i really like this guy and he used to really like me. and i completley ruined everything. and i have no idea how to get him back. he is ignoring me and wont even respond to any of my emails. i told my friend to text him 4 me and he said i cant talk to her eaither, whatever that means. what should i do? has this happened to u?
2007-07-05 14:11:44 · 13 answers · asked by aminallover29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes that has happend to me! i hate it, sometimes i hate having to deal with all that stress about if he will email you back or talk to you on the internet or something!
2007-07-05 14:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,Yeah Im In A Simular Situation!
I was Seeing This Guy For Nearly a Year, On & Off..& I Fell In Love With Him, And He Told Me That He Loved Me. Then Something Really Stupid Happened, And He Wouldnt Talk 2 Me.. Its A Year On Now, And Ive Seen Him A Few Times In The Past Year, But Now Agen, Hes Refusing To Talk To Me!
I Txt Him, Call Him (especialy When im Drunk)
Its A NO GO...Really, Just Leave Him Alone, I Need To Do It Too... The More You Tell Him You Love Him Etc Then More Hes Going To Be Scared Away... Leave Him, Let Him Realise What Hes Missin Out On, If Its Meant To Be, He'll Get In Contact, But Dont But Your Love Life On Hold For Him..
He Wouldnt Do It For You..
Good Luck! X
2007-07-05 14:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone for awhile. When you give it a bit of time, you can figure out what went wrong. I would recommend you figure out what YOU did wrong, and then see if you can see if he did anything wrong. But work on yourself first. Above all else, please don't hound him. It will only backfire on you. Give him a bit of space, and there is a chance he will come around to being able to talk to you.
After you give it a bit of time, perhaps a couple of weeks or a month or so, if you run into him, or perhaps can see him, do so. Apologise for your part in it; and then see how he feels. Maybe you can sit down and talk a bit. If he is approachable, see if perhaps you can start seeing one another again. If after this happens he is not interested, then let it go.
2007-07-05 14:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea the same with me..please tell me it aint the same guy???his name begans with the letter "L" and ends with a "E"..omogh its like th eexact thing that happened to me....we went out for a while and then all of a sudden he stopped answering thru emails, txts etc... I quite dont really understand why but i think he used me for a while to get someone jealous.......but in your case i think that he must have used you too......and i think you should play it hard to get and just ignore him completely and let him run after you not the other way round....That way a guy knows that if she is really special its worth running after her (you)........ so i say keep a good head on ur shoulders and let it go and see what happens and dont make a run after him....
gud luk
2007-07-05 14:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I love my X more than anything in this world, but he doesn't love me like that any more. He hates the fact that I still love him and it makes him feel guilty. The only thing you are doing is pushing him away by e-mailing him and texting him. Just let it go and act like you don't care, who knows maybe he'll come back to you? Good Luck...
2007-07-05 14:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what you did but you most likely need to let him cool down and after that if he still doesn't want to talk to then i would say that it the end and you need to move on. I know its easier said then done but maybe if he sees that you can live without him just maybe you'll get to talking or maybe not. its
not easy and the more you press him the more he'll move further away from you. just let him be for a while
2007-07-05 14:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by KAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,wat went wrong?u need 2 figure out the problem and slove it.apologize to him as much as u can,or go to a place where u 2 can talk,so he can hear u out.if he doesnt 4give u,then its his prob.find some1 else.n no,this hasnt happened 2 me.
2007-07-05 14:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen..maybe what u did really hurt him and he is just going through a rough time right now trying to figure out why u did what u did...i would say..just give him alittle time to clear his head but still let him know from time to time that u still love him and care for him deeply
2007-07-05 16:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by tweetafanita_part_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah..I wasted 5 years of my life over it...there is no way to get it back...she is a diamond in the rough...but that is where it ends,.,
2007-07-05 14:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you cannot love someone you cannot have. These two songs give good advice : [A]...... if you cannot love the one you want, love the one you are with.... .
[B] ..... if the love fits wear it baby, .... otherwise it is better off to leave it alone..... .
2007-07-06 11:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by skeetejacquelinelightersnumber7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋