Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

Is it ok to have sex with a friend? If so, how would i bring the situation up?

2007-07-05 09:31:09 · 24 answers · asked by USC Gamecock 2 in Singles & Dating

Just found out that my husband took a line of credit against our home to buy land in the country without disclosing our marriage to the lender.

Even though my name is not on the title to the house (he bought it before we married), it has accrued significant value/equity since our marriage. Also he has of course not put my name on the title to the land he recently purchased.

On the "affadavit of borrower" there is a part that says that he is single (if married spouse must also sign).

He signed this affadavit and other papers pertaining to the loan in front of a notary to get this line of credit/loan.

Is it then considered perjury?

Anyone have any idea's or thoughts on this whole subject?

2007-07-05 09:30:47 · 10 answers · asked by Chikadee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I am a 16 year old girl who has dark blonde hair and is really tall. I am 2 or 3 inches over 6 feet!! And i have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed and never been asked out.

Am I too tall?
Do guys not like tall girls? Are they afraid of my height?
How tall are you guys and where can i find some tall and sweet guys?

HELP. what do you think?

2007-07-05 09:27:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so ive been confused on this topic for so long! Theres this guy that i really have a thing for. We are really close and do a lot together and always make eachother laugh, you know..the basic stuff. Ive fallen for him and ive felt this way for a while now, he knows how I feel. I might just be in love with him. As summer has started I havent talked to him in a few weeks. We are planning on hanging out. I do not know what to do about this problem because i cant get over him so what do I do? He doesnt love me back.

2007-07-05 09:23:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-05 09:22:45 · 18 answers · asked by Izzy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-05 09:22:26 · 36 answers · asked by steve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 09:18:44 · 6 answers · asked by Naptune Aka Desh 2 in Friends

I recently met this guy... he was one of my friend's X-boyfriend, but me and her aren't that close so i can date him. ive been talking to him on myspace, and he seems to be interested in me... but how the hell do i tell him i like him?

2007-07-05 09:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I once read something about a girl selling her virginity on e-bay. Who would do that?

2007-07-05 09:17:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(recently separated) seven times in one day,and calling her two times? I read the texts, they were just nonsense...congrats.on your new job....want to play a game of cards...
This is taking place while I am at work.

2007-07-05 09:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Geronimo5 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 years old, and am expecting a child this month. We have been together almost two years and it's very obvious he has fears of alimony, child support, and feels pressured that I want to marry him. We have seen a counselor for the last four months and we know that we do not have the best communication. So we are not perfect but who is. He claims he wants to wait until we don't have that as an issue. I didn't have insurance prior so I'm on medicaid which could come back financially on us down the road. I'm simply a women who has dreamt about being married since I was little, and if a man is stressed out and feels pressured even after two years, when does one walk away to peruse being truly happy and finding a man to love me unconditionally? I would love him to be my husband and have a family, truly I am in a situation where pregnancy was unplanned (was on depo). I have tried my very best to not be a statistic, thus is life. I just want a man who feels the way I do.

2007-07-05 09:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by eurazianbeauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is sooo cruel....THAT PERSON DOES NOT KNOW HOW THE OTHER ONE TOOK IT.... the nerve...the many nights of crying...of course SHE TOOK IT HARD, JUST NOT IN FRONT OF PEOPLE!!!...(thank God she broke up with him)..he was mean....what do you think of that???

2007-07-05 09:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 09:10:41 · 16 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Singles & Dating

My man is getting hi as often as possible he claims he doesnt need help but i say he does i have threatend to leave and take the kids but he still does it and tries to hide it but i always seem to know. He will do good for 4 or 5 months then go on a binge off and on for like a month what in the hack can i do to help him stop and make him see and i am seriously ready to give up on us and take off with my kids

2007-07-05 09:09:52 · 14 answers · asked by mom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

mother in law over my flowers (she wanted to make them, but my mother in law had somebody elso do it as a back up plan)? She was my made of honor and her children were my flower girls.

2007-07-05 09:09:10 · 33 answers · asked by dumbblond 3 in Weddings

If you NEVER had a bf or gf in middle school and high school please answer my questions.

1.) Did you finally get a bf or gf and if you did how old were you?
2.) Did your bf or gf not want to be with you because you never had a relationship before? What did he/she say about that you not having a relationship before?
3.) On what date did your first bf or gf ask you how many relationships you had in the past? (Ex. first date, 2nd date, never...etc.)
4.) Does not dating in MS and HS affect your dating later on?
5.) Did any of your family make fun of you or call you lesbian/gay because you didn't date?
6.) If someone never talks about the opposite sex with their parents but they do with their friends, will their parents start to think they are lesbian/gay even though they aren't?

2007-07-05 09:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here are the good things.
•he sys, i love you and means it
•we argue about who loves//cares//wants eachother more
•he kiss \es me and hugs me
•he leave me comments on myspace- here are some examples
g2g
love u so much!
i DONT! whant 2 lose u
u love me alot but i love u alot more
Wow!!
i like love u like crazy love u its not even funny, i just love u so muc
Awwwwww!
thanks for the mess.
But hunni i love u more
ur soo0o0 sweet!
Ilove u!
wit the deepest pation!

but the past week, he hasnt been calling me lately. and i feel like he doesnt care and that im not as important to him. he was sick most of last week, and its a holiday, and i think that might be the reason why hes not calling me. what do you think? and do you think hes a good boyfriend? why or why not?

he hasnt called me at all 2day. but he is at a friends house...
i talked 2 him for only 4 minutes yesterday, but he was busy as heck...

2007-07-05 09:07:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister inlaw that is, weve had some 'bad blood' but usualy I can firgive people and move on but her its this never ending grudge, not to menton i feel like shes not my husbands sister but another woman(see my questions) so its like i am competing for my husband with her. its like she thinks she is the winner if that makes sense dont get me wrong I would never come between family just dont know why she is always on my dont trust, hate, list

2007-07-05 09:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by cuetee220 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I set up a bogus email and sent emails "From" a girl I had a feeling he was messing with or wanted to mess with.. it has turned into an everyday email thing where he is trying to set up times and places to meet to be with her... what he doesnt know is that it isnt her it is me... his wife.... what do I do. I love him and have spent 10years of my life with him..... and he gets plenty in the bedroom from me, infact, I go strip clubs with him. Not many wives do that with their husbands and feel comfortable doing it!!! I do! HELP!

2007-07-05 09:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, the only way i can contact her is thru email.Ok here is the Story.I saw her during my freshmans orientation.She signed her name on my bingo chart we played as a group.So now i have my college email set up and i am able search students by thier names.So i have her email.I hope that it is her and no one else with the same name.Of course i can wait till school starts and meet her.But since there is a way to contact her now. . . i wanna use it. So what do i do? Shall i write a simple email. . .. like - Hey this is Shan.We met during orientation.I was the one wearing a shirt and tie, all dressed up.Yeah, my excuse is that i just got back from work.Anyways i just wanted say Hi ' to you and if you were curious how i got your email . . i just used the address book. . . .what do you think ??? As long as i don't sound weird or crazy . .and FYI . .she is Hot and i am a pretty good looking guy too ( not that i wanna sound cocky)

2007-07-05 09:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by The_man82 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 09:02:10 · 6 answers · asked by Morgan Massacre 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has been friends with a married man for alot longer than they've been married. The man has been maried for about 2 years.

One day while the wife was out town the friend stopped over the man house to hang out and drink and smoke weed.

Next thing that happened was the friend woke to find him shoving himself inside her after she had already made it clear that she didnt want to have sex. In fact she had a tampon inside her that his forced lodge so far up in her it was a mission just to get it out. After this friend came to and found out what he was trying to do she got upset and left.

Was this her fault?

Should she tell the wife?

(PS. Be nice with your answers...things happen and people learn from their mistakes)

2007-07-05 09:01:58 · 16 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. We have a 20 month old son together, we own a beautiful house in Colorado and we both worked until he said we can afford for me to stay home with our son. (So i did and have been a stay at home mom for almost 1 year)My husband recently decided that we should move to New Jersey.He claimed that we would have a better life their because he wanted to start his own business there.So he transfered from his job, they gave him a raise, and he started his business as well. My son and I came here a month ago, and its been MISERABLE.my husband has turned into a complete ***.We live in his sisters basement (who by the way, hates me) he is constantly yelling at me And now, after all the talk of "we'll be better off here and make more money"he tells me that I have to put my son in day care and get a job.I had a job that I loved in Colorado, and a house.I had to give everything I loved up. would I would be better off leaving?,

2007-07-05 09:00:43 · 19 answers · asked by niransmami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told his wife through a letter about our two year affair. I never meant to hurt her and I wasn't the only girl he ever cheated with. I fell in love and now I pay the price everyday being the other woman. I just felt that we all needed to be on the same page and have closure. He did lie to her and tell her it was just a two time thing with a girl so that he could save my identity. He still didn't tell her the truth that it was a two year thing and I feel so . He dislikes me now and says I've completely turned his world upside down and that his wife is so angry, hurt and lots of tears . I feel bad for her I really do and I hope that he will not do it again but he has made me feel so bad and I feel awful that he dislikes me so much and I cry my sleep every night. I've decided to talk to a therapist for help. He screams leave me alone and so many mean things to me. It's a huge mess and I feel all alone. I know I made a mistake but I do hurt too. I would like to hear from anyone that would have any advice or from women that are married and feel that I did the right thing.

2007-07-05 08:59:40 · 12 answers · asked by crushed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

bf's mom, it's wonderful that she loves her grandchild,however weve known their family for a good while, & she knows i dont have family in our town, so i just thought she would at least adjust to having me & my son around from a prev. relationship, since they are a year apart and the kids live w/ me & my bf. i feel like she needs to include my son as her grandchild now. when we visit her home or she visits us, she brings toys and gifts for her grandaughter and not my son, okay fine it's her money, however these are children & they can tend to get jealous that one child has something & they dont , it makes me angry b/c i know she does this out of spite. she does this all the time. i even catch my bf saying comments about things,ie; he bought a puppy recently & he refers the dog as her dog, everything belongs to her & is all about her, it's not a jealousy thing, it's an annoyed type of thing, im curious to know how they will treat my unborn child? i just want them to recognize my son.

2007-07-05 08:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Family

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Actually she just requested the skirt, but i figured Id get her the outfit. Her office is just outside NYC.. so the fashions are very liberal, but I dont know about those boots the models wearing. I think she prefers the taller knee high boots with even longer heels. I dont know if knee boots whould go with the outfit though? Or should i just get her basic stiletto pumps?? Differnt color to contrast the black tights? Dont mean to sound obsessive but shes really into fashion, and this stuff aint cheap..lol! I want to do it right, and actually shop for her instead of buying gift cirtificates! Plus, its her 30th Bday, and I think she is feeling as though she is getting old.. so I really want to get her something she can strut around her office in and look and real really sexy, and maybe she can have some fun on her lunch break! LOL.. kidding!!

2007-07-05 08:58:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-05 08:55:04 · 48 answers · asked by Emma L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 6 years older than me. He's 26. I'm 20.

Today I talked to some 14 year old kids and I realized how immature they are.

Why doesn't my boyfriend view me in the same light? Or does he? Is there a huge difference between 14 and 20?

2007-07-05 08:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm afraid he'll just go get physical with another girl if I do confront him.

2007-07-05 08:52:36 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to a bridal shower and on the invitations we were giving a letter. We have to bring a gift for that letter. It's to be non-expensive....I need ideas

2007-07-05 08:52:31 · 26 answers · asked by Elle's Mommy 3 in Weddings