I am a beautiful girl when it comes to looks, but I have very erratic behavior and I am too needy, Emotionally, I am like a 3 year old. Will any guys want to be in a relationship with me?
2007-07-05 17:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are only two types of guys who will be interested:
1) Guys who are looking for nothing other than a "blonde airhead type" that they will only use for their sexual pleasure...
2) Guys who feel a strong "Father-like" bond to you. I don't mean to make it sound creepy - I'm talking about someone who WANTS to be able to "take care" of someone. In essense - someone he can have a lot of control over...
I don't necessarily mean in a bad way - but a LOT of these "types" take it to that level...
However - both of these are JUST stereotypes. I'm sure there is someone out there made EXACTLY for you - you just have to keep looking for them :):):)
2007-07-05 17:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you try to chill out on being so emotional for a while? Guys won't put up with it unless they love you. I'm not trying to be harsh here because I'm the same way, I need a TON of attention. You just gotta be carefree in the first few months of the relationship and give time for you guys to warm up to each other. Once you begin to trust each other it won't be as big of a deal if some of your moodiness comes out every now and then. But guys don't like to put up with it, and it's rare to find one who will on a regular basis. My boyfriend is a gem and I'm so lucky to have him, but I know how emotional I am stresses him out. I know I have to change for him. So if you meet a guy you really fall for, be ready to change your ways for him because no one should have to put up with so much stress every day, including yourself. Good luck.
2007-07-06 00:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by rainbowqtbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? I love these kinds of girls(but skip on the needy part, LOL). I feel that they are the right type for me. Well, I actually like two types of girls: one is they are shy and quiet and the other is they are a little bit wacky. I like a challenge sometimes, just as long as she is not too crazy and by that I mean mentally insane, LOL... I feel that I can handle her like a piece of cake, LOL. I have my ways to deal with weird and wacky girls like you.
2007-07-06 00:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Version_Best 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys tend to be afraid of girls that are too needy. You sound like the type of girl the have a one night stand with and then are sorry they did because you won't leave them alone
2007-07-06 00:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not mature enough to be in a relationship yet. I too am immature and have realized this and have pinpointed this as the reason I am not in any relationships (i am 18).
GROW UP!
2007-07-06 00:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be more approachable and you won't be asking yourself why is no one asking me out?
Guys could be shy around you and be afraid to be rejected. Make more conversations with guys and maybe they will be near you more since they have lost that shyness around you.
2007-07-06 00:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by D-Unit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ofcourse if that guy loved you as you are whatever you look or what is your characteristics.
2007-07-06 00:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by YANYAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your future is doomed. men will prey upon you. join the convent IMO.
2007-07-06 00:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by G Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheese makes me farty.
2007-07-06 00:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they really love you. my bf, for example, still loves me if I'm like "I want that! I want it.....!"
2007-07-06 00:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by SiMpLy.HaPpiE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋