How to act during the early stages of a relationship?

Question

I am 25 and recently started dating a guy I dated in HS (he was my first sweetheart at 15). I have traveled twice in the last month up to see him (we live about 3 hrs apart). Both weekends have been fantastic - lots of flirting, laughing, fun & more.

I am not used to dating, as in the past I've had mostly serious long-term relationships. For the first 3 weeks he called every day, lots of sweet text messages & the like. But since my last visit he seems a little more closed off. Harder to get ahold of, not as responsive (but keep in mind he did just have a serious family tragedy occur).

I want him to know I'm thinking of him and miss him. But where do I draw the line between flirting and acting clingy? He was calling/texting me every day, if I do the same is it acceptable or am I being pushy?

Also, when/how is it a good time to address our status? Will it scare him away if I ask if we are exclusive?

Thanks for input. But what is it with the double standard on contact? When he contacts me everyday its ok, but when I do the exact same I'm clingy? Darn you guys, ur so difficult!

Answer 1

Everyday is a bit much. You are saying that he had a family tragedy happen and those things are not easy to get over. You can text him and tell him how you feel and that you are there for him. jsut do not go about texting him too often as that is too clingy

Answer 2

well you cant be to demanding or whatever b/c you guys are just dating its nothing that serious but dont try to be too bossy with him or asking too many questions.
you should call and ask why he's been so distance lately. also ask him what exactly are you guys and no thats not being pushy you just want to know

Answer 3

Go slow. Don't push it. It will happen naturally if meant to be. Don't be afraid to talk about it, if it comes up, but don't push it up. Have fun.