okayy.so i've been so confused and so i really want the advice of peopleee! i willl awardd best answersss! =). Anyways, so my question is, i've been into this one girl since october. And the thing is, we met this year and we've become very close.We pratically talk everyday and we share everything together. We're pratically like each others best friend. We have our own song, etc etc.
So one day, we kinda got in a small misunderstanding, but then i left to on a trip. and then i got to know this other girl better! We pratically did everything together over at the trip. We had the same problem, we couldnt or cantt get the girl/ guy we wanted. But trust me, we did everything together. Watched movies, watched fireworks, ate, gosspied. We carried each others bags in the airport. (this was a schooltrip btw) And i started to get into this girl. i started to get a little into this girl, because of all the things we did together. Now shes moved halfway across the world, and im confused who
2007-07-05 20:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*who im into. I really enjoy the friendship with the firstgirl and would love to take it to the next level, but i would also love hte moments we shared with girl #2.
i dont wanna ruin any of the friendships. =( whatt do you guys dink?>
2007-07-05 20:24:54 · update #1
SHOOOOT! i messed up! shes didnt moveee, she went on vacation, but now shes back!
2007-07-05 20:33:48 · update #2
Ok, this is what i've always told my friend: it's absolutly ok to have a girl as your best friend even if you're a guy.
I have this guy friend which i've known all my life, literally, my WHOLE life. I enjoy spending time with him, laughing with him, but hey, i've never dated him before. I don't want anything to happen to our friendship if we break up...
It's up to you really, you can date one of them (you choose who), but you'll have to be prepared for the other's reaction and what may happen if you two break up. Or you can just keep both of them as really good friends and go on enjoying life! Ask yourself, do you just LIKE them, or is it something more?
Don't stress, the right girl will come along someday, i promise ^^
Good luck!
2007-07-05 20:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by ~One Of A Kind~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with the first girl...it seems to be genuine...now with the second girl its more like a fling...you can across her when you had probs and she had some to and both of you were there to listen to one another...thats how one night stands work...everything is fine for the moment..if you do go with the 2nd girl you will be in a long distance relationship and they are very hard...and can easily break up a friendship...so if you do try that one be careful..
2007-07-05 20:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by acarisg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok ..my friend had this problem...maybe you really do like the 1st girl and ur just in love with the moments with girl number 2 what you need to do is think about which one you can't see urself without...then thats the one u should stay with.....then u need to sit down with the one u don't choose take her hand in yours and say u just wan to be friends because you just see her as a friend in yuor problem though i believe you see girl #2 as just a friend and u keep pushing it to be something more when it won't...
2007-07-05 20:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you if you like the second girl better. If you know where she moved to you can move to where she is but if your not going to go after the second girl and you like her better than the first girl you shouldn't still go out with the first girl. You'll regret it and you'll keep thinking about the second girl.
2007-07-05 20:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not married to either of them. Just date them and enjoy yourself until you find the right one. You are evidentally not ready to settle to one girl right now. It does not sound like either one was the right girl for you. She will come along one day. Don't be so anxious!!
2007-07-05 20:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
such as you reported you have the whole 365 days so take it sluggish invite him to do issues that are casual in the initiating. enable him get to comprehend you and notice the place it is going and the lady that bothers you...Ask your self if he likes her and is he relationship her once you date somebody you have their pals and that they are going to be around a lot. would you elect the guy you have been relationship to allow you to comprehend ought to no longer considered one of your pals around? stable success!
2016-09-29 04:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by lepeska 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋