I am about to seperate from my husband I have a 13 year old from my pervious marrige .
My husband and I have had a very stressfulrelationship for the last 4 years. My husband thinks he can hang out to all hours of the morning. 8-9 am getting home to me is unacceptable. There are always different women calling him all hours of the night. and now he is like dating ect. for a year with a nother women and 2 months ago he sad to me to leave the house and put everytink that i own on the street since that day i leave with my friend temp. as roommate together and havent here anything from my ex and pluse i am preagnent from him and he have no idea about it so scare and lost and tired and have no insurace i think i am realy scrud i dont know what to do in this position ??? shold i go to a lawer and reguest child suooport ???Please give me some honest feedback. I am in the process of making a major life decision and would really like to have some impartial responses.
2007-07-05 13:23:28 · 8 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a lawyer you can get up to 45% of his pretax income in child support, and if you have a good lawyer the house. Call today the children need to be taken care of and your upcoming baby needs to be taken care of
2007-07-05 13:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off spell check. Look if he did that to you then why even waste your time. You can go after child support but most likely will have to wait for baby to be born. Then you will have to do paternity. You can do this on your own. Get a job and go to church. You should go to your local health department and get temporary help. There are single mothers all over the place with twice as many kids and they are doing fine. Your emotions are probably just going nuts now because you are preggo. Just pray without ceasing and you will be just fine! Good luck and congratulations.
2007-07-05 20:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by jaclynridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get a lawyer and make him pay child support as soon as the child is born. Some states will not grant divorces while a woman is pregnant but you can get all your questions answered when you see an attorney. Write all your questions down before you meet with an attorney so you don't forget to ask them anything.
2007-07-05 20:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be ordered to pay child support and pay for expenses related to the child,YES get a lawyer. Also get on medicaid so that you have some insurance for your pregnancy. you're still married and if there is no legal separation then I would make sure to get some photos of him out with these other women and present them to the court ...he won't gte much punishment for adultry but you can prove him unfit and unstable to have any custody of your kids.
2007-07-05 20:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, do request child support and get a divorce ASAP, you don't need a jerk like that. I would also recommend counseling. Major life decisions, as you put it, are not decisions one asks about on yahoo answers. A therapist can help you get on your feet, not moneywise, but getting a good self esteem for your own and your children's sake. No woman should ever put up with crap like that.
Good luck, I wish you the best......
2007-07-05 20:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should live with your family for awhile, definitely get child support and take care of your kids, you have to make them your priority and not worry about dating for awhile.
2007-07-06 01:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by rome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes get an attorney. But talk to him...Don't write!
2007-07-06 02:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK!
Really, why don't you live with your family. What other choice is there?
2007-07-05 20:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋