Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

I' m a little confused because my bf of 3 yrs wants attention all the time and wants sex everyday. I feel we have a great sex life but it's not enough for him and the other day he says to me that if i really loved him that when I'm not "in the mood" , I should-would compromise.... when one person wants "it" and the other one don't what/how does someone compromise? I said to him by compromise do you mean to have sex even when you know i don't want it? his answer "yes". Am I crazy because we argued about that for a few days... during that time he maid the comment go screw someone else and i said be careful what you wish for because it's only a phone call away he said that would make you a HO... I said no having sex when I don't want to just prove I love someone would make me a HO. and to boot if someone is not in the mood it won't be any good because that person is just not into it at that time and it doesn't mean they love you any less. PLEASE HELP ME. ANYONE!!!

2007-07-05 07:47:13 · 31 answers · asked by damifiknow 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so a couple months ago a good friend and i started being friends with benefits...no one knew ( whole point) but then i wanted more and he didn't so i had to stop. I didnt sleep with him but just...idk we did alot. so now recentley i started seeing another guy and the guy i was "friends" with keeps asking me to do it again and saying he's jealous and almost seems like he wants me...idk he's just confusing me more!!! ahh what do i do?? he just keeps saying he had his chance and wished he woudlnt have been so stupid!! which he was...idk...its just confusing

2007-07-05 07:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Getting married in a few weeks. Have gifts for the girls, his and mine, need a gift for the boy. Thinking about a ID bracelet . Putting the little ones gift on bears. I would like them to have it for a while. The girls are getting rings, for my 5yr old I am putting it on a chain and around a bride teddy bear. for the boy all I can think of is a ID bracelet, put it on a groom teddy bear. I want them to have it forever, and I know if we just gave it to them they would loose them. HELP

2007-07-05 07:43:28 · 12 answers · asked by Curly 3 in Weddings

I only have two weeks to do this. I see him 5 days a week, but he doesn't look my way just good morning and good evening and sometimes compliment my dressing.

2007-07-05 07:40:48 · 2 answers · asked by Latoya C 1 in Singles & Dating

OK i go out w/ this really nice guy and have been going out with him for about a year now, but him and my dad dont get along. b/c last year my dad saw some girl messing with him and that was all he saw he didnt see my boyfriend push her away or anything.all he saw was her messing w/ him and him starting to turn around b/f he did something did and have tried to tell him that ever since. my dad just doesnt want to listen to it he says that it is why he doesnt like him i dont belive that i think that he doesnt like him b/c he is Mexican and came from California! i dont see the problem with that its not like he does drugs, smokes, drinks, or is a gang so what is his big problem with it. My dad never had a problem with anyone other than him even when my ex cheated on me with one of my friends he had no problem! i dont understand it! if u can help me please help b/c i am so tired of my dad being like this!

2007-07-05 07:39:44 · 3 answers · asked by *Heather* 2 in Singles & Dating

buys her son a $600.00 phone in case he gets deployed overseas and the 77 year old man goes to her work and stays all day visiting with her, would he be a friend as she claims or would he be her Sugar Daddy?

2007-07-05 07:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by Michelangelo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 07:37:14 · 2 answers · asked by mommalove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister who is older than me, is having a baby at the first of Nov. Right when she told us I said I want to throw her baby shower. We tentatively set the date for sometime in Sept.
Now, within the past two weeks me and my husband have decided to move cross country. He got a great job offer and they want him to start Aug. 6. My sister knows this, but she dosen't want to have her shower before Aug. 25. I was suggesting Aug 11. Her reasoning is that they are fixing up their house with new windows, doing the baby's room and her husband works a lot.

BUT, the way I see it is the shower is not going to be at their house so it dosen't have to be ready, there's plenty of room at our parents house to keep the presents, and her husband works 24hrs on and 48hrs off so what's the problem.
The issue is that me and my son will have to fly back and spend hundreds or live here for another month which puts back me getting job up there. What do I say to her without sounding insensitive?

2007-07-05 07:34:35 · 22 answers · asked by nickname 1 in Family

About 18 months ago she messed up, was hanging out with bad friends, did some bad stuff, got disrespectful, lied. We had to be harsh and give a severe punishment. She apologized, said now she could understand she was wrong, promised to change. But I was very upset, hurt and even after the punishment it took me several months to trust her again. I told her flat out she'd have to regain my trust, this broke her spirit, she didn't expevt that. And I didn't know my trust was so important to her. She got in a deep depression, buy anyway I thought I should be firm, told her I understood how she felt but I needed actions, depression wouldn't solve the problem. She went to counseling, got out of her depression, but our relationship was destroyed. Seems the therapist helped her deal w/ that situation and regain her self-esteem, but she didn't tell her to make up w/ me. At school she found teachers who gave her great proofs of trust, everybody says she's a wonderful girl. But she avoids me

2007-07-05 07:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a stariaght A student and on the student council. I never got dentention and some people refer to me as popular. I like my life alot, exect for one of my closet friends Kelly. She always mocks me telling me I'm a stuck up and a teachers pet. Sometimes she'll call me a geek and Ms. Perfection. And sometimes she'll get so far I'm crying at recess. All my other friends say she's just jealous, but I think she is far from jealous with me. Kelly is a punk/goth/emo person. She wears black everyday, and she put these ugly red and yellow highlights in her beautiful light brown hair. She get's dentation everyday pratically because she is not obeying the school dress code most of the time. She has a couple of friends but not alot. It really hurts me a friend would be calling me this. I set a counsler appointed for both us to talk but when the counselour had to go to the bathroom she said "I can't believe this" and ditched the meeting! (countinue on notes)

2007-07-05 07:26:17 · 11 answers · asked by granvillegirl9 2 in Singles & Dating

we are a very close family, but all are very busy also.my sister manipulates me,my mum,brother,boyfriend, into constantly doing things for. babysitting,shopping,etc. she uses up all our spare time,and thinks a thank you card is enough once in a blue moon. she has so much more time, effort and money put into her than anyone else in the familey,and then blames all her 'problems' on the fact that she hasn't got a boyfriend. it's my mum i'm most worried about.we look after my nan full time also,she works full time,and my sister just doesn't understand that she need's time to sleep,and rest.i don't want to cause a huge fight,but her complete selfishness baffles me,as all the other member's of our family try to put others first.please help!

2007-07-05 07:25:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-05 07:23:51 · 16 answers · asked by marge l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i asked this question earlier- it is for a womens study 242 paper i have due soon--i want input from live people. what are some wildest/ raunchiest this that anyone has seen or done at a bachelorette party that had to be kept a secret---especially pertaining to the bride to be? please provide me some details of actual events--and i am having real trouble finding reference sources on the net pertaining to this--anyone have any ideas?

2007-07-05 07:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Also, How amny kids and adults in your home?

2007-07-05 07:20:11 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle W 2 in Family

Dont get me wrong, I knew when I as getting married that men and women are very different. But I didnt know we were SO DIFFERENT! We like different movies, different music. He is very much into sports - I am absolutely not. He is very active -I am more mellow. He is very talkative - I am more quiet. The list can go on and go on. I was ready for compromising and understanding when I was getting married.The point of my quiestion is - how much different is too different? We've been married for 6 months only and I am already tired of constant compromising and giving in. Or maybe we just need to give each other more time - to get used to being together and to work out the perfect relationship?How was it in your experience of the first years of marriage?

2007-07-05 07:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This or That.
(1) Tall -- Short
(2) Shy -- Loud
(3) Breats -- Butt
(4) Blue Eyes -- Brown Eyes
(5) Athletic -- " Book Smart"


Just Curious About What You Guys Think.

2007-07-05 07:18:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you said or it was said to you

2007-07-05 07:15:36 · 54 answers · asked by <3 Just a Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

my ex used to want me to help clean the house, so i vacumed, mopped, did the dishes, ect ( i did my part)

so instead of her being thankful of my help, she complained that i didnt do it like she wanted me to or like she would of done it.

ladies this is why most men dont want to help around the house its not that we are lazy we just dont want to help and then be drilled because you dont approve of our work!!!

this is not boot camp!!!

2007-07-05 07:14:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know if i should marry him. he is and abusive person to me but i love him. what should i do. HELP

2007-07-05 07:13:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 07:12:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

compare Christ and His love for His bride the church, with our marriages today

2007-07-05 07:11:56 · 10 answers · asked by 4HIM- Christians love 7 in Marriage & Divorce

idon't know iof i should stay with my bf and stay with him when he goes to college or should i break up with him and be single and have a good time? but my bf cares about me alot and if i break up with hime i don't know what i would do?!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!

2007-07-05 07:10:30 · 3 answers · asked by partymonkey7 1 in Singles & Dating

We been friends for more than 14 yrs until we started this misunderstanding that separated and broke our friendship. I'd been so open to her about my personal life. I even considered her as my sister. I told her everytime i found something wrong or not ok with her which in return she viewed it as "manipulative and harsh remarks " but thats not my intention, for me thats because I care for her and I want to correct her. She doesnt told me it hurts her but rather turn to our other friends and backbite me telling them of my past personal life which I only trusted to her. Thats her way of revenge to me which is unfair. She should have talked to me and not to anybody else.

2007-07-05 07:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by MG 1 in Friends

They have been together for 10 years and still are together, he is scared to leave her if he can not have custody of the child. They have 2 daughters together 1 is 4 (that is the one he wants) the other is 8 months. She is abusive towards the 4 yrs old. She yells and curses at her all the time. Spanks her for no reason. So can he take her away?

2007-07-05 07:09:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-05 07:08:33 · 26 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-05 07:07:32 · 31 answers · asked by Mz. SEXYGIRL 32 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 5'11 , and still growing i think... I am 14. am I unusually tall in your opinion, and do guys still want me...BOYS, do you look at a tall girl, and say wow a freak, or say, dang tall girls are hot!? I am just wondering why I don't get asked to dance like hardly at all. (I go to youth dances every saturday!) I hope you can give me honest answers!

2007-07-05 07:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

I just posted a question similar to this but I need opinions please help me, my husband cheated on me with 2 different women and he says he will never do it again, but I dont beleive him, and I love him very much but I am so devastated and I cannot forgive him for this. Should I leave him? He says if I leave him he will try to hurt me, but if I dont he doesnt want to hear any more about this. Help? Im scared of him and I dont want to live like this. How do I leave him? When?

2007-07-05 07:05:53 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need my mom! I miss her so much shes my best friend and I live in Lynn Ma and she live in Providence why do we have to be so far apart?!

2007-07-05 07:05:37 · 3 answers · asked by Newlywed 4 in Family

I live in the DC metropolitian area and i was trying to figure out some unique ideas for my honeymoon next may. I already started looking around I know everything is so expensive. I just wanted to know if anybody out there had any good places they went...Oh yea I dont do cruises...

2007-07-05 07:04:26 · 12 answers · asked by lil_rj102 2 in Weddings