I've been seeing this woman for the a few months and find her very polite and attractive. Likewise, she says I'm soft-spoken and finds me sexy when I smile. She works as a cocktail waitress at a nightclub. When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and hug each other when stopping by or say goodbye. When we talk, she always says she misses me when I've been gone for a week or two. I wonder what she meant.
Recently she gave me her # and called a couple days later. She answered for a short moment and said she's busy and said she'll call back. Later that evening, she left a voice message because I missed her call.
Last weekend she went out of town to celebrate Independence Day so I decided not to call her. Today, I sent her a text message incase she's busy to answer her phone or packing home or keep busy. I left a voice message afterwards to make sure if she received the text.
Do I wait for her call? call back later? or call her tomorrow?
2007-07-05 08:19:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her time to reply back to the text and voicemail...She will call you when she has time...But you dont want to come off to her as you are drepessed or a stalker
2007-07-05 08:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she said she missed you she probably likes you. that was confirmed when she gave you her phone number. You should call but don't call too much. You might seem a little needy then. I don't check my voicemail a lot and if she's like that too, she may not get it for a while. So you may want to wait a day or two and if she doesn't call, then call her back.
2007-07-05 08:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obsessing.
Lay off, slow down and chill. Always give someone at least 24 hours to return a phone call or text message. Chasing text with voice mail is a little stifling.
Wait for her to call. You'll smother her right out of your life if you keep obessing.
2007-07-05 08:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by lystrayel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she calls you back, since you left 2 messages. (text & voice)
Dont get to tied down just yet, she could just be trying to make that money!
2007-07-05 08:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You texted and left a VM, that's enough. If she doesn't contact you in a few days follow up once more.
2007-07-05 08:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a day or two for her to call. you don't want to seem like you are smothering her. give her a chance to call you back, but if she doesn't after a day or two, then you call.
2007-07-05 08:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by i-love-olive-rat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait to call her the longer u wait the more she wants u
2007-07-05 08:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by DC SK8 boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait... Don't call anymore, thats enough... Just wait
2007-07-05 08:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't call
makes you look desperate
now look if she doesn't call in 3 days
then call her back
trust me
2007-07-05 08:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by bizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW BY COCKTAIL WAITRESS ARE YOU SAYING SHE IS ACTUALLY A STRIPPER?
2007-07-05 08:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by stale_bar_pretzels 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋