no first night till now because m scared whether it will go normally or not
2007-07-05 19:30:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Discuss in detail about this with husband with procedures clearing all doubts & apprehensions which everybody has before the very first experience which is actually very exciting , pleasing & wonderful. After that you will yourself invite him to perform the same more & more daily, rest assured. Yours is love marriage, even then u r scared of him ? Actually the first sex is the most pleasant & memorable moment of the whole lifetime of a girl giving a short glimpse of heavenlike pleasure & u r scared of that like a great fool. Before doing sex clarify about the G - spot of a man & a woman so that both of u enjoy sex maximum. Most of newly married couple do not know about this fact. Gather up your entire guts & face it fearlessly with full enthusiasm till you reach orgasm very nicely. There is no pain even if your hymen is intact. You will enjoy at least 10 times more than him as God has made girls so. A girl is lucky who has sex daily. Good couples enjoy it daily at least thrice.
2007-07-05 21:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Scared of the pain? Relax. As you are 22 you should know that sex is an important part of married life. And at this age and that also after marriage if you dont have sex with your husband he will first of all think that you are scared because you had sex with some one else before marriage and after that your marriage may break.
Now, you stop getting scared. There are crores and crores of women who are having sex. Has the sky fallen down on their head and did the earth crack under their feet.. All the women are doing fine and you will also do much much better than you expected. And since it is your first experience dont worry if you dont go 'normally'(I did't understand what do you mean by 'normally')
All the best. Have fun. God bless.
2007-07-06 03:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by BOND_BOND2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is one of the best things to do in lifetime. Didn’t u imagine those lovely moments of your completion, when u fully live your self in his arms. U r so lucky and brave it is a big achievement to marry someone u love from heart. And for how long do u think u will run from it .
Don’t wait anymore just go for it , and I know after reading our suggestion you will get the wonderful experience of life tonight only. Enjoy your 1st night as much as and play it beautifully.
1st love,1st night, 1st marriage and 1st kid are among other few things which one can never forget till last breath, so make it wonderful.
All the best.
2007-07-06 03:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A love marriage? Listen, we all marry for love..
And you shouldnt worry about the first night.....if it will go normally..... If you love each other then you should be comfortable enough to relax and enjoy one another. If everything doesnt turn out like you fantasize , dont sweat it... just think of it as an adventure you and your husband shared... And remember, practice, practice,practice..
2007-07-06 02:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by soulcatcher 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.
First find out why you get away form sex. do you have any
fear about the sex. Sex is required for humanbearing it is
only way of releaxing human.
You sould tell your husband to behave like juntelman during
the time and take it casual. I also feel that you are bothered
with the presense other persons. I will suggest you to improve
ignorance in you and get concentrated in yours this will
help you to get normal.
2007-07-08 03:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sachin Belokar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all normal yar, at this age your vagina is fully developed to receive full size of penis. It gets opened up in normal way there is nothing to be afraid of.
Use some natural lubricants, and try to guide it with your own hand while inserting. Rest enjoy.
2007-07-07 06:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a lot that they dont teach in school yes !!!talk everythink through with your husband,he,ll be real nervous too.i,ve been married for 10 years and sex still does not come easy to talk about,so start from the begining,be gentle and understanding
2007-07-06 03:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by TONe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on Jannu u came to this world becoz of that :-) so dont worry and jus enjoy the act. Everything will be normal OK..
2007-07-09 11:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by shan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry dear its all fake experience u hear from outside, jus get into it n feel the pleasure love ur husband n trust him. nobody can hurt u n sex u without ur permission, jus go on a roll n rock it baby!!! all the best
2007-07-06 04:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be normal do not be scared. U don't have any disorders or u have not had pre-maritial sex, just relax and enjoy, your husband will do the needful. Just allow him to do it.
2007-07-06 03:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋