After I have sex with a guy I don't want him to see him anymore. It's not that I don't like them it's just like what's the point in continuing the relationship after I've had sex with him. Is this normal for a woman to behave this way?
2007-07-05 08:09:34 · 54 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not. I think your just afraid of rejection, you just beat the guy to the punch that's all. Be the dumper or be dumped
2007-07-05 08:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Leila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to sex, there is nothing that people should say is 'normal,' since it such a personal experience. That means that you need to find somebody that match your sexual preferences, whatever they are.
In your case it seems like you enjoy either (1) the chase and courtship leading up to the act or (2) the act for the first time with a new guy. That is fine, and you should go for it.
The only risk here is that if it is (1) that you like, you will find the field of guys (that are not just players or just want to have you on the side) that will go through this effort starting to narrow as you get older, and the effort that these kind of guys are willing to put in on the 'preliminaries' is less and probably contained to one night, or part of one night. This will be a problem in the long run.
However, if it is (2) that turns you on, you will be able to do continue this forever, as long as you realize that the type/age of guys you are able to attract for one night stands will also change as you get older.
2007-07-11 07:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of weird. If you loved him you would know it trust me. i was dating my ex, which was my current boyfriend and i went to my brother's house, there was a guy named matt there. The first time i layed eyes on him, i knew i wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. We are getting married oct 26, 2008. The thing so special is i never thought i would leave my ex but the things you think are impossible become possible when you are in love! One day, you will find the right guy and you will want to see him again after sex.
2007-07-13 07:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it. Total role reversal. You go girl!
I don't know what to say - I wish I could behave that way. The point of continuing the relationship is because you want more than that -- like you want someone who wants to actually get to know you and someone who is willing to figure out your quirks and be a partner in life... I think you are scared of being vulnerable personally or you just don't want the responsibility that comes with a relationship.
2007-07-05 08:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is diff, you are just doing the same thing that men do all the time. Dont feel bad but know that someone will at some point do the same thing to you and it doesn't feel so good when you are on the other end. Karma's a B*tch....
2007-07-05 08:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal for a women to have sex with a man and then dont want to be with him. A women body is precious, which she saved herself for someone she care for and love. A man doesnt care if the women leave him, when he don't have feeling for that person, he happy that you gave it up so easlier. A women will be called a slut, by everyone, mans do talk. You got to have respect for yourself.
2007-07-13 07:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your not ready to settle down... try not jumping in bed with men right away and actually getting to know the guy a little first. If you are already doing this then don't force yourself into a relationship... you will know when the right one comes along.
2007-07-05 08:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just means you been having sex with too many of the wrong guys. You end up not respecting them and I would bet they feel the same way about you. Keep off your back and get your self respect back.
2007-07-05 08:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many of them have you had sex with? A rolling stone gathers no moss. Shape up and stop sampling around. It is not good for you. Have you heard that STD is highest among people with multiple partners?
2007-07-12 14:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Deebari T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean whats the point? you dont just stop talking to someone after having sex. what about if yo get pregnant you just gonna stop talking to the father? sex is part of a relationship. i dont know how you came to your conclusion of once having sex the relationship is over. its mind boggling
2007-07-05 08:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Freaken men do it, so why cant we right? It all goes back to the double standard thing,where men are pimpen and we are hoes if we just hit it and quit it... So no I dont think you are cold hearted, so as long as you are cool with yourself, then dont worry. Just propect yourself and have safe sex. And on the down low if you dont want people telling you names or judging you b/c it does end up happeing. So be comfortable with your sexuality and like I said guys do it,so why cant we....:}
2007-07-05 08:18:44 · answer #11 · answered by Lil Miss Lis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋