Will u forgive a friend who betrayed u and back bites u to all of ur common friends?

Question

We been friends for more than 14 yrs until we started this misunderstanding that separated and broke our friendship. I'd been so open to her about my personal life. I even considered her as my sister. I told her everytime i found something wrong or not ok with her which in return she viewed it as "manipulative and harsh remarks " but thats not my intention, for me thats because I care for her and I want to correct her. She doesnt told me it hurts her but rather turn to our other friends and backbite me telling them of my past personal life which I only trusted to her. Thats her way of revenge to me which is unfair. She should have talked to me and not to anybody else.

Answer 1

You was more of a friend to her, then she was to you. You open up your heart to this female and she betrayed you. i believe this friend is jealous of you, so to get back at you she told all of your personal business to other friends. We all learn from our mistakes, its hard to truth anyone now days. Next time keep your personal business to yourself.

Answer 2

Hi; I feel sure you had ever good intention in trying to correct your friend, but, you have to accept people as they are and not try to change them. This will cause a lot of resentment if you try to change someone. I think your friend went a little to far to tell your other friends things you trusted her with. I don't know if this relationship can be repaired . If she ever got angry with you agin she may do the same thing agin. I would make sure I didn't tell her anything else, and find a new friend , and don't be to quick to tell anyone things you don't want anyone to know. If you have secretes you feel you need to talk about go to a counsler. I made a mistake such as your years ago . I could forgive but not forget. We are no longer friends but not enemys either She mover far away and I don't see or talk to her and never will care to do so. I was hurt to much to forget . Keep your chin up and move on.

Answer 3

you will never have that special friendship back with her. This will always cloud it. However you can forgive and move on. It is too late to change what has happened. Sit down and talk with her. Let her know how much you really cared for her and how bad she hurt you. If her friendship still means a lot to you then you need to let her know that too. Start fresh and build from there. Always FORGIVE!!!! Never forget.
not what you did to her or what she did to you! You may have hurt her worse then you will ever even know with your "HELP". Always ask from now on if they want your opinion. They will let you know right up front!

Answer 4

She shouldn't be talking to others about you but then again, you should not have been so free to "correct" her. And there are some things you don't tell anyone, not even a friend.
Yes, you should forgive her, more for your peace of mind than for her. But you don't need to forget what she did and you shouldn't put yourself in a position where she can betray you again. Forgiving is for humans; it's up to God to do the forgetting.

Answer 5

I think you should not let her come to you and talk about it
you go to her.Tell her she was only sopposed to kno about your personal life.Ask her why she did it and tell her even though you dont kno what you did wrong but your sorry anyway.Hope I helped
BYe

Answer 6

Your not her mother.Would you like someone to correct you all the time?Two wrongs don't make it right.You both have done bad by each other.

Answer 7

Forgive them.
From now on, keep your mouth shut around them.

Answer 8

She is no friend.....learn the difference....She is nothing but trouble........everyone will soon see......just wait and see......coming soon, she will start talking about your friends too.

Answer 9

ignore her

Answer 10

hell no.