Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

why is it that 2 people can go 5 years in to a relationship get married and then seperate for divorce 6 months later and actually divorce 6 months after that??? so they were married 1 year legally. How does that work that 2 people can make a relationship work but when it comes to marriage its just thrown out the window as if vows werent anything

2007-07-05 05:50:06 · 16 answers · asked by evie1718 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been engaged since February 23. In March, we went to a wedding chapel to have our wedding priced. It ended up being almost $2800. A lot of that stuff could be taken off cause I don't have to have it. Since at the time I thought my parents were going to pay (it is tradition afterall), we discussed it with them. My mother said it was too much money to spend and tried talking us into having it at a church they had only been going to for a month or two. She said they would pay for the catering if we did it that way (their way).

My fiance knew I didn't want it that way. He also was all for doing the chapel thing since all the planning was taken care of. I didn't want to have it at their church. I'd never even been there. He started working more hours to help pay for it. Then my mom said to tell him not to, that it was their place.

Since then, every idea we've come up with has been shot down for whatever reason. My mom is aggrivated that we keep changing it.

2007-07-05 05:49:34 · 24 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Weddings

i have a gf on the web idk why but i can't get 1 in the real world...

2007-07-05 05:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why would a women at 28 years old get married to abandone a marriage and a child in 7 months and hang around till i kicked her out?

2007-07-05 05:46:25 · 23 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 05:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Last week my husband was talking to his g-pa on the phone and I heard him say "SURE! Grandpa, stay as long as you like!" He hangs up the phone and I just stare at him and am like "What was that all about?" He says "Oh, grandpa is staying with us 3 days a week for the next few weeks, he got a part time job in this area and lives about 3 hrs away with my mom so we agreed it'd be easiest to have him stay with us, honey" I just tell him that he could have asked me first, to see if it was ok since we are having severe marriage problems as it is and need to work them out by ourselves. We've been married only a year and a half, 22/23 yrs old. ANYWAY....so he says he is sorry and tells me that he will call g-pa and tell him that I said no..I tell him not to be retarded, that it will make me look bad if he did. He freaks out and says he doesn't understand why I am being so mean,and that it is not a big deal, that he will just ask me first next time. I can't stand this g-pa either. I am so mad..

2007-07-05 05:41:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 05:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you guys think about cousin relationships? My sister says she even wants to marry him!

2007-07-05 05:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by MRP 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-05 05:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know why, but they've always seemed tacky to me.

Be grateful for what you get...is this a wedding or Christmas?

2007-07-05 05:36:17 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

why is it that when wives cheat they are more freaky and nasty with the other guy then with there husbands?

2007-07-05 05:33:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I just got a yes from a girl I liked last night (I asked during the fireworks, I fealt so cool =p) but upon returning home, a friend of hers told me that she's the type to have a week-long relationship...I'm more of a multi-monther in the past. People tell me that I know how to treat girls well, but is that gonna be enough to make this last? Please help!!!

2007-07-05 05:32:17 · 26 answers · asked by Rising Rocker 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 05:32:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, what are the most taboo, or things that anyone has done/ seen at a bachelorette party that had to be kept a secret? i am doing a paper in my womens study 242 course and want some input from live people--thanks a bunch

2007-07-05 05:30:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are the secrets..........
How do you get it..................

2007-07-05 05:29:16 · 7 answers · asked by wildnmad 3 in Singles & Dating

He announced in a cruel way 6 weeks ago on our 10th anniversary that he doesn't love me. He went into counseling right after, but still emphasizes he 'needs time'. It is so unfair for me to sit home "waiting", doing dinner, cleaning, laudry and caring for autistic child while he has to make his "decision" if he is divorcing or separating or staying with us.

2007-07-05 05:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by JanK099 1 in Family

Dear cupid, sorry i know this is a boring question. now i dont compare myself to my friends or anyone else for that matter as i would rather be just me. It seems though, that when we're out almost all the guys go for them as almost all of them are big-chested. And i know that some guys dont go for whats just under their shirt (sorry if i sound superficial but i am just curious)Could i please get a good answer thanks x

2007-07-05 05:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thing we did this morning was make mud pies and have a mud fight!!!
Is it any wonder I'm her favorite aunt?????

(Don't worry, we showered and she's all clean now and watching ANOTHER FREAKIN' DISNEY MOVIE!!!!!)

Please don't tell my sister on me......Please????

2007-07-05 05:27:54 · 9 answers · asked by cme2bleve 5 in Family

I'm getting married Sunday, and although I can't wait to marry my guy and be with him forever, I am simply dreading the ceremony. I just want to get it over with! I feel like most of it is because I DO NOT want people to see me cry. I've always been like this about everything, and I don't think it's going to change.

Anyone have any ideas for me to avoid crying? Ugh!! We're getting married in Vegas, so it's actually just going to be mine and his parents, along with my sister and her boyfriend.

2007-07-05 05:26:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-05 05:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I popped my girls cherry earlier in the week, and after having a few more fun times since, she is still talking about a little bit of pain and discomfort. Can some ladies out there tell me how many times it took before it stopped hurting them, and possibly give any more advice.
For extra info - we are very comfortable together, and i'm being quite gentle and considerate, so i'm sure its not my fault :)

2007-07-05 05:23:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i was in like with a GOOD friend and he felt the same BUT we couldnt date because my ex of 5 years is alwso friends with him so out of respect we decided to stay friends. I met a new guy he seems amazin for now but when i introduced him to my friend it felt like he was jelous and he was flirting with me more... WHY ARE GUYS LIKE THIS????????

2007-07-05 05:22:47 · 1 answers · asked by evie1718 1 in Singles & Dating

When it comes to a relationship, even though you love that person. Should u stay with him even though the sex is really bad? Im asking because i know sex is a big role in relationships. And its come to the point where i don't even feeling like "doing it" with him.

2007-07-05 05:22:24 · 25 answers · asked by brwn_id_grl_4u 1 in Singles & Dating

This is in the new cingular wireless commercial and the daughter is in Vegas with a questionable character.

The call is dropped while the mother is trying to explain not to maker her "mistake".

So she looks over her shoulder and gets bent out of shape and tries to explain over the phone but nobody hears her.

What exactly is she talking about when she is referring to the "mistake"?

2007-07-05 05:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

As for me it seems to be wanting to get naked…..horrible….. no more shots…

2007-07-05 05:18:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm invited to a friend's engagement party. I sent an engagement card when they first became engaged (they've been engaged since December).
Is it necessary for me to bring a gift to the engagement party? If so, what is appropriate? The couple is registered already, but seems too early for registery items. The wedding isn't until June 08.
TIA

2007-07-05 05:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by EMG 2 in Weddings

I am 25 and recently started dating a guy I dated in HS (he was my first sweetheart at 15). I have traveled twice in the last month up to see him (we live about 3 hrs apart). Both weekends have been fantastic - lots of flirting, laughing, fun & more.

I am not used to dating, as in the past I've had mostly serious long-term relationships. For the first 3 weeks he called every day, lots of sweet text messages & the like. But since my last visit he seems a little more closed off. Harder to get ahold of, not as responsive (but keep in mind he did just have a serious family tragedy occur).

I want him to know I'm thinking of him and miss him. But where do I draw the line between flirting and acting clingy? He was calling/texting me every day, if I do the same is it acceptable or am I being pushy?

Also, when/how is it a good time to address our status? Will it scare him away if I ask if we are exclusive?

2007-07-05 05:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

take it?

2007-07-05 05:15:29 · 27 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, some i'm getting married next june, and i'm wanting some ideas for our reception.
we want to have a normal(esque) wedding and a really goofy, off the wall reception. we're not big on fancy stuff and impressing people with matching table decorations and $800 cakes like some people i know, and a few months ago we started joking around about getting a ball pit and a bounce around, and having some friends dress up in bear costumes and serve food.....well now we're kinda really wanting to do it...serioulsy. we think it would be hilarious and fun for everyone. it would also really reflect our personalities (he's a drummer, i'm an artist)
so anyway, we need some ideas to go along with our reception (decorations, food, location, etc)
i'd prefer people not to just answer out of meaness either, but to the people that are being genuinely helpful, THANK YOU!!!

2007-07-05 05:14:09 · 14 answers · asked by Intelley 2 in Weddings

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2007-07-05 05:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Singles & Dating