Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

my girlfriend and her father dont get along at all. the other day he threatened to hit her, so my girl, her mom, and her sisters moved out. this morning, her dad called her mom and was threatening to kill my girlfriend!!! his own daughter!!! how should i handle the situation? i htought about going to his house and beating the crap outta the guy, but that would start even more drama, so should i call the cops or somethin? -thanks : )

2007-07-05 05:13:32 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

The most important thing is to choose a women who does this the least, but I give advice to guys who have decided to stay with women who pull this crap a lot.
Some of the ideas that haven't worked very well are:
-Doing the same thing to the woman, and when she points it out, point out that she does the same thing...."Pretty annoying isn't it?"
-Man: "I know some thing's wrong, so we'll talk again when you're ready to tell me what that thing is. See you in a few days."
-Smiling (or laughing), and changing the subject to something light and unrelated.
What are some better ways to manage this tendency of most women?

2007-07-05 05:11:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this guy i really like said he would go out wit me if we did these 2 things #1 head and#2 finger what the hell isthat??
plz answer seiourly

2007-07-05 05:10:54 · 5 answers · asked by girly_girlhh 4 in Singles & Dating

We were married in 1988 and I found out that his former wife got the divorce in 1996. Do I have to go through a divorce or can I have the marraige annulled

2007-07-05 05:10:19 · 25 answers · asked by K J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just recently found out my boyfriend of 8 yrs was talking with another girl whom he says he met on myspace they had been texting and calling each other. He sent her a text message saying "I am done with this friendship" in front of me and says he's done with her. I wanna believe him but I am so paranoid anytime he is out of my sight I fear he may call or text her again. What do I do I am not sleeping/eating and I am stressing.

2007-07-05 05:09:16 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well at least thats what I assume. We've had sex and he kisses me on the cheek and neck and we even have oral, etc but he has never kissed me on the lips. (I don't have bad breath lol and neither does he) Should I just ask him about it or should I just assume he has a girlfriend on the side or something.

2007-07-05 05:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am about to be a senior in highschool. My boyfriend whom I have known since Freshman year are planning on going to the same college and getting serious in our relationship, very serious. He is planning on proposing to me after graduation before we go to college. Is being engaged at eighteen too young? I personally like the idea. It is better than just shacking up and having babies. He want's to marry me. What do you think?

2007-07-05 05:06:59 · 17 answers · asked by Shawn H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a one year old together.

2007-07-05 05:06:36 · 24 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, I tried to ask this earlier and everyone seemed to think I was on welfare or something. I am not trying to save money by economizing I just want tips on how to be a middle class stay at home mom. We make 35 percent more than the average income for our town. I was poor growing up and do not know how to balance my time well so I have free time seems like I am always doing something and I would like more family time. my husband goes to work at 5:30 am gets home at 4 pm, kids are in bed by 7:30 to 8. I am a morning person which does help, I have a 2 year old, a 6 mo old pregnant again(I was on b/c with all 3 kids depo with the 2 year old, and pills for the other 2 as I breast feed so i am not ignorant just fertile) and took parenting classes at 3 different places for 2 years and also a cooking class. they told me how to parent but not how to be the spouse at home. I need menu ideas which taste good and dont cost 50 to make or anything, when should I do things?

2007-07-05 05:05:39 · 6 answers · asked by mommy to be of 3 3 in Family

2007-07-05 05:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earlier this month, we went on vacation. During the vacation though, my dad came up to me and said, "Son, do you hate me?" I said, "No, of course not." Is their any way I can fix this problem, any suggestions. I don't like to talk to him though cause whenever I do, it just seems that he is not listening, so anything I could do besides talk to him, like action wise and what not? Please help me!

2007-07-05 05:04:03 · 11 answers · asked by kingpin202 2 in Family

I was cheated on by my first serious boyfriend back in high school and I have not been able to let go of that even though it was almost 7 years ago. Now, I find that I am always wondering if my husband has cheated on me. How do I get rid of this feeling and how do I get to the bottom of it and find out if he really did?

2007-07-05 05:01:16 · 30 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A MOMMY 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I divorced my ex husband in 2002, I have four kids with him. He has never paid child support even though he was court ordered to do so. He doesn't carry medicial like he is suppose to and the last time that he saw them was in 2003. He was very abusive to both me and my kids and I have all of my kids in therapy because of the abuse that they had to go through. I am now remarried and my husband is wanting to adopt the kids, he does everything for them that a dad does. We are afraid that if we start the adoption the sperm donor is going to find out and come back and try to get visitation rights or worse custody of them? Not because he wants them but because he knows that would get to me. What rights does he have to my children??? Also I recently found out that he has 4 other children, who he does not support and denies that he is the father of...he is a deadbeat

2007-07-05 04:58:55 · 20 answers · asked by Angela F 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my father is probably expecting to give me away although we haven't discussed it. I'm not very close to him and we have sure had our differences in the past few years. Not to mention I am almost 25 and have lived out from under his roof since I turned 18. My son is 2 1/2 and I just think it would be adorable to have him walk me down the aisle. He has really been the only man in my life up until now. I am just looking for opinions because I really don't want to upset my dad or him to be hurt if I choose to have my son walk me down and "give me away".

2007-07-05 04:57:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It's been almost 5yrs since they met. My god-daughter (their daughter) is 3yrs old now. We'll call them *King* and *Queen*. King has 2 jobs, 1 day job and 1 night job. No-one, not even Queen, has any idea what the night job is. Every other night (AND EVERY other SATURDAY), King has to "work" at his night job. He carries a bookbag with lotion, cologne, deodorant and BABY OIL!!! He receives a lot of text messages and calls from men and they always communicate in Spanish (maybe so that Queen won't understand what they're talking about!). She has a lot of hints/ clues that he's cheating but she refuses to confront him and just says she's leaving him as soon as she saves enough $. I feel she's in MAJOR DENIAL! When they 1st met she found a *ildo in his bedroom before they moved in together. If THAT didn't make her move on then, I highly doubt she'll move on now.
I want her to be happy! But she's whining me to death! How much more can I help? I'm hurting for my goddaughter and my bff too.

2007-07-05 04:56:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay....here's what I have:

Invitation
RSVP card
RSVP return envelope
directions card
information card (informing its an outdoor event regarding attire for comfort...)

I printed these myself using a store bought kit, it did not come w/inner envelopes or liners...so I'm not using those.
Do I place the rsvp card into its return envelope?
Does all the 'extras' get placed under the invite?
And when placing ALL into the outter mailing envelope, does it face the 'address' side or the 'seal' side?

Why does this have to be SOOOOO "EXACT"? It's all very annoying! LOL!
THANKS!

2007-07-05 04:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by secret_oktober_girl 5 in Weddings

I had this dream last night where my brother suddenly died. I fight with him a lot but I love him a lot. I woke up very sick of saddness! How do I get this horrible feeling out of my head? It is really bothering and annoying me.

2007-07-05 04:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by Elaine R 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a middle aged person with a good looking wife and 2 beautiful kids. Since our 2nd kid was born, I have lost interest in sex with my wife. Our married life is still the same charming. I love my family a lot. Since last 1 year, to satisfy myself, I have started masturbating heavily and my interest in videos and other means has started growing. Even though I have not taken any steps towards getting intimate with any woman & no intention also but I am really afraid if this continues... I tried analysing the cause of this behaviour but somehow not able to build up sexual attraction towards my wife. I proposed my wife to try different ways just to bring that charm back. But she just wants go by the same traditional way and not very flexible. If I try convincing her, she becomes offensive and stops everything. Please help me. Need your sincere opinion. I want to be a good committed husband in all respect. Do you think I should be happy with masturbation or look for other women?

2007-07-05 04:53:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's husband and I had a heated discussion, in which he said some terrible nasties. (I did not raise my voice at all, or even say anything I would regret later)

They were things a person would not ever say to someone they considered a friend (which we were up to this point). He has not apologized (and does not plan to do so), which to me, says he meant every word.

My sister says to "let it go" and forget about it, but I refuse to pretend like it didn't happen. He is normally a difficult person, but we have always "put up" with him before.

I am upset with him for saying the nasty things he said, but am expected to forgive him and just act like normal. I refuse. I know I am being stubborn, but am I wrong to be holding a grudge for this?

2007-07-05 04:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by who are you? 2 in Family

Okay me and my husband have been seperated for a couple of months and we are finally working thru our problems. At my job i was finally given a weekend off so i made plans to go see him plus my daughter has been asking to see daddy. I went into work and another manger from another store changed the schedule and has me working this weeked. ( for the 4 months i have been working there i have never had a weekend off). when i told her that i made plans and they were hard to break she pretty much told me tough and that i had to work. I have another job and work at this one part time that was another reason she didnt give me the days off. she also told me i was part time and the least i could do was work a full day on the weekend.

So my question is should i still go like planned and promised or stay?

2007-07-05 04:51:06 · 13 answers · asked by Becky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep having dreams that my husband is cheating on me with someone at work. I will admit that I am the jealous type and it does run through my head sometimes, but those are childhood issues that i take out on my husband. Otherwise, he doesnt show any telltale signs of cheating. Some people tell me that I dream this b/c that is on my mind and others tell me that its a sign. What do you think?

2007-07-05 04:50:55 · 20 answers · asked by Blue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 04:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by Your little helper 4 in Friends

....when not only does ur boss come on to u but his son as well?

2007-07-05 04:49:22 · 20 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

Seriously. Most women vlaim they want a man who treats them right. but they settle for someone who treats them like garage. Why is that.? Perhaps they have a problem deciding between lust and love. I think they lust more than love, perhaps is a convenience, but put lust over top love. If not, then explain the difference with no lies or B.S. After all twomen are just as materialistic as men as much as they want to deny it.

2007-07-05 04:46:12 · 18 answers · asked by Super Star 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I once saw a post on here in which a girl said that her best friend told her that the reason why she didn't have a boyfriend was because she normally went for the gorgeous, popular types. Perhaps her friend meant well, but it seems to me that her friend was sort of insulting her by implying that she was somehow unattractive.

2007-07-05 04:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Friends

Is there any change in child support if the father has a child my another mother other that the one seeking support?

2007-07-05 04:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by heather o 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I'm seeing, I would say we're more than friends with benefits cuz when I go down to see him, we act like a couple and do stuff together. However, he told me he wanted to be friends cuz I nag too much, I accepted it cuz we live 200 miles away from each other. Anywayz, when we were on msn messenger one night, I said "so you been getting booty lately?" and he replied wit "I won't lie and tell you I didn't have sex, but it was nothing serious, what bout you"?. He's a very honest person, with no tact, but I can't help but think that that is too honest. And if he really liked me, then he would tell me he's being faithful....even if he was faithful, it would be hard to believe anyway, cuz we hardly see each other, why would he want to see me, when he's got other women?!! he paid for my ticket over £100 when I went to see him a month ago?!

2007-07-05 04:43:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the hypothetical:

You are in a club in Vegas. It is a great night; you and your significant other (or spouse) have both been drinking, dancing and having a great time.

You have met some people at the club, strangers, but lots of fun. One of the women in that group is really pretty and a lot fo fun and has been talking with both of you most of the night.

The woman from the group says to your significant other (or spouse) that she would like to go back to your hotel room with both of you and have a threesome.

Does your significant other (or spouse):

A. Say HELL NO

B. Say HELL YES

C. Say IT'S VEGAS, LET'S GO FOR IT

D. Say NO, but later regret it

PLEASE -- put your age, gender and marital status in your answer. AND PLEASE explain your answer.

2007-07-05 04:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Raster T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are having to postpone our wedding due to a death in the family. Our wedding invitations are made, but have not been sent out yet. I am wondering if I need to get new ones made with the new wedding date, or can we just 'white out' the ONE line that reads the new date??

I am going to try it on one-- the background on the invitation is white so it shoudn't be off too badly by using 'white out' pen strips- or is that being too desperate and cheap??

2007-07-05 04:39:18 · 27 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Weddings

I don't live with my boyfriend, but I do visit his house often. The first time I went over there, I was shocked at how much stuff is piled up everywhere and how he never cleans. He blamed the mess on his roommates, but since then I've realized that he is the one making the mess. The bathroom is starting to grow black fuzz and the floors are coming alive. I was hoping he would clean it up a bit, but nope. It just keeps getting worse. I don't know how to tell him I'm disgusted. I don't want to go there anymore! Help!

2007-07-05 04:38:20 · 15 answers · asked by Dasher 2 in Singles & Dating