2007-07-05 13:32:00 · 26 answers · asked by $$kap$$$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To answer that would be impossible. Why? There are just to many to list. To list a few why most wifes stay are for exam. money, kids, low self esteem, and or still in love, but hopeing that it might still work out. So that is a few that I know personally from what others had gove through. Just don't find yourself in theis women postion someday.
2007-07-05 13:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all married men cheat. Heck, women are coming out saying that they cheat more and more! I think we all stay in relationships for security (financial and emotional), for the kids, and just because some marriages can overcome cheating. For some couples, it actually shows how much they mean to eachother. Because if you can work through that, then you have a strong relationship. Maybe not a great one, but a strong one at the very least.
2007-07-05 20:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
More men cheat than women, but a LOT of women cheat too. I THINK it is 50% of men and 35% of women. Although you never know for SURE. Actually I think that's pretty remarkable considering how LONG people live nowdays. I don't think my husband of 15 years has ever cheated and my sister's husband of 22 years, she does not think has ever cheated. That said...both of us have told each other that if they ever cheat and it was just a "sex thing" we could stand it and move on. A healthy, adult union/partnership has built up a psychological, emotional and financial bond that can withstand the threat that some bimbo who bumps up momentarily against the fortress of our union. Men can use a bimbo like a Kleenex and toss her away and never think of her again. If our husbands "fell in love" with her...THAT would be the END and they would pay and pay BIG. Our dignity and our emotional trust would be destroyed...FOREVER.
2007-07-05 20:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by ckswife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even put up a classification on the men? You think there is some magical force that changes men when they say "I do." Most men cheat because they have no control, also the reason why they can't keep it up for more than 5 minutes.
The women keep them because they think its their fault that it happened.
2007-07-05 23:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by jack s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not true. That statistic is grossly exaggerated because for some reason, in this country, we believe that men are dogs and women are helpless victims. It's nonsense. There are LOTS of women who cheat, and LOTS of men who don't.
And the reasons that any spouse stays with someone who's been unfaithful are personal and numerous, but some may be children, the other's sincere regret and commitment to change, commitment to their vows and marriage, etc.
2007-07-05 20:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer to say SOME married men cheat as do SOME married women. I don't believe most or all do, that's not being fair to the ones that remain faithful.
2007-07-05 20:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know and do not understand the cheating thing. Been married to the most wonderful woman for 26 years now, We gave our word at our nuptials (Held in Copenhagen at the queens summer home) and could not live with myself if I had. Was my word, and thats my honor. Maybe old school but that is the way I am
2007-07-05 20:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not so sure but I guess the wifey stays after finding out because she is afraid of losing him. The same can be said about the hubbie but he will stand to loose alot. Not all married men cheat but there are reasons that they do.
2007-07-05 21:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by msraylanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all married men cheat. I do think all people make mistakes and some even learn from their mistakes. Women have a tendency to be forgiving towards the people they love.
Haven't you ever done something that hurt someone else and they forgave you? If you say no, you're a liar.
2007-07-05 20:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by sunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure whether most or all married men cheat, but I can tell you why wives keep them. Who do you think we're cheating with. It's the married women / wives! God Bless you.
2007-07-05 20:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋