ok so a couple months ago a good friend and i started being friends with benefits...no one knew ( whole point) but then i wanted more and he didn't so i had to stop. I didnt sleep with him but just...idk we did alot. so now recentley i started seeing another guy and the guy i was "friends" with keeps asking me to do it again and saying he's jealous and almost seems like he wants me...idk he's just confusing me more!!! ahh what do i do?? he just keeps saying he had his chance and wished he woudlnt have been so stupid!! which he was...idk...its just confusing
2007-07-05 07:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need to stop and think for a minute. imagine yourself with your guy friend...can you see yourself with him? or can you only picture being friends and having fun and kissing and what not. think about the best decision, but then again life is all about taking risks. do what your gut tells you do to. and if you are still confused, talk to your guy friend, let him know that you are confused and dont know whats going on! i'm sure he will understand but you cant leave him hanging, and you cant leave yourself wondering what could have happened. if you are willing to go for it then go for it. if you want to play it safe and stop what you two were doing, then start dating they other guy. stop and think about it.
good luck =]
2007-07-05 07:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to him. The friend with benefits guy is only interested because he no longer has you. If you did go back to him, he would be fine for a while, but a guy like that would quickly get bored.
He just wants to string you along. Let him go and stay with your current guy.
2007-07-05 14:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love hearing from people who consider there low morals and animal like behavior when it comes to sharing one of the most intimate acts you can have with another human being as "friends with benefits".
And you're correct ydk. YDK about alot of things it would seem.
2007-07-05 14:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he got some play but didnt want a relationship and now that he knows your with another guy giving it up and in a relationship he wants a relationship. In simple terms he only wants a relationship to get in your pants.
2007-07-05 14:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by zeppelin412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-05 14:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋