Want loyalty? Buy a dog.
2007-07-05 05:50:19
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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we need more info. in order to successfully answer your question.
First off WHY did you kick her out? Whatever the reason you can not fix a problem if the both of you do not talk it out, perhaps you need to go to counseling together. It is important to find a good one however or they can do more damage than good.
Your question is an oximoron if you kicked HER out she is NOT the one abandoning the relationship, and if she hung around obviously she is staying because she sees something worth saving, seems to me that you are the one who abandoned any chances of your marriage working by your hasty actions!
If you love your wife get her back and work it out you have a child to think of first and foremost, you and your wife are secondary to this equation.
Hope this helps and in the future do not judge us all alike women are not stupid nor any more unfaithful then men and I do not mean to be harsh but this is the realty.
Good Luck and God Bless you all
2007-07-05 13:50:21
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answered by yanni 2
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Well let me explain your question this way. At 28 you are not really mature enough to make a major decision like marriage. At the time it might seem like she was really, but she wasn't and she knew she had not sort out her royal oaks. She made a hast decision and cause your heart to break and destroy her family on being straight childish. I hope she can make a Mead's to you and your 7 month old child.
2007-07-05 12:54:54
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answered by Anonymous
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The marriage part is because she wasn't committed to the relationship. This applies to both sexes. Abandoning her child makes her worthless and selfish. You should be glad that she is gone. It is unfair to stereo-type by saying woman aren't loyal. This isn't the case. It was one individual.
2007-07-05 13:22:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Did you rush into the marriage? How well did you know this woman? If it was love it wouldn’t have been so easy for her to give up on her marriage. And I will NEVER understand how a woman could abandon her child(ren). She seems like a heartless biotch to me.
2007-07-05 12:51:12
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answered by Truth Hurts 5
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I don't mind making stabs at answering these type of questions...I just wish they wouldn't be so generalized.
Not all women are like this..you got a bum deal.
She was probably not as ready for a family as she thought she was.
As for making you kick her out, all I can think of is she wanted to be able to clear herself to herself by saying "I tried and he kicked me out". Even if that isn't what happened. Most women are capable of twisting things to work how we want them too.
I am very sorry you and your baby were dumped on, it just makes you the bigger person that you can be responsible enough to do what is best.
Very best wishes.
2007-07-05 12:54:43
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answered by Gwen D 2
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I don't think being loyal is just for women or men. I think both sexes cheat and can be deadbeats. Why she did this, well only she can answer that. Maybe you need to sit down and talk to her. That is the only way you will get real answers. Good luck to you.
2007-07-05 12:51:35
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answered by Angie D 2
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Probably because she wasnt ready for marriage or a baby. My guess is that she was married because she was pregnant right? Well take this into consideration and count your blessings for the child.
2007-07-05 12:53:06
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answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5
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I beg your pardon....but not women are disloyal. As per the latest research 68% of men cheat and 53% of women so sounds to me men are still leading far ahead in the department.
2007-07-05 12:57:18
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answered by Jane Marple 7
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If you kicked her out how do you figure she abandoned the marriage? She didn't - you told her to go.
2007-07-05 12:52:27
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answered by green_clovers66 3
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Sadly, many women are emotionally centered, which means everything is centered on how it effects how they feel. If something makes them feel good its good. If something makes them feel bad its bad. The problem there are things that could make them feel good, but hurt the people around them. For example affairs make women feel good, but hurt the woman's spouse and family.
2007-07-05 15:10:08
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answered by snack_daddy10 6
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