Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

my mother drinks untill she gets nutty its already broken our family apart once i am now an adult and can come see her when i plz but everytime i come over she gets drunk and load and acts ridiculous i dont know how to comfront her she looks at me like im retarded when i do mention something someone help or at least tell me how to coop she's out in the liveing room right now shreaming at the dogs to do tricks iv heard lay down like (no lie) 500 times help help

2007-07-05 20:38:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well you go through life
so sure of where you're headed
And you wind up lost
and its the best thing that could have happened
Cause sometimes when you lose your way, its really just as well
because you find yourself,
yeah that's when you find yourself.

When you meet the one, you've been waiting for
and she's everything, that you want and more
You look at her and you finally start to live for someone else
And then you find yourself,
yeah that's when you find yourself

2007-07-05 20:30:46 · 2 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

I give him sex as much as i can but if he goes one day with out having sex. he becomes mad and starts saying that i''am cheating on him . what would you do ?

2007-07-05 20:29:53 · 34 answers · asked by chelie2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf is becoming distant. He leaves at night all the time, since i work a grave yard shift i can not join him. His drinking has incressed and his attitude towards life and me is getting worse. Is he lonley? alchoholic? Or mabey he just needs space. I want things to work out but its starting to affect me.

2007-07-05 20:25:10 · 23 answers · asked by ladyofthenight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okayy.so i've been so confused and so i really want the advice of peopleee! i willl awardd best answersss! =). Anyways, so my question is, i've been into this one girl since october. And the thing is, we met this year and we've become very close.We pratically talk everyday and we share everything together. We're pratically like each others best friend. We have our own song, etc etc.
So one day, we kinda got in a small misunderstanding, but then i left to on a trip. and then i got to know this other girl better! We pratically did everything together over at the trip. We had the same problem, we couldnt or cantt get the girl/ guy we wanted. But trust me, we did everything together. Watched movies, watched fireworks, ate, gosspied. We carried each others bags in the airport. (this was a schooltrip btw) And i started to get into this girl. i started to get a little into this girl, because of all the things we did together. Now shes moved halfway across the world, and im confused who

2007-07-05 20:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but im afraid we will not gonna be able to cope up with bills.we have a 2 yrs old son i want to see him growing up.we have alot of bills to, and i cant stop spending. i tried doing bussiness like selling stuff but it wont last .

2007-07-05 20:23:44 · 11 answers · asked by shebang 1 in Family

My boyfriend uses drugs, which is something I am very against. He lied to me about it up until a month ago, and I knew all along that he was lying. He orders drugs online and pays extreme amounts (hundreds of dollars). He's really sweet but I just can't get past the drug use and how he lied about it. Our one-year anniversary is in 2 weeks. Part of me really wants to break up, but part of me really wants to stay together. Any suggestions?

2007-07-05 20:19:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but the thing is i started it and i could only get to a point and i was stucker than hell

2007-07-05 20:13:35 · 23 answers · asked by Mandy M 1 in Singles & Dating

So i am in a relationship with the same guy for a year in August. I'm feeling like he is someone I could easily spend the rest of my life with. We don't live together but still maintain a great relationship. But I am feeling in my heart that if we are so compatible and we get along great what's the next step. I never ever bring up the "marriage" topic but he has been making comments like "well I can't see myself getting married anytime soon." or the latest one was we were watching a program on how women make all the decisions on wedding planning and he said " well when I'm 85 and get married she can make all the decisions she wants!". So what's the deal here? Is he dropping hints that it's not time yet...or EVER. Does that mean I need to ask him if he sees us being married because I don't want to waste time on this relationship if he's just not that into me...

2007-07-05 20:09:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my fiance was at a work conference , when her drink was spiked at the bar after dinner . she remembers her last drink was offered to her by a guy . she was told days later that she was latched on to another girls breast in front of everyone which she doesnt remember in hearing this she was totally shocked and disturbed other flashbacks started coming back to her . she remembers snippets of the night only she remembers being outside somewhere with the guy that bought her that last drink . guy unzipped his pants in front of her face she said " no i have a fiance " and he replied " ive had my eye on you all day " she then vaguely remembers giving oral sex she then remembers the same guy having sex with her in a hotel room . mind you she never met this guy all day or the girl at the bar. in the hotel room she remembers jumping out of bed saying " i have a fiance i have to go home "
we reported it to the police and guess what ?? he got away with it........What Now

2007-07-05 20:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,
i want something to give to me bf hes a SWEETHEART.

but i want something like


time is a vauable thing but being with you...


and i cant finish it and it dont have to be like that.



PLZ do it and is if like it alot i will give you a give you best awnser.

2007-07-05 20:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he hates his boss,the country is going to hell,hates the traffic he must drive to work in,can't get caught up on bills,etc.I've been ill off and on and haven't been able to work-so he blames me for not helping although I keep a very clean home & cook like a gourmet.He talks very mean about my 10 yr old son behind his back, and it hurts me-my son's a good boy.Husband is very passive agressive.Everyone worries about $, & hates to work, but he acts like he's the only man who ever had to go through hard times.His mother has millions & he won't ask for help.Now my once nice, kind husband is hateful & blames me for his misery.He's very longsuffering.I'm so tired of it.If I raise my voice to correct the dog,he tells me to not 'yell' at his dog!He says good morning to his dog in a pleasant voice & ignores or yells at me about his frustrations.He's making my life miserable.He used to be kind & caring to me & now I can't stand to be around him.I dread his arrival home each day.WWYD?

2007-07-05 19:54:10 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend said it burns. i'm just wondering.
im thinking of putting that off for awhile.
how does it feel?

2007-07-05 19:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it tradition. or what ? is it essential.

2007-07-05 19:48:47 · 1 answers · asked by pandurang j 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's getting old... I have seen that question 100 times. I am 18 years old and I never met any nice guy... Only bad guys pretending to be nice guys... Each and every single one of them. Acting like they "care" in the beginning and act like they're nice till they showed their true colours. So don't say I'm attracted to jerks or bad boys cause I wouldn't date them. =P I have never met a truely nice guy or have guy friends. So you can't say, "oooh it's that guy that you never noticed that always has his shoulder for you when you cry..." Yeah I don't have that. So stop asking that, cause it isn't true. If it was, I wouldn't be saying this.

2007-07-05 19:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 9 months I have been talking and falling in love with a great guy. Downfall...we met online and he lives in England. There is talk of me moving there once I am done with college. Spending a remaining semester there for study to see if I like it and if we mesh. He will come here and visit me to see if we even hit it off. But can two people who have never met have those feelings transfer to real life? Or is the whole internet thing a fantasy we place ourselves in when we arent satisfied with the "real" world around us? I would like advice from those who have maybe been in the situation before. I mean I love this guy. I can feel that. I miss him like mad as well. Can it happen can you find true love over the internet? Especially when geography has ruled over it from the get go? Grrr! See so many questions and not enough space. Thanks for any input on if I should stick out thru the long haul.

2007-07-05 19:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by chillgirl87 1 in Singles & Dating

Earlier this night I logged on to a website where I happened to meet my current gf and lo and behold she added 3 guys as friends that weren't even there yesterday (I look at her profile on there as I clean out all my new mail from the site.) I ask her about it and then she tries to laugh it off, then she tries to throw me off by saying she thought it was weird that I was looking at them and said she felt like she was being checked up on and I told her it wasn't a big deal but then she made some hurried excuse and logged off cold. The last thing I told her was 'when is paying attention a bad thing?'


The whole thing is her and I have been together almost two weeks, get along great, are perfect in bed with each other, plus she always acts very nice and she is so intelligent. She has been so wonderful so far, I have been wondering where she goes wrong, and I believe this may be it. Her last PM for the night was she had to think this over and this alarmed her. Am I on the right track?

2007-07-05 19:42:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have wriiten a piece of poetry on esnips(betrayal of my life).Check it out.Want to know your reactions!!!
http://www.esnips.com/web/davis13munien-poetry
Thanks a lot...

2007-07-05 19:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by onella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i remember being with this girl one time, and, when we woke up her make-up was all over my pillow, and she hade dark marks on her face, that she cover up with the make-up, wow! i was shocked,lol

2007-07-05 19:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by hardybody111 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 19:37:20 · 9 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 16 and a couple days ago I went out with a guy I’ve known since I was little, who is now 19. We just reconnected. Our families are part of the same circle of friends. I had a nice time with him and at the end of our date he gave me a peck (this being my first kiss). It was pretty obvious we liked each other, and a couple days later we went out again. By the end of the “date” we had made out watching a movie. However, that night, the more I kissed him, the less affectionate I felt. After he had left, I didn’t even know if I like him or not. He’s been texting me since and wanting to hang out. I never really wanted a “boyfriend” because I’m a good student who puts school before anything else. My main concern is getting distracted, which I already am. I don’t want to hurt him because he’s really nice, but I just want to remain friends, or maybe even friends with benefits. I still don’t know if I like him or not, and he’s waiting to hear back about another date. What should I do??

2007-07-05 19:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by rkatz920 2 in Singles & Dating

no first night till now because m scared whether it will go normally or not

2007-07-05 19:30:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so I really, really like this girl. She's one of my best friends, and we've known each other for a couple years. Back in may on a band trip in canada, I started liking her as more than a friend. The problem is she already has a boyfriend, and I don't know how things are going between them at all, good or bad. A few weeks later, we were at this carnival (Said bf wasnt there) and on the zipper we ended up holding hands. I was all guilty and stuff for a while, and then because of that she figured out I liked her. A few weeks later, I told her that it was just a little crush and I didn't like her like that anymore. The thing is, I still really really like her and can't stop thinking about her, even though I just saw her yesterday all afternoon and spent all day Monday with her. What should I do????? Am I just messed up and only like people I can't get since I had a similar problem b4?? I was thinking, should I just send her an email now telling her i still like her?

2007-07-05 19:26:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for a while now and we've gone through so many things. We usta talk all the time and tell each other everything. Now-a-days, we don't talk at all becuz he's too busy w/ sports, his friends, and boy cousins. We don't even communicate like that anymore, and when we do we argue becuz we don't talk, I have to fight just to get his attention when we talk, I cry scream, etc....I love him and he loves me, I'm giving my all to this guy and I don't feel like he's doin the same, I don't know what to do anymore, plz somebody help me!!!!

2007-07-05 19:26:04 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I like all these guys and they say they like me......we go out they try to get to third base.....i wont let them.......they get mad.....they break up with me! I havent been able to find a nice decent guy to be my bf thru HS. Can anyone give me any advice or help me in anyway? Possibly a mail order boyfriend catalog? Jus kidding PLEAS HELP ME!!

2007-07-05 19:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by nicolas~cage~luver 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems that women only want jerks these days.

2007-07-05 19:22:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am average looking, but I do not want to dance alone. I have done salsa before but never been to a ballroom before. any advise would be helpful.

2007-07-05 19:20:10 · 4 answers · asked by ahisha 2 in Singles & Dating

they always say its best if you plan your wedding early. well i am looking for a website i can customize everything dresses to tuxedos. cause i want a preview of what it will look like. i wanna know if it will look good. so if anyone knows a website i can go to too customize it. please let me know. thanks! and God Bless you!

2007-07-05 19:18:20 · 5 answers · asked by anna panda! 1 in Weddings

2007-07-05 19:18:14 · 15 answers · asked by Indresh R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now that the US has taken a backseat and the Devil incarnate GW Bush has been leashed by the Democrats.... his lapdogs are now setting up new ways of tarnishing and reviving anti muslim sentiments...
one is that you have achieved by a nicely planned foiled set up of the airport bombing....with pics for all to see...
Two, you connect a particular country and then a profession where Indians excel to the bombing and give it wide publicity. and u kill two birds with one stroke....

Revive all enimities and cut out employment opportunities.....

2007-07-05 19:18:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce