Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

I am from a mixed marriage (my mom was black and my dad was white) but I can't stand seeing a white woman with a black man. I know the reason for this is because I am jealous of the guy (I am not ugly and do have a good personlity and do prefer white woman) but does this make me prejudice? I do not have a problem with me seeing a white guy with a black woman but it really ticks me off when its the other way around.

2007-07-05 01:21:03 · 21 answers · asked by Mouser33 1 in Singles & Dating

My inlaws are just imposible. My sister inlaw fight with me for no reasons. She is a mature lady of 40 years and also a pricipal in a school, but really dont know how to manage at home. My mother in law always defend her saying that she is unmarried and always been treated as a small child. She always suggest me to keep calm and ignore what ever she is doing.My SIL doesn't help in house hold at all. I'm marries for bout 10 years now and never got a chance to see or understand my inlaws in these years. it was only after my child birth we moved into my inlaws house. My father inlaw always boast about his property and whenever there is any tension in house he just talk about his will. He says he will give 1/3rd property to my child only if she decides to keep no relation with me. Me and my husband told him 100 times that we dont need your property but try to maintain peace in the house. As far as my SIL is concerned she behaves like an animal sometimes,

2007-07-05 01:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"Not having anyone in your life or in your heart at the moment...but waiting desperately for it to happen"
Mosf of my girlfriends who are single are in that position but single men that i know of are not really so...Is love a test of patience for women and not for men?

2007-07-05 01:18:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

than the other as far as keeping friends met while as a couple

2007-07-05 01:08:23 · 4 answers · asked by Rastaquouère 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 01:04:12 · 19 answers · asked by Carol F 1 in Weddings

2007-07-05 01:03:59 · 17 answers · asked by abbs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess you can call her my signifigant other but we aren't a couple. We have told each other we love each other but we aren't together. Is it wrong that I shared my first kiss with a girl that isn't my "girlfriend"?

2007-07-05 01:00:02 · 13 answers · asked by Zach 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 00:58:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been working in UK for past 10 yrs which is a free society. I have been masturbating since school days. I don't know how I got into this bad habit. But I cann't leave it now. If I ignore it, I get nasty dreams & nightfalls which is quite embarrsing. Otherwise I get turned on quite frequently and mind keeps revolving around the same. I am getting married to a traditional girl and I don't know what will be her reaction if she discovers me doing that. I am sure it'll not be possible to hide things when you are so close & may be I'll not be able to get over this after marriage also. I want to understand if it is comman practise amongst all girls irrespective of society or if girls are ok with boys doing it. I think it'll be easy for me to handle my 'would be' wife if I know this. Pls let me know if you come from society which is free in nature or from a conservative society. This can help me understand the way different types girls look at this issue.

2007-07-05 00:58:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When you're late 40s the name 'boyfriend' sounds silly. He's not my 'partner' as we dont live together. His is my 'lover' but that's too much information! He is my 'friend' but thats not enough. Any ideas??

2007-07-05 00:57:11 · 30 answers · asked by Jude 2 in Singles & Dating

for my bf's birthday I got him perfume and after shave.. now it's our anniversary.. is it okay to get him perfume? again?! his birthday was in march.. I think it was the last real gift I got him..

2007-07-05 00:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The last time i bumped into my ex after i spoke to him he saw me having a ball with my friends and he knew i looked happy and he couldn't stop staring at me, he must have been burning, that was a while ago now, do you think he was jealous enough to never speak to me again to ask for me back (not that i would ever take him back though).

2007-07-05 00:34:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next year and my maid of honour has decided to bring all her people to my wedding, bearing in mind I have to pay for food and the rental of the room.

Basically, she is bringing people who I do not know and they are some black artists who will preform some bashment music.. I dont want it kicking off at my wedding

I personally think she is using my day to promote her group.

What do you think of this?

2007-07-05 00:27:29 · 35 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

Hey I am 14 and a year ago my mom found out my step-dad was cheating on her. I mean he had an another whole relationship. He bought the lady a ring and everything. Now like a week ago she found out he was cheating on her with another woman. And I hate how he still massages her and touches her like that. And him and I get into fights and I start to become disrespectful to him. And my mom gets mad when I do get disrespectful. So my questions are. Should I have to be respectful to him? And do I deserve to be mad at him??

2007-07-05 00:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by Zach 2 in Family

I see this man on the train every morning, he is no less then any super model out there. The man attracts more attention than anyone I have ever seen.

I have been seeing him for the last six months and he is always sleeping. He looks so like a child when he is sleeping. I have decided to give him a wake up call.

Tomorrow I will get a nice coffee made from Costa and wake him up saying “have a good rest; drink this it will keep you awake”

I don’t care what he says, maybe he has action all night to which he has to catch up on sleep at random hours. I am going to offer him a nice meal and tuck him in bed early. I can not bear the pain of seeing him so tired, it kills me inside because I love him so much & I am going to tell him to stop wearing suits because he looks too good, I don’t want anyone looking at my future man LOL

People any more advice you would like to give me?

2007-07-05 00:14:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with my girly last night and i was being constantly looked at by the ladies (and they were pretty fine too). Now, i dont mind if girls like to ogle me, you know i might even consider to whip my thing out for them for them to admire in all its heavenly glory...so what makes a guy so appealing?

I would consider myself to be:
1 nice
2 a good person
3 a respectable person who respects girls/ women
4 a guy who likes to listen to people's worldly problems (esp considering i have ADD - does that make me extra special?)
5 a sexy looking guy
6 i aint exactly dumb neither i did go to university
7 and my girl constantly has insecurities that some girl will sweep me away by being nice and caring.
8 i aint got no marital commitments i consider myself to be a bachelor (after all i did do a bacherlor's degree!)

this sounds too much like an advertisement, i dont think my girly will like that, you know what let me in fact ask her.

2007-07-05 00:13:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do I do ?

2007-07-05 00:08:05 · 19 answers · asked by ivorhard_on 1 in Marriage & Divorce