Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

2007-07-05 10:30:30 · 20 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Weddings

me = plane ticket to the U.K.

2007-07-05 10:30:13 · 34 answers · asked by Kumi S 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear blonde jokes and stuff and wonder if men really believe that stuff. I have a college degree. I think dumb is genetic or drug induced. Not blonde.

2007-07-05 10:30:00 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a different kind of cake(flavor wise). I have no clue what to go with. My fiance and I don't want a white cake. Our wedding is already really crazy. So any crazy ideas would be great. We wanted our wedding to be really different and unique. Something everyone will talk about. We really love berries(strawberries, raspberries, black and blue berries) but don't know what kind of cake to go with it. any suggestions?

2007-07-05 10:27:44 · 29 answers · asked by vanessa h 2 in Weddings

I was raised in a family that was 100% about vanity....My 3 older sisters raised me, and they pretty much showed me that if you arnt pretty then you're nothing. They made sure I was under a certain weight and made sure I always looked my best every time I left the house, I wasnt allowed to wear sweats. Now its completely screwed with my head!! Because half of me knows they were ridicoulous and theres way more to life then looks but the other half has been so conditioned to it that I feel disgusting if I dont look perfect when I leave the house...I know this sounds like a dumb problem, but I will actually leave work or school if I feel like I dont look good...should i see a phycologist or something?

2007-07-05 10:26:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mother-in-law is only about 14yrs older than me and very pretty for 56yrs we sometime talk about sex after a few drinks she tells me about how my father-in-law can't get it up anymore and when she drinks she gets horny i think she wants me to do her and i may have a problem saying no...i've knows her for about nine years since the marriage i even told my wife that her mom was a hot looking woman she didn't seem to care she also knows about their sex problem and how her mom talks to me about it ...i believe she feels sorry for her mom and may not mind if i did do her i'm not sure what to do
help..... i love them both in a moral way.

2007-07-05 10:20:37 · 15 answers · asked by T-Ray 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I start in the main bed with spouse, move to the foot, then end up sleeping in the guest room. What do you think is my reason for doing this?

2007-07-05 10:18:11 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have had this crazy gut feeling lately that my boyfriend is losing interest or is interested in someone else. He used to be so tentative and now we hardly speak. I know he is going through some tough things at the moment so should i just keep giving him space? He is 25 and alot of his friends are down for the summer from college and he seems to only be interested in them? I miss him greatly but I dont want to seem pushy or clingy. Advise please

2007-07-05 10:15:30 · 18 answers · asked by Just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 years old. I consider myself at least average as far as physically attractive. I'm a big woman, but not disgustingly so. I'm a really nice, giving person. I am very family oriented. I have a fair amount friends, most of whom are cousins but also others. I have lots a of male friends (one with whom I'm convinced I'm in love, but that's neither here nor there because nobody really knows). I recently graduated from a fairly prestigious university. I'm a church girl, very involved. I am about to be a registered nurse, making fairly decent money for a 22 year old. I drive a nice car. I don't understand why I'm not approached more, why the guys I like don't seem to be interested in me. I don't go to clubs and bars (and I understand that many people meet men in those places), but that's because I just don't like the scene. Can anyone help me out with this, based on this limited information?

2007-07-05 10:12:53 · 5 answers · asked by She's all that 2 in Singles & Dating

I am normally a very honest person. Being newly single, I met a guy at a club. When he asked if I have kids I said "a daughter." Now we've been together over 3 mos and I feel awful for not letting him know about the other 2 kids. My friends/family told me I did the right thing because we would never have dated if he knew about all 3 kids. In fact he told me about a woman he met w/ a bunch of kids who he did NOT date. I really care about this guy now. How do I tell him about the other kids? I believe he'll end the relationship instantly (don't blame him). Is there any hope for the situation? I am living in constant fear of his finding out.

Thank you for your sincere responses!

2007-07-05 10:12:11 · 13 answers · asked by Wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

My brother-in-law is miserable in his life and has the same friends we do and purposely instigates problems for my husband. He is comes across as jealous and is constantly comparing and competing with us? (jobs, money, wives, friends)

2007-07-05 10:03:50 · 16 answers · asked by Stressing Susan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And are their any websites that can help.

Thank you

2007-07-05 10:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by beccap 2 in Weddings

if you in love how will you know

2007-07-05 10:00:23 · 1 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

ok today my ex boyfriend called me and asked me if i wanted to have sex with him.i told him no because im still hurt because of what he did.when we broke up he didint say it nice or nothing he just called and said "its over you damn rich *****!" and i dont no y he said that! so i asked him and he said hej ust didint wanna be wit me no more.and now he calls and ims me and says he still loves me and stuff and i dont no wat to do i dont want nothign to do with him n e more!! how do i tell him to leave me a lone?

2007-07-05 09:57:23 · 44 answers · asked by Chri$tineeeee. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 09:53:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 09:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 6 Jon Michael Diane Regina Phil and Pam

2007-07-05 09:50:30 · 12 answers · asked by Heidi R 2 in Family

My fiancee and i would like to invite most of our family members and friends to our wedding. This will mean a pretty big group, around 350 pax. Since we want to include everyone, serve delicious food, have good entertainment and decor, we need to find ways to budget in other areas. Here in the Philippines it is not unusual for guests who are close to one another (like siblings and their wives or football buddies) to be given a shared invitation. Basically meaning one invitation with two couples written on it or three buddies, or the like, then they just inform each other of the details. I personally don't mind when this happens to me but i would like to know your opinion, would it really matter a lot to you to share an invitation?

Just a question ok, i haven't done anything yet so no violent reactions! Thanks!

2007-07-05 09:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by kissy 1 in Weddings

2007-07-05 09:48:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok do you like want her to be a slut or a bad girl or a good girl..and what are some qualities you like to see?

2007-07-05 09:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by Preppy! 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now and he really wants to meet me and I want to meet him. Should I be scared or should I stop worrying so much. We are bolth 21 and we bolth have 1 year old tottlers that are with us full time, so does that make him a good guy? Should I take the chance and go out on a night with him? There is a Hotel invoved and he nows I dont want to do anything, but is he going to do somthing that I dont want him to do or try anyways?

2007-07-05 09:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 15 years...we dated for 7 years, married for 7 years and have been separated and living apart for the past year. We have a 4 year old daughter. He is living several states away and has a job that involves travel every day of the week. About 2 years into our marriage we had a miscarriage and following that my husband had an affair with a married co-worker. When I found out it devastated me and I went into a downward spiral. About 5 months later I became pregnant unexpectedly. We agreed we loved each other and wanted to work it out. But we struggled over the next couple of years with trust issues, depression, jealousy, doubt. Last year I found out my husband was having a 2nd affair with another married coworker. I angrily confronted him and packed his bags and he left. The past year he has progressed greatly in his affair with this woman. I have told him I love him and am sorry for the past and want to save our marriage and family. He has rejected me. Help

2007-07-05 09:40:02 · 26 answers · asked by Heartbroken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can understand wanting to please your partner, but I'm a guy and even I wouldn't ask a girl to do that. I wanna be with a girl with some class. I'm shocked so many girls these days are willing to do it. How do you guys/girls feel about this subject?

2007-07-05 09:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy and his parents want us to be together. He is really shy, so his mom pulled him up off his seat cuz she wanted us to dance together. He was with a friend, so when we were dancing I looked over and saw his friend sitting all alone. I told the guy that I felt sorry for his friend, and he said "I don't". What does that mean? Does he like me?

2007-07-05 09:39:18 · 12 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm female 24 yrs old and have a bf that is 30 ans we been together on and off for 2 years now. I wanted to go back to school and I expressed my feelings with my bf. He keeps talking to me about how will I get to school if we happen to break up. Even though we talked things over and over again. He thinks if I go back to school I won't have any money for paying it. I was planning on changing my work in the morning and when school is done I can get a job right away. I want to be a medical assistant and its a high demand job. I want to continue my education, but my bf keeps threating me by saying we are going to break up and I'm afraid to start school and not being able to finish due to my bf's own insecurities of himself. Talking has gotten me no where with him and he don't seem to give a rats butt about me.

2007-07-05 09:37:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and married with two children. I have been talking to some family members and have found that as you get older it seems like you only really keep a few friends. Is it normal to loose friends as you age? Is it normal that my only friends are related to me? I have found the same situation with people who are not married and have no children. I am I normal being friendless or does everyone hate my family so thats why we have no friends:)

2007-07-05 09:36:19 · 26 answers · asked by Amber G 1 in Friends

Sorry, this is going to be a long one, because I really need advice. First off, I’m fifteen. But PLEASE don’t give me crappy, you’re too young for this, answers. That’s not what I’m looking for, I’m not too young to love. Anyway.

I went out with this guy for over a year. We had a pretty great relationship. We didn’t see each SUPER often or anything, but I was happy with us, and I think he was too. He told me he loved me and that I meant the world to him and all that. I loved him, too. I didn’t mind the amount of time we spent together because, after all, we’re only in highschool. I figured, why rush things when I have a lot of time with this guy?

But in a moment of stupidity, I broke up with him three weeks ago. We talked about it a few days later, and I apologized and explained things. He understood and we got back together. We went three weeks without talking. That was very odd, even for us. But I didn’t mind, because we were in love, and, like I said, we had a lot of time.

On Sunday evening, he got on aim, so we talked. He was short with me, though, and didn’t say much. I sensed something was wrong, but he kept denying it. Finally I convinced him to tell me, and he took me by TOTAL surprise when he said that he wanted to break up. He said that all we ever were was friends, and he never really loved me. He had thought it was something, but it wasn’t. I was so upset. He apologized for breaking up on AIM, but said that he was leaving for NY that night and felt he had to tell me. But I’d had to convince him to tell me!

I know for a fact that there are only three people on aim that he talks to: me, my best friend, and one of his friends. So he really only gets on to talk to me. last night he was on for two hours. I was away the whole time, but I was there. He didn’t bother to im me, but he did stay on, and neither of the other two were on! He’s on again now, has been for an hour.

My questions: Why did he break up with me, and what’s going on now?! I find it somewhat hard to believe that after all the time we were together, he realized he never loved me. Advice needed badly!

2007-07-05 09:34:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

continuously yell at u for no good reason?? i am always getting yelled at!

2007-07-05 09:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-05 09:31:55 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wondering. Plenty of guys look at mine, so does that necesserily mean they like me???

2007-07-05 09:31:36 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating