Yesterday was my ex's b day I decided to tm him Happy bday b/c its easy to remember b/c of the holiday I thought we were on friendly terms but he didnt even acknowledge my tm and I am mad that I even did it! I thought we were adults and he could just say thank you, it was just Happy bday not "I want you" or anything more now I want to text him and say your welcome just b/c he is being an *** should I? I can promise you I will hear from him within the next couple months when he is havin downtime from dating b/c I know that is the only reason he did not respond is b/c he is seeing someone which I think is BS because just b/c you are seeing someone doesnt mean you have to be impolite I would have not done that to him. Should I tm him and say "your welcome"?
2007-07-05 08:27:26 · 32 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said downtime bc thats we he does not what I am waitin for him to do...not that serious and I am not desperate
2007-07-05 08:34:11 · update #1
Hun, the best thing to do is be playa about how you handle situations. It seems that you are a little tart that you and Mr. Guy are not kicking it right now. Hey, that is kool. It is how you feel. Save the text for when he decides he is gonna hit you up. You know as a rebuttal. Really what can he say? Then don't sweat him chillin with another one of his pieces. Don't you have things to do too? I mean okay you fell down and got a scrape on your pride. Now you are up in stride. The idea is to maybe fall down down but not to fall off. If you know he is going to call all you can do is stay on your P's and Q's. You are letting your emotions get the best of you. Dam that! Just like you expect him to be back, he expects some things out of you to. So play his game or run your own ? Your intentions was good. Says alot about your character but lets not diminish you shine with unnecessary actions. This is your game now it is his turn to play.
2007-07-05 08:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by mississippidiamond 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have one ex who I used to care about quite a bit after we broke up... when his birthday rolled around, I sent him an email that just said, "Happy Birthday!" To this day he has yet to respond and it's been almost a year. What did I do about it? Thought to myself, "Fine. Screw him." and left it at that. Looking back on it, it's entirely possible he didn't even use that email address anymore.
Now... do you know for certain that he hasn't changed his number or lost his phone or something? It's only 3pm on the day after his birthday. He might not even have seen your message yet. Maybe he did see it and just decided not to respond. You don't know for sure what happened and think about it... you guys broke up for what ever reason and he's dating someone else...
Don't text him again with something like, "You're welcome" because that just makes you seem borderline crazy.
My advice is to just let it drop. If he responds, then he responds. If he doesn't, then he doesn't.
2007-07-05 08:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Allo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you did an nice thing, and I'm sure he got a thousand messages if it was his birthday. The only reason I can assume that you are still upset is because you still have feelings for him.
Whatever you don't text him again, that will only make you look desperate or worse. Have confidence in yourself and move on.
2007-07-05 08:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Deliao 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are overreacting just a bit. Why are you so mad? He may have been busy or maybe he didn't know what to text back. Men can be stupid that was sometimes. Maybe he is unsure of where you stand and if he texts something back, then it will cause problems. If you text him "your welcome" now, he is not going to know what you are even talking about. He has probably forgotten everything by now and so should you.
2007-07-05 08:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by hotchic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you just leave it alone. I have sent texts in the past that I regretted afterward but it only invites trouble to try to rationalize it or to get snippy because you didn't get a response. Be the mature one in the situation and let it simply rest as a considerate sentiment from a FRIEND.
2007-07-05 08:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by mehadaroha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL you sound like I did a few months ago! My ex was also my best friend..... now he has a new girlfriend and she has done everything to get him to not talk to me.... and he went for about 2 months without it. I was like you i sent him a message and said happy birthday i miss my best friend..... and when he didn't write back i wrote him again and said well i guess you are to busy for me thanks and you are welcome! i thought he just completly ignored me but 2 weeks later he sent me a message that said happy birthday i miss you 2 can we hang out tomorrow? come to find out she had told him that i was talking about him and i hated him and all kinds of stuff! so u just have to get to the bottom of the story before you get mad! text him back and ask him if u guys are friends? see if he answers..... good luck he is a guy and i can't figure them out!!
2007-07-05 08:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it's your ex, he's not going to be all nice to you. Why would you even care what he said to you anymore? You must have broken up for a reason? And yeah, that is pretty weird, but still, don't text him saying that. That would just be stupid. So just go with the flow and ignore it. Grin and bear it, man, just grin and bear it.
2007-07-05 08:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He may not have received it.
2. You should give him a little time.
3. Don't worry whether he acknowledges your message or not. You are getting worked up over nothing important.
2007-07-05 08:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though he got it and didn't care or just hasn't gotten it. Either way, just forget it. You made a sweet adult gesture that he has seemed to just ignore. You are a good person. Just stop contact with him and find a guy who knows the words "Thank you!"
2007-07-05 08:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both adults & you expect him to act as one, then why are you going into fits because he decided not to acknowledge your text?
Exes are exes for a reason!
Leave it that way & move on with your life!
2007-07-05 08:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by D W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋