PLEASE HELP ME!!! I NEED ADVICE!!!

2007-07-05 17:05:56 · 6 answers · asked by princess 3 in Singles & Dating