Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

My dad is getting married in 2 weeks.... second wife.... I love her!!! I am 22, my brother is 19, she has a daughter that is 19 and a son that is 16. I was going to call them and go in on something together, but it might be hard considering my brother lives in different state....


Does anyone have any ideas on what I should get them???

Keep in mind, they are in the process of building a house on a lake in connecticut.

2007-07-05 14:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Weddings

i really like this guy and he used to really like me. and i completley ruined everything. and i have no idea how to get him back. he is ignoring me and wont even respond to any of my emails. i told my friend to text him 4 me and he said i cant talk to her eaither, whatever that means. what should i do? has this happened to u?

2007-07-05 14:11:44 · 13 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Singles & Dating

please help better be hott

2007-07-05 14:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not even engaged yet...but I will be in the next year...we aren't getting married until 2010...is it too early to start planning?

2007-07-05 14:10:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i got invited to an all girls sleepover and me...im gonna go but i just wanna know whats comming to me...when i asked wut are we gonna do they said sleepover stuff with u and eveyone eles...eveyone has to participate...she says itll be fun...wut do u think were going to do...
she also said that theres gonna be a supprize for me when i wake up that has to do with glue and something thats gonna last for 24 hrs and is water proof....what does that mean.....

i just wanna know wut im gonna end up doin tonite with them, or wut there gonna end up doin with me

thanks

she keeps mentioning the glue and 24 hr waterproof thing and giggling...what is she going to do?

2007-07-05 14:09:41 · 18 answers · asked by Jack S 2 in Friends

2007-07-05 14:07:59 · 20 answers · asked by Merlynn F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 14:04:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you still exist and are u still single.. just curious.

2007-07-05 14:01:57 · 19 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you need to have $20,000 in cash to pay for a wedding or can you put most or all of it on credit? I don't have that much available credit ... yet...but i will by the time i get married.

2007-07-05 13:59:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and iam going half on the liquor how much will it be on my half and whats the cheapest place to get the liquor

2007-07-05 13:58:31 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Weddings

I am getting married next year and I need a father/daughter song. My dad and I both like country. He is big tough guy and our relationship isn't one of those mushy ones...I call him Dad, or Old Man...not Daddy. I want a good song, but not one that is played at every wedding, I want something a little more original.

2007-07-05 13:50:26 · 27 answers · asked by Emily B 2 in Weddings

I am in the Greenlake/University District

2007-07-05 13:49:09 · 11 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

I am about to seperate from my husband I have a 13 year old and 1 on the way ,so the question is do my ex have to pay chil support for 13 year old or just for the newborn on the way ??? can i get support for my self to ???

2007-07-05 13:42:50 · 20 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 13:41:05 · 15 answers · asked by stupendouswarrior 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past year, women have been texting my husband at hours of the night. I ask to see the phone, he hides it. He spends hours on the internet, chatting with “friends”. A friend created a fake Myspace page (w/o my knowledge) to contact him, Within 1 day; he was giving out his cell phone number, and willing to meet up with this person. This friend created the Myspace account after seeing a singles ad of my husband’s on other website, (It was created while he was in a relationship with me) wanting to catch him in the act.

He always claims it’s always someone else’s fault. When confronted, he says, it’s a lie, someone’s out to destroy my marriage. I found a picture of a half naked “friend” of his on my computer, with other pictures of her scantily dressed. When asked, he claimed they weren’t for his use, she wanted to pictures of herself for a website.

He claims he never cheated (had sex), but I’m not sure. I told him I want a divorce; am I overracting?

2007-07-05 13:34:57 · 29 answers · asked by silentprimadonna27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 13:32:00 · 26 answers · asked by $$kap$$$ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm almost 13 and a guy I like asked me out. We want to go somewhere with my friends, who are going out. I told my mom about it and she said she had to talk to my dad about it.

They didn't really talk, but my mom said "we don't want a teenage pregnancy" and they said no. My mom seems to not trust me to go out with three friends without getting pregnant, when she KNOWS that I am a sensible person and would never get myself into a situation like that. How can I get her to change her mind?

2007-07-05 13:29:59 · 23 answers · asked by SmileyFace 4 in Singles & Dating

I am about to seperate from my husband I have a 13 year old from my pervious marrige .
My husband and I have had a very stressfulrelationship for the last 4 years. My husband thinks he can hang out to all hours of the morning. 8-9 am getting home to me is unacceptable. There are always different women calling him all hours of the night. and now he is like dating ect. for a year with a nother women and 2 months ago he sad to me to leave the house and put everytink that i own on the street since that day i leave with my friend temp. as roommate together and havent here anything from my ex and pluse i am preagnent from him and he have no idea about it so scare and lost and tired and have no insurace i think i am realy scrud i dont know what to do in this position ??? shold i go to a lawer and reguest child suooport ???Please give me some honest feedback. I am in the process of making a major life decision and would really like to have some impartial responses.

2007-07-05 13:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 13:18:50 · 12 answers · asked by stupendouswarrior 1 in Singles & Dating

y dont girls like boys that are only four years younger??

2007-07-05 13:16:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 13:14:57 · 30 answers · asked by Amanda R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What makes you really like a girl? (please for older guys I am 23)
Just fill me in a little on what your likes and disslikes are!

2007-07-05 13:13:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 13:11:56 · 22 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend and I were high school sweet hearts, he was such a good boyfriend in high school. We shared alot of things together. I was his first and he was mine, but when we went to college he turned stupid and cheated on me and pushed on me. Well, I met this other man at college and I feel deeply for him. We had so much fun together, but when school let out we decided to give each other space because he live a couple hours away. And I miss him so much. We still talk about us gettin back together everyday. He treated me like his queen, and I never liked sex till I did with him. Although I have not did it that many times. My ex from high school be callin me tellin me that he took showers with his new girlfriend and she is spendin the night with him, and the other night he told me he had sex with her. I want the man I met in college back, but I still think bout my high school sweet heart at times especially since he told me about his new girlfriend.

2007-07-05 13:06:50 · 15 answers · asked by PREGO WITH #2 2 in Singles & Dating

About 3 weeks ago, my kids and I were coming home from church. I couldn't find my husband inside the house so I went into the backyard and started calling his name. He didn't come out right away, but he eventually stepped out of a shed. I could smell marijuana all over him. At first he tried to deny it, but I threw my arms around him and told him I love him and wouldn't leave him.

He then admitted that he has been smoking marijuana since before we met. He also admitted that he spends about $100 a month on weed and about $400 a month on Lottery Scratchers.

What makes this much worse is that we've struggled financially for our entire marriage. He hasn't worked in 18 months, so he's been using part of my paycheck to support his drug and gambling habit.

Anyway, he promises me he'll stop this time. But I know addictions aren't that easy to break. He says that because I still love him and forgive him, it gives him strength to quit. I'm scared to trust him. Now what?

2007-07-05 12:56:07 · 23 answers · asked by Lydia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 12:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If you have been in love with them for years, and you know that love won't ever just go away...
But you also know that that person doesn't love you in the same way; and even if they did love you, the potential relationship could never be viable anyway...
Should you move on and see other people? Even knowing that your feelings for that one love will eclipse everything always?
Or does the love for that first person constitute infidelity to any future partner, and mean you should stay single?

2007-07-05 12:53:58 · 28 answers · asked by tickle me emo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 12:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 12:25:36 · 16 answers · asked by 1st lady 3 in Friends

I hate to get all psycho-therapist on you but i need answers for peace of mind. When i was young i was in a violent relationship. He would beat me so often that i learned to accept it. I know that sounds awful but what i mean is when he was beating me i learned to take it rather than argue or fight and end up getting a worse beating. After he finished he said sorry he couldnt remember and he did it in a black rage. Eventually i found the strength to leave him. I then met a gorgeous kind man that makes me laugh non stop! Ive married him and had children. My problem now is im sexually aroused by spanking. My hubby doesnt mind doing it, he likes it if i like it. My worry is do i like it because i miss the beatings....? But i dont miss them! im not willing to go into details but im permanently damaged (and i dont mean mentally although i probably am too) so its a constant reminder but why cant i get rid of this niggle that i like spanking for the wrong reasons..........?

2007-07-05 12:13:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce