Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

Yesterday was my ex's b day I decided to tm him Happy bday b/c its easy to remember b/c of the holiday I thought we were on friendly terms but he didnt even acknowledge my tm and I am mad that I even did it! I thought we were adults and he could just say thank you, it was just Happy bday not "I want you" or anything more now I want to text him and say your welcome just b/c he is being an *** should I? I can promise you I will hear from him within the next couple months when he is havin downtime from dating b/c I know that is the only reason he did not respond is b/c he is seeing someone which I think is BS because just b/c you are seeing someone doesnt mean you have to be impolite I would have not done that to him. Should I tm him and say "your welcome"?

2007-07-05 08:27:26 · 32 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

he want to stay in the other state to take care of his grandfather and another uncle thats is disable.his grandfather is not disable it's just his uncle.and also if this person is keeping his brotherand his brothers wife baby because they are on drugs.And when this person wife tell him to come home he says he is coming after his uncle go to the doctor he will be back in town .so tell me what should this person do about there marriage.

2007-07-05 08:23:05 · 16 answers · asked by tosha a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a family cell phone plan with my ex girlfriend. She told me that she was going to get her phone switched into her name so i let her keep it. Her mom even told me that she was going to co sign on it. After I got the next bill I was surprised that she built up an unbelievable phone bill. Am I able to sue her for the amount of the overages and if so, what laws would I need to use in a court to have a case.

2007-07-05 08:22:32 · 20 answers · asked by Jonathan O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this man for almost 14 years. I found out he was married, but separated after we had been together for over 3 months. He swore that he and his wife had been legally separated for 2 years at the time I met him and he didn't think it was a big deal not telling me. Of course by the time I found out I was already in deep with him and my heart wouldn't let me let go. Now almost 14 years later I'm going through this bazaar crap with his wife calling me and going off as though she has a right to interfere with his and my life. We don't live together, but we are together in our home 3-4 nights a week. He's a farmer so he has to be on the ranch to tend to things the other nights. Anyway, this recent thing with his wife calling me is really getting on my nerves and he tip toes around with regard to her and I'm supposed to tread lightly and not do anything to upset the situation further. I'm sick of being last on his list. I still love him very much but should I continue with this?

2007-07-05 08:22:22 · 9 answers · asked by Ethelucy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this woman for the a few months and find her very polite and attractive. Likewise, she says I'm soft-spoken and finds me sexy when I smile. She works as a cocktail waitress at a nightclub. When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and hug each other when stopping by or say goodbye. When we talk, she always says she misses me when I've been gone for a week or two. I wonder what she meant.

Recently she gave me her # and called a couple days later. She answered for a short moment and said she's busy and said she'll call back. Later that evening, she left a voice message because I missed her call.

Last weekend she went out of town to celebrate Independence Day so I decided not to call her. Today, I sent her a text message incase she's busy to answer her phone or packing home or keep busy. I left a voice message afterwards to make sure if she received the text.

Do I wait for her call? call back later? or call her tomorrow?

2007-07-05 08:19:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend asked me to be her maid of honor. She has always been there for me through some of my worst times. I want to do something special for her. Any ideas on what I can do? She called me today because certain members of her family do not like her colors. I had to explain to her that it is her day. She is a people pleaser.

2007-07-05 08:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Weddings

how do i get the hubby to do more housework and help with the kids more without coming across as a naggy wife any suggestions would be appreciated and i would really enjoy mens insight on this as well

2007-07-05 08:16:58 · 23 answers · asked by lydiajw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

see who can answer my Qustion

2007-07-05 08:14:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 14 years and still can understand why my husband don't like to talk about his emotions, feelings, etc..

2007-07-05 08:13:28 · 13 answers · asked by Calypsso 3 in Marriage & Divorce

her husband asked for a divorce and doesn't want to work things out. her in-laws think she is overreacting by wanting to leave. what do you think?

2007-07-05 08:12:32 · 25 answers · asked by tmcblue 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have made up my mind that i want my husband to leave,(i own the house :) ) i kind of know what and how to say it, but not sure when.
not asking for advice here, just want to hear others stories of how/when/where you broke it to your spouse, how did they react, and what happened afterward? and have you stuck with the decision, and have you been happier since?

2007-07-05 08:11:40 · 13 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 questions:

1. What do you think of the name Audrey Mae, or Audra Mae? Do you have any other ideas for little girls?

2. My wedding is in Aug of 2008, but Im planning now! Any ideas for do it yourself wedding flowers, or favor ideas? I want to have a very elegant wedding, but I want to keep it cheap (as in cost). Ideas?

2007-07-05 08:11:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do Americans believe that it is not healthy to be, at least for a while, sad, hurt, angry or confused when going through a divorce? Everything is not like TV, people.

Talk to any therapist worth his salt and he will tell you that it is normal to feel these things and unless you are on Valium or some other happy pill, it is OK.

Also, as a final note, has anyone come up with a phrase other than "Get over it." That is overused and meaningless.

Wlak a mile in my shoes, etc, etc. ( fill in your favorite)

2007-07-05 08:11:30 · 11 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Marriage & Divorce

no on e in the WORLD thinks that i am responsible enough. granted, i can be lazy and sloppy but I KNOW that when u are a mom, there is no time for that! I know this and i'm willing to change! I'm 29. I have worked at a day care, i've babysat since i was 12. i have a younger bro and sis and have been around kids all my life. I spent over a year practically raising my friends baby when she was depressed and she slept all the time. kids love me and i did really good with her!. I want to have a baby so bad. my soon to be husband wants one too i think and he says i'll be a great mom but i think deep down he worries about it too. I don't want to hear people saying i just need to get off of my *** and clean the house, i've done that. what i want are answers from people who have been through this and made it out ok on the other side. thanks :)

2007-07-05 08:10:23 · 12 answers · asked by the1princessh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

After I have sex with a guy I don't want him to see him anymore. It's not that I don't like them it's just like what's the point in continuing the relationship after I've had sex with him. Is this normal for a woman to behave this way?

2007-07-05 08:09:34 · 54 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

how would you like to do it, and what would you do?

i would make her watch me f my new younger hotter sexier smarter girl friend!!

what do you think?

2007-07-05 08:08:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you tell your friends if it was small

2007-07-05 08:07:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

meeting a man who will want to be with me. I know that i would have to be hosest about my situation and i know i can be with a man with out infecting him by being safe and not having sex when u have out breaks so i donno but i do know i dont want to be alone for something someone else did to me!

2007-07-05 08:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends say i act to much like a boy i do stepdancing, soccer, basketball, softball and i love to skateboard im 9 i have a best friend well at least a pretty good friend thats a guy and i have a crush on him and a cute one help me i want my friends to like me again they are like you should not do that many sports and stuff anyway answer that and should i like the guy thats cute nice funny but kind of cool or the one thats cute and nice answer both

2007-07-05 08:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-05 08:04:17 · 9 answers · asked by roro 1 in Friends

We've had some issues and decided Tuesday that we would take some time to decide where we want our relationship to go. Wednesday I wanted to be friends but still hang out and stuff. If things get better & he would want to try again then I would be all for it. Today all I can think about it how much I want to be with him and would totally regret not trying to work it out. I'm unsure about what he wants. I'm kinda thinking that he might want to work things out but I could be wrong. He's hard to read.

But I've never met anyone else that has as much in common with me and is so much like what I've always wanted. I don't want to be with anyone but him.

How can I get him to understand how much I want to be with him?

2007-07-05 08:01:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 08:01:03 · 21 answers · asked by Ariel 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me and left me, my two year old and my four year old for the neighborhood sluuut.

I decided that he should pay. I got a rapid dog lawyer and now he pays me $6500 per month and I kept our five bedroom house and he lives in a two bedroom apartment in a low to middling neighborhood.

His mother says that it is wrong and that if I ever loved him, I wouldn't take so much from him per month. I say, YOU PLAY, YOU PAY. Agree or not?

2007-07-05 08:00:26 · 33 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Details about her:
She's athletic, loves to play the piano, loves music, drives an 05 Honda Civic, is a nursing student, and works as server at a restaurant.

Please give me some ATYPICAL answers. Really trying to go out on a limb on this one.

2007-07-05 07:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by TypeA 5 in Singles & Dating

Well my husband and I are married by civil, but want to get married by church, but we want it really simple, if anything just him and me only, we do not want a party, just get married by church to have that blessing, is that possible just us two?

2007-07-05 07:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by jess 1 in Weddings

What was the best method that your parents used in trying to teach you something?
I am having a seriously hard time trying to teach my curious son things that are potentially dangerous.
I had just spoken with him about power lines and the first thing he did last night when we got out of a car was touch one. Luckily it wasn't a live wire. I didn't see it when I parked there otherwise I obviously would'nt have. There has been many storms and one was blown down. Still I nearly had a heart attack and cried about the what if's until I fell asleep.

2007-07-05 07:55:01 · 11 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its been 2 months since he poped the question. We've been dating for 3 years. I love him to death but i'm scared! I find myself picking at things i never used to fuss about before. I start fights over the smallest things. Am i trying to find a reason not to get married? Since the day i met him, i knew he was it for me. He was my first EVERYTHING and i really want him to be my ONLY. We're both in our 20s by the way.

I just need some adivce. Books to read, articles to read, anything, please help.

I've been waiting for this my whole life! I dont want tor uin this great opportunity because of cold feet. PLEASE HELP

2007-07-05 07:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my dude 6mths on and off and we have been talking a lot about getting married and moving in together and such. I'm totally into it but my parents went through an awful divorce so I kinda want to avoid going through a break up that involves finances... what is the best way to avoid making finacial mistakes and how long does it take to REALLY know someone before you know if he/she is *the one* thxx!!

2007-07-05 07:53:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 07:52:19 · 17 answers · asked by jcoddy 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant stand when people chew and pop gum. Thats just me. What are your views on this and when should you stop blowin bubbles with the gum/ like what age?

2007-07-05 07:52:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends